How to talk your husband into a 3-some?

How to talk your husband into a 3-some?

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freak

Elizabethtown, KY

#1 Mar 6, 2013
I am tryin to have a little fun, get a little crazy. He isn't to into the idea. I said we could keep it private. No one has to know we are doing it. I m just trying to mix things up get things excited. How should I go about this?
Fact

Elizabethtown, KY

#3 Mar 6, 2013
Try not getting married next time ho!
Consider

United States

#4 Mar 6, 2013
I'm n or just u an me
Nameless

Irvington, KY

#5 Mar 6, 2013
Fact wrote:
Try not getting married next time ho!
...that doesn't make you a hoe
monica

Greensburg, KY

#6 Mar 6, 2013
You're just wanting some stange? You looking for a man or woman?
Fact

Elizabethtown, KY

#7 Mar 6, 2013
Nameless wrote:
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...that doesn't make you a hoe
Sure it does!
Curious

Frankfort, KY

#8 Mar 6, 2013
freak wrote:
I am tryin to have a little fun, get a little crazy. He isn't to into the idea. I said we could keep it private. No one has to know we are doing it. I m just trying to mix things up get things excited. How should I go about this?
You wanna join me and my wife? We're both curious about being with another woman.
Consider

United States

#9 Mar 6, 2013
I'm a male wanting to join n or me / u 1on 1
Consider

United States

#10 Mar 6, 2013
Monica mayb I'm lookin 4 u I'm a mwm
yeah

Casey, IL

#11 Mar 6, 2013
no one is leaving email or contact way so how do are you gonna hookup
Dr Phil

New York, NY

#12 Mar 6, 2013
freak wrote:
I am tryin to have a little fun, get a little crazy. He isn't to into the idea. I said we could keep it private. No one has to know we are doing it. I m just trying to mix things up get things excited. How should I go about this?
You shouldn't. He's told you he's not into the idea.

Keeping it "private" isn't going to help, because your husband will know what's gone on.

If you're prepared to put your marriage at risk to do this, then maybe you shouldn't be married at all. Then it should be pretty easy for you to get into threesomes.
dear abby

Campbellsville, KY

#13 Mar 7, 2013
Dr Phil wrote:
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You shouldn't. He's told you he's not into the idea.
Keeping it "private" isn't going to help, because your husband will know what's gone on.
If you're prepared to put your marriage at risk to do this, then maybe you shouldn't be married at all. Then it should be pretty easy for you to get into threesomes.
we belong to a select swinger club in etown have to have papers to show stds etc...free..we will be going to Gatlinburg this weekend renting a cabin 4 couples and then over to N C to the casino for the night dear abby said it was ok...
sunshine

Elizabethtown, KY

#14 Mar 7, 2013
freak wrote:
I am tryin to have a little fun, get a little crazy. He isn't to into the idea. I said we could keep it private. No one has to know we are doing it. I m just trying to mix things up get things excited. How should I go about this?
CAN YOU SAY DIVORCE????
lol

Elizabethtown, KY

#15 Mar 7, 2013
Any dude should be down if its with another chick. But if you try to bring in another dude there should be problems. Plain and simple.
freak

Elizabethtown, KY

#17 Mar 8, 2013
Thanks for the input. We have been talking more about it and it turns out it's a double standard... He doesnt mind a girl friend coming in but not a guy friend. I dont mind either but still..... Also, we just decided to bring in some extra "toys" and start lookin into porn. We find it much of a safer choice for us to be freeaks together and just let other people watch. I truly do love this man more than anything. I am very happy we can work things out instead of being up tight @$$holes to each other. NO divorce in sight. SORRY!
no clue

Elizabethtown, KY

#18 Mar 8, 2013
Glad my marriage didn't involve this kind of thing. I cannot even let me mind go in that direction. You have NO idea what marriage is about. I agree you won't be together for a lifetime because of perversion.
freak wrote:
Thanks for the input. We have been talking more about it and it turns out it's a double standard... He doesnt mind a girl friend coming in but not a guy friend. I dont mind either but still..... Also, we just decided to bring in some extra "toys" and start lookin into porn. We find it much of a safer choice for us to be freeaks together and just let other people watch. I truly do love this man more than anything. I am very happy we can work things out instead of being up tight @$$holes to each other. NO divorce in sight. SORRY!
no clue

Elizabethtown, KY

#19 Mar 8, 2013
dear abby wrote:
<quoted text>we belong to a select swinger club in etown have to have papers to show stds etc...free..we will be going to Gatlinburg this weekend renting a cabin 4 couples and then over to N C to the casino for the night dear abby said it was ok...
To you I would say I hope you aren't parents. What a messed up bunch. This indicates also NO idea what the sanctity of marriage means. Hopefully you will be ridden with misery.
monica

Greensburg, KY

#20 Mar 8, 2013
freak wrote:
Thanks for the input. We have been talking more about it and it turns out it's a double standard... He doesnt mind a girl friend coming in but not a guy friend. I dont mind either but still..... Also, we just decided to bring in some extra "toys" and start lookin into porn. We find it much of a safer choice for us to be freeaks together and just let other people watch. I truly do love this man more than anything. I am very happy we can work things out instead of being up tight @$$holes to each other. NO divorce in sight. SORRY!
Seriously... you're better off not going there. My exhusband always had a fantasy about watching me and another man. Every time he got mad at me for anything, he always brought it up....just saying.
freak

Elizabethtown, KY

#21 Mar 8, 2013
no clue wrote:
Glad my marriage didn't involve this kind of thing. I cannot even let me mind go in that direction. You have NO idea what marriage is about. I agree you won't be together for a lifetime because of perversion.
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Actually, I do know what marriage is about. We have been together for 4 years now and still going strong. We are honest nad loyal to each other. I can trust him with anything and he can trust me. That's why having conversations like this doesn't effect our marriage. Most spouses would have been outraged I'm sure but we can handle it in an adult manner and solve it in an adult manner. The way you stated your response leds me to believe you are no longer married.. I wonder what the problem was.. Maybe being a B**CH and not having a perverted mind while endouring in private time??? Maybe your next marriage will last.:)

I was really trying to ignore the rude response but I could resist this one. Before you have an opion on someone else marriage make sure your's is perfect to thanks.:)
I know who you are

Elizabethtown, KY

#22 Mar 11, 2013
Sounds just like my wife. But she cheated on me and was getting all mad about me saying no. We have been together for 4 years but have had plenty of of dude problems. Maybe you should think that if you have had guy problems in the past why would he want to have a 3some. Women nowadays dont know what faithfull is or what marraige does mean. Obviously you dont if youv been trying to talk him into it if he has said no many times.

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