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how can you tell if your old lady is cheating on you

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wel

Elkhorn City, KY

#2 Sep 29, 2009
follw her around, or ask her about it?
Yep

Louisville, KY

#3 Sep 29, 2009
If you find yourself posting a question like this on topix, yea that means instead of kissing kissing you're old lady you could just cut out the middle person and just blow her other oldman. And yes she's cheating on you.
would run

Stanford, KY

#5 Sep 29, 2009
If the man has a pecker that drags the floor i would run!
i know

Georgetown, KY

#6 Sep 29, 2009
check her panties when you get home...if shes sticky...chances are someones banging her.
Bro

Elkhorn City, KY

#8 Sep 29, 2009
Thats How You Tell They Lie!! Her Lips Are MoVing!
probably

Pikeville, KY

#9 Sep 29, 2009
check her cell phone, if calls are always erased thats a good clue. If she has started suddenly taking alot of pride in how she looks, then yep!
INTERESTED MAN

Pikeville, KY

#10 Sep 29, 2009
If you catch her in bed with someone!!!
haha

Georgetown, KY

#11 Sep 29, 2009
she starts feeding you tv dinners and staying on topix all the time!!
they all do

Mount Juliet, TN

#12 Sep 29, 2009
Chances are--if you call her old lady, then shes probably too old to be banging around. Probably has cob webs growing on it. If no cob webs then someone is popping it.
Well

United States

#13 Sep 29, 2009
If you have to ask, she is cheating!
Well

United States

#14 Sep 29, 2009
The bigger question is Do you really want to know? Think about that one long and hard and if u do then read my next post.
I would say

Anderson, SC

#15 Sep 29, 2009
If she's happy :P
Well

United States

#16 Sep 29, 2009
Clues..in no particular order
they will be extremely concerned over looking good
new and different undergarments....if they go from cotton briefs to lace thongs someone else is looking
tattoos or body piercings esp. the belly button..unless that is something they always have been into
drastic change in mood and behavior....if they have been miserable then suddenly can't stop smiling or vice versa
change in the way they groom the kitty...if the jungle has been thick and she suddenly shaves that thing and keeps it that way you can bet someone else is plowing the field

Some of this may seem like a joke but I can assure you it is all true!!!

Oh one more if she throws a fit when you go anywhere near her cell it is on!!!
A few errors

Camp Lejeune, NC

#17 Sep 29, 2009
Well wrote:
Clues..in no particular order
they will be extremely concerned over looking good
new and different undergarments....if they go from cotton briefs to lace thongs someone else is looking
tattoos or body piercings esp. the belly button..unless that is something they always have been into
drastic change in mood and behavior....if they have been miserable then suddenly can't stop smiling or vice versa
change in the way they groom the kitty...if the jungle has been thick and she suddenly shaves that thing and keeps it that way you can bet someone else is plowing the field
Some of this may seem like a joke but I can assure you it is all true!!!
Oh one more if she throws a fit when you go anywhere near her cell it is on!!!
Okay, I have a problem with a few of the things you mentioned that ARE NOT in fact true...
1: I'm not cheating on my husband, but I do however am overly concerned with my looks, because I want to keep him happy. No, i've not always been that. Sure after I had children, I didnt have time to get fixed up.. So that was put on hold for a while. I now have my oldest in school & have more time for me, so I do get dressed up most of the time.(A sudden change in the way I feel about my appearance.. Doesnt for a fact mean someone is cheating)

2: I also got my belly button pierced after I had children. It was something I always wanted to do, but never did. It just gave me a sense of sexiness, and my husband is my number 1 and i'm all about anything that will enhance our relationship.(So, piercings aren't a sign of infidelity.)

So please make sure your correct before you comment on anything. Cheating is a very sensitive issue. Uncertainty & negligent advice may cause more problems.

My advice, you can't take anyone's word on weather or not your spouse is being unfaithful to you. Only you know how she is and if she's had a change in attitude or the relationship. Chances are, if you have that gut feeling.. It's more often right than wrong.:-)
A few errors

Camp Lejeune, NC

#18 Sep 29, 2009
And wow! I made so many grammar mistakes in that last comment. lol
Oh well!
Well

United States

#19 Sep 29, 2009
Well honey you can have a problem with it all you want but that doesn't change the fact that if more than one of these changes occur at once then they are usually cheating. Ask anyone that has cheated or been cheated on by their wife and see if these things don't ring a bell. And as far as the piercing goes did I not state (unless it was something they always were into). And these are clues honey not proof and yes if you see these signs it does not prove anything. But you would be wise to find out. And sweetie I must say u sound a tad but defensive!
ONE WHO KNOWS

Elkhorn City, KY

#20 Sep 29, 2009
WELL IF YOU MUST KNOW, IF SHE IS CHEATING THEN IT IS PROBABLY ONE OR MORE REASONS LISTED HERE:
1. BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT TAKING CARE OF HER IN BED.
2. BECAUSE YOU HAVE GIVEN HER REASON TO BELIEVE YOU ARE CHEATING YOURSELF.
3. SHE IS TIRED OF YOU NOT WORKING AND SHE IS WANTING SOMETHING OUT OF LIFE.
4. SHE FEELS SHE IS BEING USED BY YOU.
5. MAYBE SHE SEES THAT YOU ARE A WOMANIZER AND SHE HAS TOO MUCH PRIDE TO TOLERATE YOUR ATTITUDE AND IMMATURITY.
6. MAYBE HER PANTIES WILL BE STICKY IF SHE ISN'T MORE CAREFUL.
7. THEY COULD BE STICKY IF SHE LIKES MASTURBATING.
8. SHE SNEAKS AWAY FROM YOU TO USE HER CELL IN PRIVATE.
9 WATCH HER EYES IN PUBLIC AND SEE IF ANOTHER GUY CATCHES HER EYE.
10. SHE MAKES UP USEFUL TRIPS.
11. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU ANYMORE.
12. SHE SHOWS NO INTEREST IN YOU ANYMORE OR SHOULD I SAY A LOT LESS INTEREST.
13. WHEN A MAN STARTS HANGING AROUND WHERE YOUR WIFE IS MORE OFTEN THEN NORMAL.
14 EYE CONTACT AND BODY LANGUAGE AROUND CERTAIN MEN ALWAYS TELLS THE STORY.
HOWEVER THE SEXY UNDERWEAR AND DRESSING UP DEAL IS BULLSHIT, BECAUSE SOME OF US WOMEN JUST HAVE STYLE AND BELIEVES IN KEEPING OURSELVES UP FOR OUR MAN AS WELL AS OURSELVES. NOT EVERY WOMAN LETS HERSELF GO AFTER THEY GET MARRIED. A MAN FALLS IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN WHO HAS GLAMOURED HERSELF BEFORE THEY FELL IN LOVE AND MARRIED, SO WHY SHOULD THAT CHANG AFTER THEY FALL IN LOVE AND GET MARRIED? THIS COULD BE THE REASON A LOT OF MEN CHEAT. THEY DIDN'T MARRY A FAT SKANKY LOOKING WOMAN, THEY MARRIED A SEXY LITTLE GLAMOUR GIRL, SO I SAY WOMEN KEEP YOUR STYLE AND DON'T LET YOUR BODY AND APPEARENCE GO FOR NO MAN, IT ISN'T WORTH IT.
yeahhh

Pikeville, KY

#21 Sep 30, 2009
One way to tell if she is lying when you ask her something watch the eyes. Ask her something that you already know that anwser to and be sure to watch the eyes. Then after you figure out when she is telling you the truth ask her if she is cheating on you. It is a know fact that if someone is lying when they anwser you (and they are lying) they will look away. Hopefully she isn't a good liar. Another thing is she staying gone for longer periods of time and is that not normal for her? If you really want to know then follow her, act like you are going to work and then call in to work. Or you could get a friend to follow her but make sure he isn't the one she is cheating with.
What goes around

Winchester, KY

#22 Sep 30, 2009
Well I would say the same way a woman can tell, You know if someone has changed, You can feel it, If you really stop and think about your relationship, Does she seem unhappy with you, Does she not want sex (with you),Does she seem to go places more by herself,Does she hug&kiss you like she once did, Does she clear her cell phone out, Or better yet does she ever let you answer it, Or does it ring sometimes and she just don't answer it saying I don't know that # so I ain't answering it, Then there is does she care more about what she looks like than before?, I think you already know the answer to your question, You just love her and you don't want to believe it, I hate it for you, Been there, When the trust is gone, What really is left, Talk to your wife, Hope everything works out for you.
HMMMM

Greenville, SC

#24 Sep 30, 2009
I have read all these comments and some of them hold u some truth but not really. Not all women are like this. Sometimes they just dont feel like their man cares for them so they decide to change the way she looks trying to catch his attention. They want their man to let them know that they love or thinking about them. What if the man act like he is depress all the time and wont show her any kind of affection does that mean he is cheating on her? I know a couple that is going through this kind of thing right now. The man phone will ring and he will say he dont know the number or he will turn the ringer off. He goes to clubs but when she decides to go he thinks the worse of her I suppose but thinks that it is ok for him to go without her but that dont mean that u are cheating For a relationship to make it there is such a thing call talking about ur feelings. About the looking in the eyes some people just dont feel comfortable. Alot of this makes sense dont get me wrong but u really need to set down and talk about things and if neither can do that what will become of the relationship? Talk to her and tell her what u are thinking and feeling and I wish u the best in this

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