how do you get over your first love w...

how do you get over your first love when your married

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inlove with him still

Glasgow, KY

#1 Jan 14, 2012
how can you be in love with two ppl at the same time most of the ppl in greensburg would prob thing that this guy im talking about is a man whore but i still love him with all my heart he was my first love and i cant shake his face or name for anything but when he hurt me on my birthday two years ago by leaving and never having the guts to tell me i found somebody that was completely diff and with in a year of meeting him i married him but now that ive had contact with my first love im kind of thinking that i messed up getting married WHAT DO I DO IM SO TORN ANY ADVICE
cindy

Means, KY

#2 Jan 15, 2012
I am sorry for your pain.My advice to you would be to move on,remember your man dog walked out on you once .He would do it again and there you would go all over again.Good Luck Prayers to you.
inlove with him still

Glasgow, KY

#3 Jan 15, 2012
thank you i could use more prayers ive been praying for two weeks over this
cindy

Means, KY

#4 Jan 15, 2012
How do you think he feels about you now?
inlove with him still

Glasgow, KY

#5 Jan 15, 2012
i dont know for sure but he told me that he knew he had messed up and that he regreted leaving me i just wish i knew who i was spose to be with i wish god would tell me so i can let who ever im not spose to be with down easy
cindy

Means, KY

#6 Jan 16, 2012
you must be stupid,you say you are married.Be Happy.Haven,t you already been deceived,embarressed,humiliate ad,lost family,friends and a alot of money to your so called man whore.I would not worry about letting him down easy.I would be praying Hell fire and damnation upon him if it were me.For your info I know your man whore.There is not much to him.Again Let it go,you will be the better for it.I will continue praying for you.Peace
cindy

Means, KY

#7 Jan 16, 2012
This man is a emotional game player.An emotional vampire.He will drained you for blood,money,a very evil man
compassion

Means, KY

#8 Jan 16, 2012
inlove with him still wrote:
how can you be in love with two ppl at the same time most of the ppl in greensburg would prob thing that this guy im talking about is a man whore but i still love him with all my heart he was my first love and i cant shake his face or name for anything but when he hurt me on my birthday two years ago by leaving and never having the guts to tell me i found somebody that was completely diff and with in a year of meeting him i married him but now that ive had contact with my first love im kind of thinking that i messed up getting married WHAT DO I DO IM SO TORN ANY ADVICE
I feel your pain. I've been where you are now. Sometimes it's better to just move on and forget about them. If your husband is good to you and loves you, why would you hurt him? I think you just need closure on this other relationship. You need to find out for sure if he still loves you & if he's with someone else now. He may be in love with someone else too. He needs to explain to you why he just up and left you with no explanation. There is a trust issue here. Even if you got him back, could you ever really trust him again?
cindy

Means, KY

#9 Jan 16, 2012
Could you even trust his answers as to why he left,if he loves you etc.I have warned you of those emontional deceptions.He is probably hoping for you a nice divorce settlement,help you go thru it ,out on the street you soon be.You admitted he was a town whore.Is that what you really want out of life.Geeze
andrusion

Danville, KY

#10 Jan 16, 2012
inlove with him still wrote:
i dont know for sure but he told me that he knew he had messed up and that he regreted leaving me i just wish i knew who i was spose to be with i wish god would tell me so i can let who ever im not spose to be with down easy
Since you brought God into it, let me say that leaving your husband for another man is a sin, no matter how much our society has tried to sugar-coat it and deny that fact. The only exception is if your husband cheats on you first. God was serious enough about this one to put it in His Top Ten List.
dino

Leitchfield, KY

#11 Jan 16, 2012
inlove with him still wrote:
i dont know for sure but he told me that he knew he had messed up and that he regreted leaving me i just wish i knew who i was spose to be with i wish god would tell me so i can let who ever im not spose to be with down easy
They ALL say that. You should never make a decision based on words, they're almost never original. Just remember, discards settle where they must...and you can't reshuffle the cards!
i know a girl

Glasgow, KY

#13 Jan 17, 2012
compassion wrote:
<quoted text>I feel your pain. I've been where you are now. Sometimes it's better to just move on and forget about them. If your husband is good to you and loves you, why would you hurt him? I think you just need closure on this other relationship. You need to find out for sure if he still loves you & if he's with someone else now. He may be in love with someone else too. He needs to explain to you why he just up and left you with no explanation. There is a trust issue here. Even if you got him back, could you ever really trust him again?
thats the truth but im not sure how to go about asking him
compassion

Means, KY

#14 Jan 18, 2012
i know a girl wrote:
<quoted text>
thats the truth but im not sure how to go about asking him
Just ask him how he feels now and if he's involved with someone else.... do you know for a fact he's not with someone else? you will see in his eyes if he is truthful. If he is evasive about answering, you will know he is not telling you everything. Your heart will tell you what to do. Don't be impulsive. He may be telling someone else he doesn't have feelngs for you and lying to them too. That's the way some men are... they want to keep several on a string..just in case.
lost love

Bowling Green, KY

#16 Nov 16, 2012
I miss you...

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