should a married women have guy friends

should a married women have guy friends

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jgjhgfjghergeori gj

United States

#1 Aug 22, 2011
i say it depends the type of woman she is if she needs attention all the time then no
Well

Glasgow, KY

#2 Aug 22, 2011
Depends on Who the guy friends are. If there an Ex then no. If there a buddy that they have had for years then that's a Yes. An attention seeker I'd say no. Cause she might be getting the wrong kind of attention from her so called guy friends. You really have ti watch though who ur friends with because some friends could care less if your married or not. Guys the same way. If you man has a rocky past full of cheating then I think girl friends are a NO. It just depends on what kind of friendship it is. U know when somethings up :)
my view

Elizabethtown, KY

#3 Aug 23, 2011
I agree but the same thing goes for a married man also depends on if they are just truly friends or is one of them looking for something else and trying to ruin a marriage or just wanting to cheat!! Cant have your cake and eat it to, you will get caught!!!
Anaidni

Versailles, KY

#4 Aug 23, 2011
No, married people should not have friends of the opposite sex, no matter how many years they've known each other. The chances that neither of the two parties has a secret thing for the other is very slim. In fact, they may have already had a "moment" together in the past, that the both of them choose to pretend never happened. You're asking for trouble.

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Since: Nov 10

Edmonton, KY

#5 Aug 23, 2011
come on now if she had male friends before she married why in the world why can she when she is married??

you bath are intitled to have a life including friends
hdfhdsfkdfghdk

United States

#6 Aug 24, 2011
thats fine if she calls them friend but mostly what im talking about is hang out with the guy friend and texts him while shes with her hasband i just think when u get marred thats the end of a woman or a man to have opposite sex friends
andrusion

Versailles, KY

#7 Aug 24, 2011
hdfhdsfkdfghdk wrote:
thats fine if she calls them friend but mostly what im talking about is hang out with the guy friend and texts him while shes with her hasband i just think when u get marred thats the end of a woman or a man to have opposite sex friends
You are right! If the scenario you described is what you are referring to, then that couple is asking for trouble. It's only a matter of time until one or the other breaks. One or two bad days with the husband and the "friend" will be right there waiting with a "sympathetic" ear, and all of a sudden that man seems like a viable alternative. You don't wave your hand in front of a rattle snake and you don't stay chummy with another man. It should be common sense.

“Smile more”

Since: Jan 09

Greensburg

#8 Aug 30, 2011
Unless the guy is gay...absolutely not!
HMMM

San Jose, CA

#9 Aug 31, 2011
JenNic wrote:
Unless the guy is gay...absolutely not!
Hey JenNic how are you?
crazy

Versailles, KY

#10 Sep 1, 2011
this post is absolutely crazy.I have been married before and I still talk to my ex and consider hiim a friend.I don't have anything for him but friendship.I also have several male friends that I have never done a thing with
Ewwwwww

United States

#11 Sep 1, 2011
yeah all married women need guy friends, where else are they going to get some from
hgiggihuhoihji

United States

#12 Sep 2, 2011
crazy wrote:
this post is absolutely crazy.I have been married before and I still talk to my ex and consider hiim a friend.I don't have anything for him but friendship.I also have several male friends that I have never done a thing with
yea but not all ppl are like u some ppl cant help there self and cheat just like i have girls i talk to on the net but i wouldnt spend time with them just bc i have a wife i need to spend time with not some other woman even if i did spend time with her im like u i wont cheat but some ppl are diff so thoses ppl shouldnt have male friends hell some cases not even woman either lol
hgiggihuhoihji

United States

#13 Sep 2, 2011
Ewwwwww wrote:
yeah all married women need guy friends, where else are they going to get some from
lol

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Since: Jan 09

Greensburg

#14 Sep 3, 2011
HMMM wrote:
<quoted text>Hey JenNic how are you?
Hey there friend! LTNS! I'm wonderful, how bout yourself?

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Since: Jan 09

Greensburg

#15 Sep 3, 2011
crazy wrote:
this post is absolutely crazy.I have been married before and I still talk to my ex and consider hiim a friend.I don't have anything for him but friendship.I also have several male friends that I have never done a thing with
I believe you crazy. The problem though doesn't necessarily lie with your intentions. What about them? Are you telling me that if you did not give them a slightest hint of more then friendship, they wouldn't act on it? People's actions are motivated by a need. They rarely do things for absolutely no reason. Are you sure these men aren't your "friend" for now, with the hope that someday it will be more? If the answer is yes, then it is inappropriate for you to remain friends. It wouldn't be fair to your husband for his wife to be gratification for another man.
Lonewolf

Batesburg, SC

#16 Sep 3, 2011
they're playing with fire.
CRAZY

Versailles, KY

#17 Sep 3, 2011
A MARRIAGE IS BUILT ON TRUST AND HAVE GUY FRIENDS EVERY SINCE I WAS A YOUNG GIRL. I STILL HAVE SOME OF THE SAME FRIENDS WHICH ARE GUYS THEY ARE MARRIED NOW AND WE HAD NEVER HAD ANYTHING BUT FRIENDSHIP.THE PROBLEM N OW DAYS IS THAT PEOPLE THINK SEX IS EVERYTHING AND THATS WHERE THEY ARE WRONG!!!!!MY FRIENDS ARE FRIENDS AND MY EX IS AN EX AND THERE ARE REASONS FOR THAT AND JUST BECAUSE THERE WAS SOMETHING THERE DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO GO BACK THERE IF THAT IS THE CASE THEN I GUESS THATS WHEN YOU CAN'T CONTINUE A FRIENDSHIP BUT AS LONG AS YOUR STRAIGHT AND HONEST WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND FRIENDS THEN THERE WOULD NEVER BE A DOUBT.

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Since: Jan 09

Greensburg

#18 Sep 3, 2011
Lonewolf wrote:
they're playing with fire.
Exactly!!
former

Columbia, KY

#19 Sep 3, 2011
It's not a good Idea to have opposite sex friends if your a married woman or man.....Unless there the kind of friends that you only hang out with when your with your significant other. Because in my experience there are only two types of women to me ones they have slept with and ones they haven't slept with yet!!! Far as a man is concerned if he is your friend chances are he is only going to be friends with you until he gets IT!!!
Red Alert

United States

#20 Sep 4, 2011
I am a happily married woman who has several male friends. They come to the house and visit and I talk to them on the phone. Ive been friends with them for years and my husband has no problem with it because he knows I would never cheat on him. It is easier to be friends with a guy than a girl because sorry to say it but women have to way to much drama going on all the time. LOL

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