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Keeping it real

Valparaiso, IN

#1 Oct 14, 2012
What does everyone think about unfit mothers?
-Agame

Lake Villa, IL

#2 Oct 14, 2012
Sick to death of it. Seems some have more important things to do.
kim hubbard

Valparaiso, IN

#3 Oct 14, 2012
I know an unfit mother and i just dont understand how anyone can carry a child and then go though the hell of giving birth and then not give a damm what happens to the baby in my case the baby could have died and yet the mother refused to take any credit for any of the wrong that was done to the baby
kaching

Homer Glen, IL

#4 Oct 14, 2012
My own opinion is that women in general today lack effort when it comes to raising kids. Unfit mothers tend to have a personality of it's all about me and Im the victim syndrome. I've watched so call good mothers yell at their kids about what they do and yet won't get up off the couch to help them with finding a shoe but tell me how much they care about their kids. I dated one girl who would rather yell and scream at her daughter from bottom of stairs then make the effort to go upstairs and help her do whatever. Also whatever happened to getting up and making breakfast before school for your kids. I've have yet to date a mother that does this for their kids anymore. It's time for all parents (mothers and fathers) to make the effort because these kids did not ask to be born and we made a decision to have them.
Haha

Evansville, IN

#7 Oct 14, 2012
See I love this topic! I get up everyday make sure my kids are dressed and feed and so on before school! But your right their see a lot of so called good mother out their!
who u want it to be

Elkhart, IN

#8 Oct 14, 2012
ashley north takes this #1 big win for her
lydia

United States

#10 Oct 25, 2012
who u want it to be wrote:
ashley north takes this #1 big win for her
Oliva you better watch your mouth... You do not know Ashley so dont be judging...
Huh

Batesville, IN

#11 Oct 25, 2012
lydia wrote:
<quoted text>Oliva you better watch your mouth... You do not know Ashley so dont be judging...
I think they were giving Ashley a compliment........Its kinda nice reading something nice instead of tearing someone apart.
Honestly

Danville, IA

#12 Oct 25, 2012
I know a couple looking to adopt a baby, to bad they cant find one of these " unfit mothers" as ya'll call em
lydia

United States

#13 Oct 28, 2012
Huh wrote:
<quoted text>I think they were giving Ashley a compliment........Its kinda nice reading something nice instead of tearing someone apart.
how is it a compliment to be called a unfit mom
wadda_ya_know

South Bend, IN

#14 Oct 29, 2012
i was delt the wrong hand. but i chose to make my life better after my 2nd child. it may have taken me awhile to get my priorities straight, dont get me wrong, i never did anything bad to my kids, just stayed in a bad relationship going no where in life. also had a bad mother. she taught me nothing, but as soon as i had my first child i knew how to be a great parent. no i do not make breakfast for my kids every morning, school does that, lol. i know a lot of mothers out there that are horrible. i have a big mouth and im not afraid to use it. i cant be friends with someone who pretends to be a good parent. i have ended many friendships over the way people have treated their children. its bull crap. and parents that dont bathe their kids properly, dont get involved in their schooling and school activities, dont take their kids to the dr on a regular basis, errrrr. i feel for the good parents out here, it is hard to do, but thats what we have children for. we are parents. i love all kids, broken or not and id take them all in if i could, just so they know what having a family that cares for them is like. some kids think they way "home" life is, is normal. makes me wanna cry.
westport212

Mishawaka, IN

#15 Oct 29, 2012
was just on the local news this morning about how there is more to raising a kid than feeding it and sending it to school. what they meant by saying that is parents should teach they kids how to behave and respect. there is a generation of retards raising up everyday honey boo boos right now and its disgusting. mostly single mothers are to blame! they lay down and have bastard kids with piece of sh.it men and then instead of working hard to make things right, they lay and cry how bad they got it! providing a home and letting the government fill your fridge is not parenting! laughing when your child curses an adult is not motherly. ladies you chose to have sex and have kids, get up off your lazy as.ses and raise some decent citizens instead of preparing our future to go further in debt by housing/imprisoning your illegitimate, motherless, bas.tards!!!
knowhatumean

Lexington, KY

#16 Oct 29, 2012
wadda_ya_know wrote:
i was delt the wrong hand. but i chose to make my life better after my 2nd child. it may have taken me awhile to get my priorities straight, dont get me wrong, i never did anything bad to my kids, just stayed in a bad relationship going no where in life. also had a bad mother. she taught me nothing, but as soon as i had my first child i knew how to be a great parent. no i do not make breakfast for my kids every morning, school does that, lol. i know a lot of mothers out there that are horrible. i have a big mouth and im not afraid to use it. i cant be friends with someone who pretends to be a good parent. i have ended many friendships over the way people have treated their children. its bull crap. and parents that dont bathe their kids properly, dont get involved in their schooling and school
activities, dont take their kids to the dr on a regular basis, errrrr. i feel for the good parents out here, it is hard to do, but thats what we have children for. we are parents. i love all kids, broken or not and id take them all in if i could, just so they know what having a family that cares for them is like. some kids think they way "home" life is, is normal. makes me wanna cry.
I know kids that only get taken to a doctor when their parents take them to the ER because they have a sore throat or running a fever. Have no idea what a family dr is...sad but true!
Anonymous

Zephyrhills, FL

#17 Oct 29, 2012
westport212 wrote:
was just on the local news this morning about how there is more to raising a kid than feeding it and sending it to school. what they meant by saying that is parents should teach they kids how to behave and respect. there is a generation of retards raising up everyday honey boo boos right now and its disgusting. mostly single mothers are to blame! they lay down and have bastard kids with piece of sh.it men and then instead of working hard to make things right, they lay and cry how bad they got it! providing a home and letting the government fill your fridge is not parenting! laughing when your child curses an adult is not motherly. ladies you chose to have sex and have kids, get up off your lazy as.ses and raise some decent citizens instead of preparing our future to go further in debt by housing/imprisoning your illegitimate, motherless, bas.tards!!!
I, for one, am a single mother. I have NO help from anybody or anything. My daughters sperm donor left. That's not my fault. He doesn't pay support and never sees her. Yes she is a bastard, as bad as I hate thar word, but its true. I'm proud to say I'm a single mom that has my own house, my own car and plenty of food in my fridge even food in my parents freezer cuz I don't have enough room in mine. My daughter is well taken care of. Next time u wanna say something about single moms being low life and lazy how about u look around at how many single moms are doing it on their own. I know of several.
Hanibal

Homer Glen, IL

#18 Oct 29, 2012
westport212 wrote:
was just on the local news this morning about how there is more to raising a kid than feeding it and sending it to school. what they meant by saying that is parents should teach they kids how to behave and respect. there is a generation of retards raising up everyday honey boo boos right now and its disgusting. mostly single mothers are to blame! they lay down and have bastard kids with piece of sh.it men and then instead of working hard to make things right, they lay and cry how bad they got it! providing a home and letting the government fill your fridge is not parenting! laughing when your child curses an adult is not motherly. ladies you chose to have sex and have kids, get up off your lazy as.ses and raise some decent citizens instead of preparing our future to go further in debt by housing/imprisoning your illegitimate, motherless, bas.tards!!!
Well said and I couldn't agree more. I've seen to many single mothers lay down and cry saying it's not my fault and to many single fathers afraid of facing their fears of responsibility as well. I am a single father and although my child does not live with me I have been in her life every step of the way. We have talked almost every night since she was 4 and is now 18. I've been to almost all the recitals,school functions, practices and she lives an hour away from me. It's called love and sacrifice people and loving ur children more than urself is the only way u will achieve the goals of raising a child to be a winner at life. No my child isn't perfect she is far from it but she is worth every bit of energy it takes from me to see that she has a chance to make something of her life and not be one more kid that just has no future.

Since: Oct 12

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#19 Oct 29, 2012
her_mommy1208 wrote:
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I, for one, am a single mother. I have NO help from anybody or anything. My daughters sperm donor left. That's not my fault. He doesn't pay support and never sees her. Yes she is a bastard, as bad as I hate thar word, but its true. I'm proud to say I'm a single mom that has my own house, my own car and plenty of food in my fridge even food in my parents freezer cuz I don't have enough room in mine. My daughter is well taken care of. Next time u wanna say something about single moms being low life and lazy how about u look around at how many single moms are doing it on their own. I know of several.
You are a damn good mom. Just because they are single parents don't make them bad. My mom was 16 when she had her oldest. She was a single parent then and most of the time with us other 3 kids. She busted her ass to make sure we had all we needed. So before anybody goes bashing single parents maybe you should ask some of them their stories.
to add

Greensburg, IN

#20 Oct 30, 2012
Women...always playing the "I got dealt a bad hand" card....poor me. God, you all wanted to be equal. If anyone ever hears a man utter those words he's told "man up." How about this, "woman up!!!!" lol...seriously, you made your bed, lie in it. Also, these idiot females crying "I'm a damn good Mom" are 9/10 the same girls going to the bar every weekend, rotating boyfriends, or tanking their credit. Hint hint....a humble parent is the best parent, they never feel like they are giving enough and you know they're trying. The ones screaming "I'm a damn good mom" are the ones that are compensating for something and are strangely very sensitive to criticism....confidence in what you're doing is right won't require some big explanation or rationalization for your "situation."

Let me add...
single moms are single for a reason...you're one of the following... A)Bad judge of character. B)Just HAD to have that bad boy. C)Poor at managing relationships. They're worthless to date or even marry unless you're some desperate slob who can't find a nice single girl with no children. Don't be loser and raise someone elses' offspring. Total waste of time. I advise young men to NEVER DATE SINGLE MOMS as often as possible. Consider the risk, seriously. If she's the "HAD TO HAVE THE BAD BOY" type she will make a fool of you...just wait, you already lose respect in her eyes by even dating her when you could be picking up girls your age WITHOUT KIDS, double edged sword.

WATCH WHAT THEY DO BOYS...IGNORE WHAT THEY SAY! ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT!
Anonymous

Zephyrhills, FL

#21 Oct 30, 2012
to add wrote:
Women...always playing the "I got dealt a bad hand" card....poor me. God, you all wanted to be equal. If anyone ever hears a man utter those words he's told "man up." How about this, "woman up!!!!" lol...seriously, you made your bed, lie in it. Also, these idiot females crying "I'm a damn good Mom" are 9/10 the same girls going to the bar every weekend, rotating boyfriends, or tanking their credit. Hint hint....a humble parent is the best parent, they never feel like they are giving enough and you know they're trying. The ones screaming "I'm a damn good mom" are the ones that are compensating for something and are strangely very sensitive to criticism....confidence in what you're doing is right won't require some big explanation or rationalization for your "situation."
Let me add...
single moms are single for a reason...you're one of the following... A)Bad judge of character. B)Just HAD to have that bad boy. C)Poor at managing relationships. They're worthless to date or even marry unless you're some desperate slob who can't find a nice single girl with no children. Don't be loser and raise someone elses' offspring. Total waste of time. I advise young men to NEVER DATE SINGLE MOMS as often as possible. Consider the risk, seriously. If she's the "HAD TO HAVE THE BAD BOY" type she will make a fool of you...just wait, you already lose respect in her eyes by even dating her when you could be picking up girls your age WITHOUT KIDS, double edged sword.
WATCH WHAT THEY DO BOYS...IGNORE WHAT THEY SAY! ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT!
U really need to watch what u say. My bf is almost 30 and we have been together for almost a year. Just cuz some guys are dumb asses and choose to leave don't mean hate on the single mother's. I'm not a perfect mom and I don't say I'm a good mom but my daughter is well taken care of. I do not go party or go out to the bars. I did go one time and my daughter was wit my mother. Seriously u don't know shit about being a single mother.

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#23 Oct 30, 2012
sorry to tell you but there are pretty good single moms out there. And unlike you not all men care about the single mom status. Her_mommy1208 keep your head up and don't let that ass get you down. You are a fantastic mom with a wonderful daughter who is well taken care of.
riteon

Lexington, KY

#24 Oct 31, 2012
to add further wrote:
you're right, I don't know shit about being a single mother but don't act like some victim about it. I do however know a lot about being a man and one with confidence and know my value enough to not settle for someone else's leftovers. why would any self respecting man with value that can freely choose from a number of women that are not tied down even consider a single mother as a viable option...I preach this to as many of my buddies as possible so they don't get the hook, line, and sinker. I'm sorry but this is the way it is. Divorce rates are already 50%....I don't even want to know the success (read: failure) rate of relationships where a single mother is involved but I'd bet the farm that it's pretty ugly. these are the hard truths, single mothers simply can't compete with women without the baggage in the long term.
I couldn't agree with this comment more. Single mom, two or three kids by two or three different dads. No job or mediocre job, with no college education. Cigarette hanging out of her mouth as she walks out of the liquor store or bar, wow nothing more attractive than that. LOL!

Better yourselves ladies, your looks will not last forever. The partying and carrying on will eventually take toll and you will look rough and nasty by the time you turn 30! Take some college classes, set goals for yourself. Give the respectable men a reason to give you the time of day. Otherwise you will attract only the losers your whole life!

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