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Lisa

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Jun 19, 2014
 
xheraldina wrote:
Thank you!
Tats

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Jun 19, 2014
 
May I ask where you got this information from that Rob asked his wife to not be home at the time he would be there? And how do you know they has cameras at the time this occurred?
Tats

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Jun 19, 2014
 
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Was Ida told by LE to keep it private that Rob called and asked her not to be home when he comes back from work?
What bout their security cameras?
Were they ALL switched off?
Really???
Give me a break!
WHERE IS ROBERT IDA?
May I ask where you got this information from that Rob asked his wife to not be home at the time he would be there? And how do you know they had cameras at the time this occurred?
Lisa

Floral Park, NY

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Jun 19, 2014
 
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That was my opinion, I'm not speaking for Ida. It is my opinion that I would not tell the public about my husband's personal issues. The police, yes. The public, no.
That is where I think a lot of anger and hostility comes from. I can understand wanting to protect your husbands personal issues but at what cost? If it could help find him maybe someone who knows him or where he is, who cares what others think really?
I can even understand maybe not saying it at the very beginning and holding out hope , but it's been a year...
She clearly can't go back in time, but maybe she can appeal to people now and say he is not perfect, we were not perfect etc etc... But don't carry on a facade. At this point she doesn't have anything to lose.. Just be honest!!!
Sue

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Is it yours?
Not My Business, Not Your Business or Anyone's Business. Tom is looking for HIS brother, and HE should share What HE Wants with Who HE Wants!!!
Sue

Commack, NY

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Lee Jay wrote:
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Okay so you're saying he isn't missing? And you know for a fact that nobody harmed him? So are you in touch with Rob? He's informed you that he left her? Maybe you should call the SCPD with your tips.
Lee Jay don't you have anything else to do but worry about Ida's husband who obviously doesn't want to be where Ida wants him to be? I don't need to call SCPD with any tips, they knew right from the get go that he left...SCPD immediately stated "NO CRIMINALITY"....Do YOU need those 2 simple words explained to you?
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

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Sue , so not to be rude,I've asked it before if everyone is convinced there was no criminality and understands that this guy just left his wife and family because he wanted to , why is anyone except the wife and family trying to find him.??? If that is truly what you believe, then who cares where Robert Mayer is
Average Guy

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Sue wrote:
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"Speak to the Hand"!?!? Lol, teenage girls used that expression in the 90's. I never even heard a young boy say it let alone a grown man, BUT maybe you're not.......
No, this is not secular to women or a time. Never mind, consider me flipping the bird and telling you to suck on it. Please continue to talk out of your ass, it is pretty comical. Your comments and 'theories' are baseless and not validated. Got to love the peanut crowd. Did someone say "Nuts"?
Average Guy

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Sue wrote:
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Really!! She falsely said her husband was missing & someone harmed him because HE would never leave Her! That was A LIE!!
Her husband left her and she is No different from any other woman or man who's spouse has taken off.
She falsely accused him of being missing?
She falsely accused him of possibly being harmed?
He left her?
I'm sorry, do you have proof that she "LIED"??
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<quoted text>Who is she to think she's entitled to a search party on our tax money to find her husband who doesn't want to be with her.

You're kidding, right? Again....I don't know why I bother with morons to point out the obvious.....There is and has been no indication, anywhere, that Rob left his wife AND kids.

You should try going back to playing Bingo, you might have better odds at getting it right.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

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Average guy, I don't understand if there was no crime according to law enforcement and he didn't leave his wife and family, what other explanations are there. For his being missing??? Whatever he is doing, if there's been no contact and no crime it certainly seems that he left. What is your theory of what happened to him???
Lee Jay

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Sam bee wrote:
So if law enforcement felt from the get go that there was no crime and the wife was told to keep drug use to herself and to keep other info to herself, why did she not keep quiet, hire -a private detective and try to locate him without airing their personal info in public??? From everything being said it seems people close to her agree he has left her. So why make it the public deal it's become. Why not be private like the family of the other man missing from Dix hills. No one knows one shred of their life except where he worked. And again why was toms post from earlier deleted????
Oh I don't know, maybe because there's no how-to book or manual about what to do when someone goes missing?
Lee Jay

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xheraldina wrote:
Was Ida told by LE to keep it private that Rob called and asked her not to be home when he comes back from work?
What bout their security cameras?
Were they ALL switched off?
Really???
Give me a break!
WHERE IS ROBERT IDA?
Where'd you hear that he told her not to be home? And you state that like it's a fact when, in fact, you pulled it out of your ass.
Sam bee

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No there's no manual ,but it stands to reason that if you go public after law enf has said no crime, that a lot of personal, private stuff will get out to the public as well And again I ask average guy, if as you insist , he didn't leave her and there's no. Crime, what else is left??? If he was a suicide by now someone wouldve found him and that doesn't appear to be what Tom and family think,or the wife according to what has been posted. My neighbors husband took off., left wife and 3 kids no contact for past 8mo but she didn't go public so no one but police know her business And sure all neighbors are curious , human nature, but no one questions her like Ida, because she kept it PRIVATE
Brian

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I read here but rarely if ever comment, don't have time for the arguements back & forth. Just want to say something to Average Guy who I think is a disrespectful little prick. If you ever come to NY I wanna meet you so I can show you how it is you speak to women. Your nothing but a big mouth all the way in CA. Please come to NY & I'll try to toughen you up the real way jerkoff.
Sam bee

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Jun 20, 2014
 
And for whatever it's worth, if it turns out that this man really did leave on his own and never contacted his children especially or his mom, in my opinion that makes him a real piece of garbage. You can always get a divorce
Sam bee

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Or maybe my original take on this is right . Maybe the wife and her family have "connection" that know how to do things professionally , and were in the garage, subdued him , transported him to pates unknown, while she wasn't home conveniently, and disposed of his body where he will never be found. Acid, trash compactor land fill. Maybe I watch too much tv but it seems possible to me. Nothing left to suggest crime to police ad she booms trip as a cover maybe???? They never found Jimmy Hoffa or guy who hit gottis kid with a car and killed him by accident. Maybe???? Sorry for typo errors
Lisa

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No indication he left on his own, he is an Addict, What addict do you know that is predictable and reliable and accountable ! People on drugs do things they would never do sober!
A missing gun , a car found with no evidence of foul play , no crime scene, the list can go on!!!
Every detail she kept from the public is indication he left in his own! You have no idea what u are talking about .
Charlotte

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Brian wrote:
I read here but rarely if ever comment, don't have time for the arguements back & forth. Just want to say something to Average Guy who I think is a disrespectful little prick. If you ever come to NY I wanna meet you so I can show you how it is you speak to women. Your nothing but a big mouth all the way in CA. Please come to NY & I'll try to toughen you up the real way jerkoff.
Bravo Brian! Bravo!!
Sam bee

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In my travels this morning happened to talk to a rtd NYC detective. He said that if someone of age goes missing , and there is no indication that harm was done to him, ie blood , tissue signs of a struggle such as in the car or garage etc that they really don't pursue it. A person of age can leave , hide, start a new life, live in the street and do drugs if they want. We may think it's not right to do, but they consider it a private , marital issue in a case like this. And again, WHY would anyone then go public, and open their not so perfect lives up to the scrutiny of the public at large. Who would've known about his drug use or her legal issues except maybe the police, if she even divulged that info to them if she didn't create the environment for it to happen. And maybe all that Facebook stuff and the followers is more to cover up that somehow harm came to him and was covered sufficiently to make police say no crime????
Sam bee

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And for what it's worth George Richardson , the Dix hills man who wen missing from montauk almost 2yrs ago was never found according to Internet. No body no clues just gone. BUT no one knows if he did drugs , had a girlfriend what his wife did in past she issued statement saying they miss him love him have a hole in their hearts and wanted to deal with it privately and so she was not maligned or investigated by total strangers. Ida asked for the scrutiny and she sure got it

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