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Confused

Hendersonville, TN

#1 Feb 3, 2012
I don't know what to do. I am so confused. I feel so alone and I have no one that I can reach out to for help! What do I do? If I could gain access to a gun, I would blow my brains out. I feel like my life is crumbling around me and I can't do anything but stand back and watch. I've tried and tried to overcome these feelings, but nothing I do seems to help! I don't have a good relationship with my parents, so telling me to talk to them isn't going to help. When I try to talk to my mother about this matter, she tells me I "just need to get over it". Doesn't she think that if I knew how to get over it, I would? And my father tells me that everybody has problems and they have to learn how to deal with them. I have tried to deal with them and obviously I can't, or I wouldn't feel like this. Somebody, anybody, please, please help me!
harry

Herndon, VA

#2 Feb 3, 2012
talk to your preacher
Confused

Hendersonville, TN

#3 Feb 3, 2012
I don't have a preacher. I haven't been to church since I was a child. I don't even know where to go to church.
lala

AOL

#4 Feb 3, 2012
Look up and talk to God. He is always with you and is willing to help all you need to do is talk to him.
hecares

Charlotte, NC

#5 Feb 3, 2012
You don't have to go to church to talk to God and he is always listening. Not sure the problems but nothings worth your life. Church is a good place to meet people that do care, however. I'm not going to say there isn't some that are not great, but most are. You just need to visit them until you find one that makes feel like it is the one for you. Good luck, and I'll pray for you
FriendofDog

Elizabethton, TN

#6 Feb 3, 2012
I'm not sure how old you are, but try to find someone who you feel like you can talk to. I know there are plenty of folks who would be glad to listen to you- it's just hard to try to do it through Topix. Taking your own life is NOT the answer. No matter how totally bleak you feel today, you must believe that you will be able to find help and won't feel this badly tomorrow. If you have a church Pastor, or his wife, that could be a great option. People do have o learn to deal with their problems, but sometimes- the problems seem insurmountable and you should not be ashamed to reach out for help.
seek help

Nashville, TN

#7 Feb 3, 2012
Yes turn to God but also seek help from a Doctor. Depression can be a chemical imbalance that can be helped by medication. There is no shame in going to a Doctor for help. I used to suffer from depression so bad that I too wanted to kill myself. No matter what I did I could no shake the depression. There is help and there are people who care. Please Never do anything as perminent as suicide. Life for me is now great and it can be for you too.
Trueman

Johnson City, TN

#8 Feb 3, 2012
Go to any emergency room and tell them you need help. Your life if very precious. Please seek some help.
Buster

Marion, VA

#9 Feb 3, 2012
Confused wrote:
I don't have a preacher. I haven't been to church since I was a child. I don't even know where to go to church.
Post a picture of yourself.

Since: Jan 12

Smyrna, TN

#10 Feb 3, 2012
Go to nolichuckey mental health they are good and will get u the help u need

“Zombie Sickopath”

Since: Jul 11

Hell

#11 Feb 3, 2012
Oh good god, religion doesn't cure everything. GO TO A THERAPIST, an actual person to listen to you, or go confide in your friends. Or other family members.
not alone

Greeneville, TN

#12 Feb 3, 2012
You are not the only person who feels this way. I can relate to all that you have said, and I want you to know that you are not completely alone (not in spirit anyway). No matter what, try and hold on for another day.
MEMEME

El Segundo, CA

#13 Feb 3, 2012
All problems are temporary. In the future, you'll look back and think why were you so upset at the time and it was not that big a deal. QAnd you thank your lucky stars that you didn't do something permanent for a temporary problem.
FriendofDog

Abingdon, VA

#14 Feb 4, 2012
Confused, please check in and let us know how if you've found someone to talk to. We really want you to be okay.
Dont

Antioch, TN

#15 Feb 4, 2012
Man, i am sorry to hear everything that is happening to you. It is hard sometimes when your parents doesn't want to listen. If you need to talk man, let me know i can give you my email, and you can talk to me. Believe it or not, something as simple as just venting helps a lot. People care for you man, most people care and doesn't want you to end your life.
Rev Jones

Abingdon, VA

#16 Feb 4, 2012
Confused wrote:
I don't have a preacher. I haven't been to church since I was a child. I don't even know where to go to church.
Today is your lucky day. Tell me your troubles.
you will see

Nashville, TN

#17 Feb 4, 2012
Varyag wrote:
Oh good god, religion doesn't cure everything. GO TO A THERAPIST, an actual person to listen to you, or go confide in your friends. Or other family members.
first off you must need help your self. by your post go get some.god doesnt speek back to you, but he does listen. and if he knows in your heart he will help you. he wont give you what you want. but will give you what you need. and by your remarks people like you are why people give up. you self centered idiot. get a life and outta others if you cant be a responsiable adult and help someone when its a time of need.
you will see

Nashville, TN

#18 Feb 4, 2012
to confused. please go get help and talk with someone. depression or whatever your need is. I have a family member that tried to kill there self several times and for some reason they are still here. god seen fit for that person to live. finally got the help. and is on medication that works very well.second of all he found a good church and god. hes doing wonderful to this day. very active at church in many diffrent things. fill in sunday school teacher. helps with the youth group. all the programs. and isnt afriad to stand in front of the church and cry if needed to praise the lord. so i seen first hand what god can do when he is in your life. and he to couldnt talk to his paerents they wouldnt listen. so he felt he was all alone also. maybe get someones email or something and get help and someone to talk to. life is hard. and please dont listen to the negative people on here.some people in this town are heartless. godbless. will pray for you.
Get off your high horse

Smyrna, TN

#19 Feb 4, 2012
Varyag wrote:
Oh good god, religion doesn't cure everything. GO TO A THERAPIST, an actual person to listen to you, or go confide in your friends. Or other family members.
Why do you feel compelled to throw your two cents and hatred of religion in here? I am not a religious person, but the belief in a higher power gives a lot of people comfort. Many people have turned their lives around due to religion. If that comforts them, or makes them able to accept certain negative things that happen , then more power to them. Did you ever hear of..."live and let live?" If you have , then don't try to convert people to your hostile, angry way of thinking. I'm not trying to convert anyone to one way or the other. It is none of my business, nor is it yours.

Since: Jan 13

Paducah, KY

#20 Jan 4, 2013
You know all I got are my two kids their mother isnt around to help much at all. We were together for 11 yeaes but she didnt want to grow up. We have been separated over a year. Let me tell ya single income in todays economy well you not stretching a dollar more like 50 cents. Anything and everything goes wrong all the time and all at once! Im not going to touch the religion thing except you always here about the human spirit well that starts within you have to find it. Once you feel better within it will pour from you. Hey its tough and people handle shit different but dont give up only change or deal with what you are able to handle and once you do that everything else wont seem so bad because the shit that you took care of isnt still hanging around too add to your problems.It gets lonely as hell for me full-time job around the clock dad women require attention and my life gets all of it.

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