Why would a girl tell a guy she doesn...

Why would a girl tell a guy she doesn't have time anymore?

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Concerned

Hendersonville, TN

#1 Sep 30, 2012
I know a guy that just got pooped on when he is a good guy. He was told that she didnt have time and it pisses me off! I think this is a b.s. excuse.
Yep

Nashville, TN

#2 Sep 30, 2012
She has her another man . She would make time somehow if she wanted to be with him .

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Since: Jun 12

BUFFALO, NY

#3 Sep 30, 2012
MYOB
Nita Mann

Lawndale, NC

#4 Sep 30, 2012
Yep wrote:
She has her another man . She would make time somehow if she wanted to be with him .
I agree with you. It's POSSSIBLE she is just tired of the relationship for whatever reason & is giving a bs excuse instead of being honest as to her reasons. I have come to believe that whoever ends a relationship has someone else in their sights, been flirting with them, or actually involved, probably 98% of the time. I believe it's rare that someone ends it without there being another waiting. Many times, relationships start going bad, both know it but neither wants to admit it & they just keep on until something more intriguing or they deem "better" comes along. I don't think this is necessarily right or the way it should be done but I think this is the way it usually goes down.
Word of the Day

Johnson City, TN

#5 Sep 30, 2012
Maybe she genuinely doesnt have time.

Or MAYBE she is trying to spare the guy's feelings. Would you rather her tll him she thinks he is an overbearing jerk or maybe that he looks gross when he is naked? Perhaps he has an itty bitty package or maybe he has disgusting eating habits. Do you REALLY want an honest answer? Honesty is good, but not when it will result in crushing another person's self image.

Leave the girl alone.
Sneaky

Hendersonville, TN

#6 Oct 1, 2012
I agree, she has a new man. Dude just got punked in the process. Women are sneaky and will lie. Honesty is the best policy no matter what, she should have been up front with this guy and told him what was really going on. What a b@#ch!Maybe she was being genuine about the time not being there, but we all know thats crap. Make time if you love someone!
voter

United States

#7 Oct 1, 2012
Are you talking abou crystal hawk?
not right

Boiling Springs, SC

#8 Oct 1, 2012
Maybe she really doesn't have time. I am a single mother, just started nursing at tusculum and my grandfather has prostate cancer. I honestly don't have time for a boyfriend. Maybe she wants to see him but can't give him what he deserves. Not all women are sneaky or liars. Just because it ended doesn't mean there is another man. I hope this helps!
Qwerty

Charlotte, NC

#9 Oct 1, 2012
Who got screwed over this time?
Good Guys Wear Black

Hendersonville, TN

#10 Oct 1, 2012
I just saw this post and I recently had this happen to me. I do not believe there is another man because she never lied to me before that I know of. I know she has a lot on her plate and I do not harbor any ill-will toward her for her decision. We just came to a cross-roads in our relationship and can not be together at this point in life. She was my partner and probably always will be; I would do anything for her then and I still would now. Just because a decision has been made does not mean that it's the end of the world. She is a good person and just has a ton on her plate, so whoever posted this I am right there with you. Keep your head up and carry on. One love.....
Heartfelt

Clover, SC

#11 Oct 1, 2012
Concerned wrote:
I know a guy that just got pooped on when he is a good guy. He was told that she didnt have time and it pisses me off! I think this is a b.s. excuse.

Relationships are all in right timing. At least she isn't stringing him along , if it's meant to be ...
yep

Herndon, VA

#12 Oct 1, 2012
Yep wrote:
She has her another man . She would make time somehow if she wanted to be with him .
she got another guy id bet the farm on it.same bs all guys getn cheated on heres
don

Herndon, VA

#13 Oct 1, 2012
OUTLAW RACER wrote:
MYOB
fusob
Good Guys Wear Black

Hendersonville, TN

#14 Oct 1, 2012
.....then it will be. Another guy or not. Keep positive and keep your heart true. And no matter what...do the right thing; whatever that is. Everyone has challenges and decisions that have to made from time to time. It was the greatest time I ever had and everything we did made me happy. Fairytales do come true and stories do have happy endings. One Love....
theydowearblack

United States

#15 Oct 1, 2012
Good Guys Wear Black wrote:
I just saw this post and I recently had this happen to me. I do not believe there is another man because she never lied to me before that I know of. I know she has a lot on her plate and I do not harbor any ill-will toward her for her decision. We just came to a cross-roads in our relationship and can not be together at this point in life. She was my partner and probably always will be; I would do anything for her then and I still would now. Just because a decision has been made does not mean that it's the end of the world. She is a good person and just has a ton on her plate, so whoever posted this I am right there with you. Keep your head up and carry on. One love.....
U r an amazing man,whoever u r!!!! A lot of men would not acccept her decision and wud not b so respectful of her feelings and accept her decision. Mayb she felt she just had no other choice n did it so u could find someone who could put u first in their life. People do come to crossroads in their lives and sometimes hav to let go of somethin they really care about. I wish u luck in ur dreams and some lucky girl will snatch u up fast!!! Follow ur heart in all u do n Go With God.
Good Guys Wear Black

Hendersonville, TN

#16 Oct 1, 2012
I am not looking for someone to snatch me up. There will be a time and a place that we will meet again. I will always put her first and look for the day we meet again. However, I am not looking for anyone since I feel she was the one for me and always will be. If I find someone then I find someone, I am making a career decision that will allow me to see the world. I will come back for the one when things settle down. If she felt she had no choice then she had no choice, but I would have been there no matter what it took. Still would. If it is meant to be then it will be. Don't ever give up on what you want and what makes you happy. I am not looking for someone to put me first, I am putting me first. Never give up....ever.....defeat is not an option when it comes to life. One Love.....
Good Guys Wear Black

Hendersonville, TN

#17 Oct 1, 2012
theydowearblack wrote:
<quoted text> U r an amazing man,whoever u r!!!! A lot of men would not acccept her decision and wud not b so respectful of her feelings and accept her decision. Mayb she felt she just had no other choice n did it so u could find someone who could put u first in their life. People do come to crossroads in their lives and sometimes hav to let go of somethin they really care about. I wish u luck in ur dreams and some lucky girl will snatch u up fast!!! Follow ur heart in all u do n Go With God.
If there was ever one then it would have been the one I am talking about, I do not know who Crystal Hawk is though. Thank you for thinking I am so amazing when you do not even know who I am. However, when things are great and so amazing you never forget those feelings. Even though I am not looking for some girl to snatch me up, I am not losing sight of what I want in my life. If she had no other choice then thats ok, but figuring out a way to do it together would have been nice. I just hope we can remain friends and still do things together until my career takes me where it may. Never settle, never give up what you want, never judge a book by it's cover. If there is a will, there is a way....sometimes that way has to found. One Love..........
Good Woman

Hendersonville, TN

#18 Oct 2, 2012
This is to "theydowearblack", you sound as if you may know this guy. I think that any woman who would do this to such an "amazing" man should be punched in the face. Whats his name if he treat a woman like that after she dump him then I want to meet him in person. sound to me like there is another reason than what is being told. How old is this guy, i need a good man.
Good Guys Wear Black

Hendersonville, TN

#19 Oct 2, 2012
No need in violence. I took it with honor.
Awesome O

Charlotte, NC

#20 Oct 2, 2012
Rarely is the reason given the real reason for the breakup. I e

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