My biological mother/father again
Yes

Greeneville, TN

#111 Jul 25, 2013
I located a Barry Seckler from Kingsport, TN, but he died of Cancer in 2008. He was born in 1947, so that would have made him 24 in 1971!!!! Vicki, you had better check this guy out......sounds like the winner!

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#112 Jul 25, 2013
Yes wrote:
I located a Barry Seckler from Kingsport, TN, but he died of Cancer in 2008. He was born in 1947, so that would have made him 24 in 1971!!!! Vicki, you had better check this guy out......sounds like the winner!
I have done my research on Him Barry Seckler and the phone number i was givin and found myself last week was working because I left two messages. NOW yesterday I tried calling the same number and ITS DISCONNECTED. Does anyone know if this person has any kids or does/did his wife know about Rebecca or "his fling".??

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#113 Jul 25, 2013
Wind Spirit wrote:
I knew her also and I agree the truth was not in her. One of the many men she names was a Barry Guy. I thinks he was dating someone by the name of Barry Seckler during that time. At least, that is what I remember the last name to be. Maybe he is the father and she changed the last name. The best I can remember a baby was involved. I knew her we were not friends. Does anyone remember this name? I will continue to help her until all avenues are exhausted. I have not met Vicki personally. I saw her story and it touched my heart. We have spoken many times and she has always been truthful.
Thanks wind spirit. ALL your HELP in this matter is amazing and IM Not giving up. All the other people that are willing to help me and NOT BASH me for wanting to get to the bottom of this your help is ALSO greatly appreciated.

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#114 Jul 25, 2013
Check that name out. It has been so many years that I had forgotten a lot of this. When you are someone mentioned Bluff City it all started coming back to me. I am almost 100% sure he told me about dating Becky and what happened. I met the other woman that had a child by him it was a little boy and his name was Christian. You both would be about the same age. I knew Barry through my cousin (male cousin) he was attractive and had a good personality. From what I remember he told the girls he never hid his attentions and that was no wedding band. Christian's mother was from Kingsport. I have no clue where my cousin is these days he is quite a wanderer so he could be anywhere. If I do find him I will ask him what he remembers. That was during the "hippie area" and he fit the part, drugs and all. For you that belive everything that Becky says get your "rose colored glasses" off because you don't really know your class mate. Since I started helping Vickie (started on FB) I have spoken to several people that went to the same high school and I thought I was not easily shocked until they started talking. I must have had blinders on in those days. I hope this helps. I really think there is a good chance he is the one.

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#115 Jul 25, 2013
Is there a edit on these post. I saw sme typos on mine and would like to correct.

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#116 Jul 25, 2013
Yes wrote:
I located a Barry Seckler from Kingsport, TN, but he died of Cancer in 2008. He was born in 1947, so that would have made him 24 in 1971!!!! Vicki, you had better check this guy out......sounds like the winner!
That is about the age I remember. He was a few years older than me. I am almost positive Becky is the girl he told me about she told him the baby was his but he was not 100% sure. He had no intention of being a father at that point in his life.

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#117 Jul 25, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
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I have done my research on Him Barry Seckler and the phone number i was givin and found myself last week was working because I left two messages. NOW yesterday I tried calling the same number and ITS DISCONNECTED. Does anyone know if this person has any kids or does/did his wife know about Rebecca or "his fling".??
Disconnecting the phone tells you a lot. I think we finally have the right person WITHOUT BECKY'S HELP. I looked him up also and I think there were maybe two children by his wife. He had others by various women. I only know the first name of one of the children. A little boy by the name of Christian. He was a little cutie with blonde hair almost white. I will keep diggin and going deeper into my memory.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#119 Jul 26, 2013
commentstovickie wrote:
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Your adoptive parents must be so hurt. I don't think you will ever know who your biological father is. Even if the real name came up how could you ever know for sure unless he is still alive and freely offers DNA sample. Just be happy. Let this go and find peace. Have your family tested for whatever you are worried about.
WELL for your information my adopotive mom and dad are perfectly fine with all this. My momma knows everything I do and every avenue that I pursue. You better be careful of what you say because yeah the truth WILL come out and guess what KARMA is a bitch.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#120 Jul 26, 2013
Voice From the Past wrote:
Wind Spirit you are my hero fighting for truth, justice and the American Way, a rare quality in today's world!!!
Yes Wind Spirit you are my hero as well. Thanks for believing in me and all the help that EVERYONE has given me. To those of you that has helped anyway. JUST REMEMBER... KARMA is a B*&$H..:) GOOD DAY ALL...awwwww life is grand.:
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#121 Jul 26, 2013
Wind Spirit wrote:
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Disconnecting the phone tells you a lot. I think we finally have the right person WITHOUT BECKY'S HELP. I looked him up also and I think there were maybe two children by his wife. He had others by various women. I only know the first name of one of the children. A little boy by the name of Christian. He was a little cutie with blonde hair almost white. I will keep diggin and going deeper into my memory.
YOU hit that one right on it. I have talked to one of the children and YES we should be on the right track considering SHE KNEW OF ME and i had no idea of her.:) This is amazing. GOD works in ways that NO one will ever know. I cant get down there soon enough. THANKS again for all your help.:) Your an amazing person and lady for everything you have done.:)
commentstovickie

Clemmons, NC

#122 Jul 26, 2013
I have no dog in this race. You should not be offended by any comments when you put yourself out on a public forum especially Topix. Karma comments are childish imo. Hope you find peace. Best wishes to your family.
From Green

Campobello, SC

#123 Jul 27, 2013
Keep up the good work....3

Since: Jul 13

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#124 Jul 27, 2013
For all you people out there that KNOWS REBECCA.. Im sorry. I am not in the topix group to "slander" "Bash" or "Make Fun of". I am an innocent person that is just looking for answers. Yes I do have paper work from the Dept of Tennessee and Yes I do have answers. Not the ones that Rebecca ever told me tho. The answers are from people here on topix helping me find my biological father or at least his kin. For all of you that know, I MAY HAVE FOUND him. Im not putting names out there UNTIL i am at least 99% sure of who he is, and until I CONFRONT Rebecca about this. I have been working diligently with some people on Topix, and facebook that know who he could be and who Rebecca really is. There are so many lies that have been told to you by Rebecca but thats neither here nor there. I am working on finding this person and like I said before IM PRETTY SURE i have found him and his family. So RUN BACK to REBECCA and let her know that I have ALMOST completed what I have set out to do WITHOUT HER HELP. Until i get proof I will just keep searching with the help of my friends and family. Thanks to all and YOU all know who you are. Children are coming out of the wood works with this.:)
amiright

Greeneville, TN

#125 Jul 27, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
<quoted text>YOU hit that one right on it. I have talked to one of the children and YES we should be on the right track considering SHE KNEW OF ME and i had no idea of her.:) This is amazing. GOD works in ways that NO one will ever know. I cant get down there soon enough. THANKS again for all your help.:) Your an amazing person and lady for everything you have done.:)
If she knew of you, why didn't she try to contact you?

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#126 Jul 27, 2013
amiright wrote:
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If she knew of you, why didn't she try to contact you?
This is a saga going on for 20 + years. I have known of Rebecca and she has known about me obviously for 41 years. I found her in 1993 when I turned 21. Legally she could NOT contact me until I lawfully went the correct routes to correspond with her. She has pictures of me when I was a baby and all the way up til here just recently. This is not something that has been going on for a few weeks or months, this has been YEARS and YEARS!!

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#127 Jul 27, 2013
I know her too wrote:
I've known Becky since GLENWOOD and I can tell you that you will NEVER get the truth out of her because it isn't in her. She lies pathologically. Always has, always will. She cares for no one except Becky. But did she not give up at least two kids?
Well i may not get my answers from her but EVERYONE in Greeneville apparently knows of her. People start talking when the name is mentioned. I agree about the lying part. She has not told me the truth about a lot of people or stories but ya know shes the one that has to live with that. NOT ME!! ;) and as far as babies I am the only one she has given up for adoption that Im aware of. If more then i have no clue and Im not going to knock her for that. She did me a huge favor by giving me up i just wanted to be given the same opportunity to know my bio father and/or family and I believe that will come true sooner than later. Thanks for the insight.:)
amiright

United States

#128 Jul 27, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
<quoted text>This is a saga going on for 20 + years. I have known of Rebecca and she has known about me obviously for 41 years. I found her in 1993 when I turned 21. Legally she could NOT contact me until I lawfully went the correct routes to correspond with her. She has pictures of me when I was a baby and all the way up til here just recently. This is not something that has been going on for a few weeks or months, this has been YEARS and YEARS!!
Such a shame, dear. Good luck with everything.
Vickie Riedling

Olive Hill, KY

#129 Jul 27, 2013
amiright wrote:
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Such a shame, dear. Good luck with everything.
Thank You Very Much!!!!
wowjustwow

Clinton, SC

#130 Jul 27, 2013
You sure inherited Becky's dang it goll darn it my way or no way attitude. Lol. What if you get more than you barganed for in your discovery? Oh hey wait. You can handle it. You are your mother's daughter. Lol.
Vickie Riedling

Olive Hill, KY

#131 Jul 27, 2013
wowjustwow wrote:
You sure inherited Becky's dang it goll darn it my way or no way attitude. Lol. What if you get more than you barganed for in your discovery? Oh hey wait. You can handle it. You are your mother's daughter. Lol.
I sure am my mothers daughter OH BUT WAIT.. Becky gave me up when I.was four days old..Becky had no part of raising me..MY MOTHER AND FATHER raised me..Im doing just fine..evidentally your the one with the rough time
handling it..

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