My biological mother/father again

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

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#90 Jul 20, 2013
Ooooo.... Kinda appears that this birth mother has been talking some sh*t about Vickie because she's turning the heat up under Rebecca's rear... Means you're closer to answers Vickie! She's retaliating... And she will slip. ;)
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#91 Jul 20, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
Ooooo.... Kinda appears that this birth mother has been talking some sh*t about Vickie because she's turning the heat up under Rebecca's rear... Means you're closer to answers Vickie! She's retaliating... And she will slip. ;)
lolol I hear ya.. Dont attack my family.especially IF YOU(they) dont.know anything.of the.such... Ya know?

Since: Jun 13

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#92 Jul 20, 2013
Vickie keep the heat up you have her running scared. She knows you are getting close to the truth. I friended Vickie when I say her post on FB asking for help. She is not a "drama queen". She is a child just trying to find answeres and any "mother" not that Becky Harmon deserves to be called this would try to help their child. Rebecca had the fun of creating Vickie and then gave her up as soon as she could. She never expected the child to return and now she is running scared from all her lies. Vickie check out a older married man that has passed. To be blunt when he was concerned well lets just say the time is right. I know for a fact she dated him during the time you would have been conceived. He was married and could not marry her and he had other children. Find the children get a DNA and there is a real good chance you will get answers. I don't want to hurt you but she was very free with sex so she could have been sleeping with more than one man. Someone in their little group will know the answers. As for "who gives a crap" that sounds alot like Becky tring to get you to back off and I can say she does not "give a crap"
or she would tell you the truth unless she slept with so many guys she does not know and there is a good chance of that.

Since: Jun 13

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#93 Jul 20, 2013
who gives a crap wrote:

It is a shame that all of u don't have anything to do but bash someone that u don't even know.I thinkthat this Vicky likes drama and arttention.if she is such a loving mother why don't she spend more time with them instead of on here making up lies.she has been told the truth over and over,by the way,Dr.Robert Cooper delivered her.if she has her records she would know this.she has got all u people wondering what her real mother is really like.if u knew the truth u all would be surprised.so be careful as to what u say cause u only know what Vickie tells u.

If you would read you would realize that many of us knew her and went to school with her. We knew what she was like. I personally never thought she would stoop so low as to not help the child she gave up for adoption. Becky it is time you told the truth and ask Vickie for forgiveness for all the hurt you have caused her. Life did not deal this to you nope you created life. Fess up and then maybe redemption.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#94 Jul 20, 2013
Wind Spirit wrote:
Vickie keep the heat up you have her running scared. She knows you are getting close to the truth. I friended Vickie when I say her post on FB asking for help. She is not a "drama queen". She is a child just trying to find answeres and any "mother" not that Becky Harmon deserves to be called this would try to help their child. Rebecca had the fun of creating Vickie and then gave her up as soon as she could. She never expected the child to return and now she is running scared from all her lies. Vickie check out a older married man that has passed. To be blunt when he was concerned well lets just say the time is right. I know for a fact she dated him during the time you would have been conceived. He was married and could not marry her and he had other children. Find the children get a DNA and there is a real good chance you will get answers. I don't want to hurt you but she was very free with sex so she could have been sleeping with more than one man. Someone in their little group will know the answers. As for "who gives a crap" that sounds alot like Becky tring to get you to back off and I can say she does not "give a crap"
or she would tell you the truth unless she slept with so many guys she does not know and there is a good chance of that.
Thanks and with the support of the ones WILLING to help me out i greatly appreciate it..I know the lies shes told me and everyone else.. I know when its my time to answer at the pearly gates I will be able to because GOD knows I have done nothing wrong..THANKS agIn Wond Spirit..Your awesome and so is GAPeach.:)

Since: Jun 13

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#95 Jul 20, 2013
Janice she told you one version of many. She is a con and you got snowed...
who gives a crap

Moore, SC

#96 Jul 21, 2013
Maybe if u would get off your ass and computer and do some actual research you might just see what the truth is.it don't matter how many is on your side,what matters is finding the info. That u are looking for.stop blameimg others for things,get off topics and start searching,but make sure when u find. It u appoligize to the people on here who thought they were upholding you.
Innocent bystander

Groveland, FL

#97 Jul 21, 2013
It sounds to me like it don't matter what Rebecca or anyone else tells you, you are going to believe what you want to anyway whether she is lying or not. You have went as far as bashing her and everyone and anyone that knows her. I don't know Rebecca but it seems to me she ain't the one with the problem. If you are not satisfied with her answers drop the subject and find your own answers as you are already doing. Let it be. If you wanted real answers you wouldn't have come to this site to start with. Maybe he is dead maybe not maybe he is reading this laughing his a@@ off but if he walked up to you today and said he was your father you wouldn't believe that either. Slandering people is not the way to find out answers and I think it sounds like you have agrivated and exhausted the sources so much you are not going to get the answers. I agree everyone needs to know of their father even if he is not in your life but you are not
Going about this the right way. Apparently from what I have read she has lied to you many times so be it move on and leave her out of it there are sides to every story so maybe it is better left this
Way. Move on!

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#99 Jul 21, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
<quoted text>Thanks and with the support of the ones WILLING to help me out i greatly appreciate it..I know the lies shes told me and everyone else.. I know when its my time to answer at the pearly gates I will be able to because GOD knows I have done nothing wrong..THANKS agIn Wond Spirit..Your awesome and so is GAPeach.:)
Thanks Vickie.:-) you have my support 100%... I just wish I could help more!

Since: Jun 13

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#100 Jul 21, 2013
Keep the pressure up. She has to be atleast 59 or 60 years old so it is time to quit stalling with the truth. After all these years what could anyone do to her. I think she just doesn't want to tell you the truth. When she told the lied that you had died and she visited your grave did she tell you what cemetery? I would be happy to find it and take a picture for you. Maybe that would reveal something and maybe not. I will continue to help and research is one of my specalities....

Since: Jun 13

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#101 Jul 21, 2013
Rebecca Harmon the truth will come out...your daughter will get answers.
commentstovickie

Clemmons, NC

#102 Jul 23, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
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Yes she got pregnant in July of 1971 the summer between her Jr Year and her Senior Year. She graduated May 22, 1972 which is the day she signed the for real paper work for me being put up for adoption legally. The "alleged" father on the paper work but not the birth certificate states he was 24 and in the Army stationed somewhere in VA. and she said that he was leaving for Vietnam and DID NOT TELL HIM she was pregnant and did not correspond to any letters he wrote to her because she could not bare to have another pregnancy and that she was to busy partying and hanging out with her friends to keep me. Hey, IM HAPPY SHE DIDNT because I have the BEST PARENTS EVER. Her giving me up for adoption was a "BLESSING IN DISGUISE". But on the other hand I want to know my history of what else I have to worry about. ie..heart disease, cancer, any thing of that nature. and I have that right to know. If someone gave her "hush" money thats on her not me. I didnt get that so Im STILL searching.
Your adoptive parents must be so hurt. I don't think you will ever know who your biological father is. Even if the real name came up how could you ever know for sure unless he is still alive and freely offers DNA sample. Just be happy. Let this go and find peace. Have your family tested for whatever you are worried about.
I know her too

United States

#103 Jul 23, 2013
I've known Becky since GLENWOOD and I can tell you that you will NEVER get the truth out of her because it isn't in her. She lies pathologically. Always has, always will. She cares for no one except Becky. But did she not give up at least two kids?
I know her too

United States

#104 Jul 23, 2013
Here's an example of the way she lies:

She's always tanned excessively. Always. At one point, she was telling people that she had cancer and that she was only allowed to tan once a week for 10 minutes and that she was naturally dark. One of the people she told it to tanned at the same place and asked about it one day. She tanned EVERY DAY FOR 30 MINUTES. That was the max allowed at the time. We used to joke that she was so bad off that she could only take her clothes off and stand beside the tanning bed.

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#105 Jul 23, 2013
I know her too wrote:
Here's an example of the way she lies:
She's always tanned excessively. Always. At one point, she was telling people that she had cancer and that she was only allowed to tan once a week for 10 minutes and that she was naturally dark. One of the people she told it to tanned at the same place and asked about it one day. She tanned EVERY DAY FOR 30 MINUTES. That was the max allowed at the time. We used to
joke that she was so bad off that she could only
take her clothes off and stand beside the
tanning bed.
As a mother who has RAISED my children... I laid in a tanning bed at one point in time... Then I started to see "places" appear, kind of like freckles... it scared the h£ll out me... And because of my children and knowing that they need me here... I STOPPED laying in tanning beds. I don't particularly like being lighter. I loved my tan... BUT I LOVE MY CHILDREN MORE.

I know that giving her child up for adoption makes the issue very different for her... BUT in the same, WHAT KIND OF IDIOT gets cancer and chooses to still lay in a [email protected] tanning bed?!? No doctor on this earth is going to tell her it's okay... And for anyone to believe that... Omg. Lol thank you for this... It just validates Vickie's commemts about Rebecca's "bad choices" and lies. I just hope that I don't know any of Rebecca's "friends"... Lol
I know her too

Smartt, TN

#106 Jul 23, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
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As a mother who has RAISED my children... I laid in a tanning bed at one point in time... Then I started to see "places" appear, kind of like freckles... it scared the h£ll out me... And because of my children and knowing that they need me here... I STOPPED laying in tanning beds. I don't particularly like being lighter. I loved my tan... BUT I LOVE MY CHILDREN MORE.
I know that giving her child up for adoption makes the issue very different for her... BUT in the same, WHAT KIND OF IDIOT gets cancer and chooses to still lay in a [email protected] tanning bed?!? No doctor on this earth is going to tell her it's okay... And for anyone to believe that... Omg. Lol thank you for this... It just validates Vickie's commemts about Rebecca's "bad choices" and lies. I just hope that I don't know any of Rebecca's "friends"... Lol
That's the thimg...she never had cancer. She'd lie sbout something as serious as cancer for vanity.

Since: Jul 13

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#107 Jul 23, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
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As a mother who has RAISED my children... I laid in a tanning bed at one point in time... Then I started to see "places" appear, kind of like freckles... it scared the h£ll out me...
Hmm, it took seeing to believe I suppose? I have never seen the vanity or sanity in baking yourself. But, to each their own. I am a happy pale face.
Innocent bystander

Clover, SC

#108 Jul 23, 2013
Who cares whether Rebecca tans or not. What is the issue here to bash someone or find answers. Maybe she lied maybe not no one knows or will ever know.. You are not going to believe one way or another until someone comes forth with a test. Keep searching and let this Rebecca be. If she has all the paper work she needs or whatever then why is she bothering and slandering this woman and not moving on. Why keep digging for the truth when you say you have the answers in black and white and to bring up someone having cancer is ridiculous. Karma will bite you in the a@@.

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#109 Jul 23, 2013
Someone needs to look up the definition of slander. Js.

Greeneville Goblin... I have learned to accept my paleness for the life I will be able to live for with my children... But if I wear shorts... Everyone around needs shades! Lol

Since: Jun 13

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#110 Jul 24, 2013
I knew her also and I agree the truth was not in her. One of the many men she names was a Barry Guy. I thinks he was dating someone by the name of Barry Seckler during that time. At least, that is what I remember the last name to be. Maybe he is the father and she changed the last name. The best I can remember a baby was involved. I knew her we were not friends. Does anyone remember this name? I will continue to help her until all avenues are exhausted. I have not met Vicki personally. I saw her story and it touched my heart. We have spoken many times and she has always been truthful.

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