My biological mother/father again

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#25 Jul 18, 2013
As a community that thrives on gossip and drama, everyone seems to be quiet about this? Sorry for your struggle. Maybe soon someone will come out of the woodwork and give you some information. Knowing details of this and keeping quiet is not "Christian like" or decent in any way. Someone tell this woman something!! Have you confronted your birth mother with the details of your findings? If so what was the reaction? If you don't mind.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#26 Jul 18, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
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Absolutely. I'm not sure I remember entirely how his history would play into her diagnosis but I do believe the dr's are the ones pushing for her to get the info. There's another thread that might be an interesting read if you get the time. Although I cannot remember how it is titled, I'm sure it can be found by typing in Vickie or Rebecca's name.
I keep thinking back on many years ago when people raised the kids they birthed. I know there has always been issues where mom is young and still lives at home and baby is raised as a sibling to mom... But the family took care of it's offspring... The problem with the human race anymore is so many think that they are owed something ....
So what is going on here is that I have been diagnosed Insulin Resistant NOT a pure diabetic. My daughter (my youngest) has the same thing as me. the Drs say it comes from the Paternal side since in the records of the Harmons there is NO diabetic people at all according to the Sister of Rebecca and from Rebecca and other family memebers as well. I have 3 children of my own and trust me I CANT even imagine someone else raising my kids. Yes it was brought to my attention and Yes i was an unwed mother BUT i was fortunate enough to have the father of ALLL my children in our lives. We have now been married for over 22 years and I would not have it any other way. IM SO THANKFUL for MY PARENTS who RAISED me to be the person I am today. I truly think that with me being given up for adoption MY LIFE WAS SAVED.. No tellin where or who i would be with. The other thread on here from before is My biological mother/father. This one just has again after it.:) thanks for all the help and SUPPORT from everyone.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#27 Jul 18, 2013
Greeneville Goblin wrote:
As a community that thrives on gossip and drama, everyone seems to be quiet about this? Sorry for your struggle. Maybe soon someone will come out of the woodwork and give you some information. Knowing details of this and keeping quiet is not "Christian like" or decent in any way. Someone tell this woman something!! Have you confronted your birth mother with the details of your findings? If so what was the reaction? If you don't mind.
I have been battling with her for over 20 years. There has been many stories told. The people at the State of Tennessee had to type what she told them for records and thru the different organizations the story has changed SEVERAL times. Me confronting her.. bbbbbbhahahahahahahah NOT a good idea right now..:)
She said in the paper work that her family went to a church right beside her house and she felt "Funny" going because of the talk and finger point back then. She also said in the paper work at one point she called off the relationship with this man because she could not handle getting pregnant again so it was an all sex relationship. She never told him of me at all so I am still searching with hope to find the family who ever it will be. I have talked to SEVERAL people that know of her and knew of her and she has not changed one bit and PLUS my paper work shows that as well. there are so MANY STORIES i could literally go on for days.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#28 Jul 18, 2013
Voice From the Past wrote:
<quoted text>If you cannot imagine this of her then she is just as good at lying to you as she is at lying to her daughter. Those of us who knew her at SGHS and a few years after would know what she was capable of. If she truly wants to be thought of as a good person, then she needs to quit fabricating and honor this her child by admitting the truth and giving her as much info as she can, accurate, truthful info. Time for deception has passed, time for redemption is at hand.
The case workers on my case from 1972 wrote several stories that she told them (which they had to) and trust me the stories, timelines, and dates do not mesh at all. The last time she saw me was when i was 4 days old. She then asked the social workers to take a pic of me when i was already in foster care. THEY DID IT.. lol.. LYING is an understatement. I wish i could upload all the paper work and let everyone see what she has said, and all the different CRAP she has told to all kinds of people. I wish she would just tell me and then I would leave her alone and go about my way. I DO have a FAMILY that loves me unconditionally and I love them the same. They really are my rock in this whole mess of lies and deception. AND DECEPTION it sure is.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#29 Jul 18, 2013
Voice From the Past wrote:
It is time you fess up and tell this girl, your daughter, the truth Rebecca. Do you think Judgement Day will give you a free pass with this hanging over your head? Are you an unbeliever who thinks your sins will go unpunished? You were irresponsible once and now it is time for you to be responsible and help this girl who needs you. It is time, tell her what she wants to know, and no lies this time.
Her excuse will be that she has told me everything she knows. She told me that she went to South Carolina to meet him at 17. REALLY? CRAP!! She told someone else that he died in a car crash. REALLY? CRAP!! she told me another story that he died in VIETNAM.. REALLY? CRAP!! Oh her sins will by far go unpunished. When I brought up another name to her and her sister they were both like "how did you find that name, who told you that name, WE never ever bring up that name AT ALL" so me being the person I am. I SURE DID BRING UP THAT NAME!! and everyone was all over it. I even spoke to several people in that family and YEAH, Rebeccas name was mentioned several times in heated arguments, which leads me to believe IT COULD BE (MORE THAN LIKELY IS) someone other than BARRY GUYE, GUIE, GUIYE, GUY as my bio father. Seems to me that she was trying to pin it on someone that was making something of themselves and SHE WANTED A SUGAR DADDY!!!

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#30 Jul 18, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
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The case workers on my case from 1972 wrote several stories that she told them (which they had to) and trust me the stories, timelines, and dates do not mesh at all. The last time she saw me was when i was 4 days old. She then asked the social workers to take a pic of me when i was already in foster care. THEY DID IT.. lol.. LYING is an understatement. I wish i could upload all the paper work and let everyone see what she has said, and all the different CRAP she has told to all kinds of people. I wish she would just tell me and then I would leave her alone and go about my way. I DO have a FAMILY that loves me unconditionally and I love them the same. They really are my rock in this whole mess of lies and deception. AND DECEPTION it sure is.
If you had a scanner, you could scan the documents and post them on an image hosting site. Then give us the url to the pictures. Easy enough!:)
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#31 Jul 18, 2013
So a few more stories that i Have seein on the paper work is that when Rebecca graduated from SGHS she was moving to Atlanta to go to a factory and work... CRAP!! another one is that she was going to graduate from SGHS and go work at the GREENEVILLE SUN newspaper.. CRAP!! She called the relationship with this alleged father off because she wasnt interested in marriage and thats the reason for adoption and her decision for not telling him about me. She said in the paper work that she was in fear of another pregnancy and she couldnt handle a relationship with him without sexual involvement. She said she had dreams of me that someone was trying to take me away from her and another one that she tried killing me and another one that she just dreamed of me. ALL THIS from my paper work i just got. She also told the people that HE LIVED IN BLUFF CITY VA, and we all know there is NOT a Bluff City VA. Yeah, there is a Tennessee.. SO WHICH IS IT!! She cant tell the same story twice thats forsure. I have MORE if anyone is interested. can go on for days with this CRAP!! Her validity to me is OUT THE DOOR!!!
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#32 Jul 18, 2013
Greeneville Goblin wrote:
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If you had a scanner, you could scan the documents and post them on an image hosting site. Then give us the url to the pictures. Easy enough!:)
Thats great and all but there is personal information on there and I dont wannna get sued. LOL but great thought. Ill just keep answering questions and what not. Thanks for the info tho.:)
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#34 Jul 18, 2013
I wish for once that someone would stand up to her instead of all this petty crap and take up for innocence. ME!!! SOme people talk a big game and say they will BUT in all actual reality NOPE no one has the guts to go to her and let her know what a real piece of work she really is and that her lies are out of the closet and to come clean to me. THATS ALL I WANT is TRUTHFUL VERIFIABLE ANSWERS and I would leave it alone. TOTALLLY ALONE. But instead she makes UP MORE lies and PEOPLE believe them. Well not me. I check EVERY AVENUE that has been thrown to me and yeah they all are LIES LIES LIES!! SOmeone help ME by standing up for me to her.

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#35 Jul 18, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
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Thats great and all but there is personal information on there and I dont wannna get sued. LOL but great thought. Ill just keep answering questions and what not. Thanks for the info tho.:)
Many people don't like Facebook but there are a lot of people on Facebook... You could black out the info that's personal and scan in what you want... You could put up pics of her and you and let us add and share your page thru fb and see if it helps.?

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#36 Jul 18, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
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Many people don't like Facebook but there are a lot of people on Facebook... You could black out the info that's personal and scan in what you want... You could put up pics of her and you and let us add and share your page thru fb and see if it helps.?
Yeah, just get rid of SS#'s, phone #'s, and residences maybe? Just check with those that are named in the documents to make sure they do not mind being named in public. I would imagine if anyone had sympathy for you, they wouldn't mind. A FB page about this would be good and will be around longer than a Topix thread. Maybe it will take time and a bit of public pressure to make the correct people see their faults and attempt to make things just. Those who have "fell for her lies", may open their eyes and see her for what she is. Nice suggestion GA peach.:)

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#37 Jul 18, 2013
Greeneville Goblin wrote:
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Yeah, just get rid of SS#'s, phone #'s, and residences maybe? Just check with those that are named in the documents to make sure they do not mind being named in public. I would imagine if anyone had sympathy for you, they wouldn't mind. A FB page about this would be good and will be around longer than a Topix thread. Maybe it will take time and a bit of public pressure to make the correct people see their
faults and attempt to make things just. Those
who have "fell for her lies", may open their eyes
and see her for what she is. Nice suggestion GA peach.:)
Thanks. I just know I see stories shared and have seen where people are getting answers. It'd be worth the shot... And it's possible that a pic of Vickie an Rebecca would jar someone's memory and maybe they'd step up with answers. I still say that local news would be a good place to go also. Let them shine a light on the facts that are known and see if anyone comes forward... I cannot imagine what she's going through... But I applaud Vickie for trying and for RAISING 3 children of her own.
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#38 Jul 18, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
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Thanks. I just know I see stories shared and have seen where people are getting answers. It'd be worth the shot... And it's possible that a pic of Vickie an Rebecca would jar someone's memory and maybe they'd step up with answers. I still say that local news would be a good place to go also. Let them shine a light on the facts that are known and see if anyone comes forward... I cannot imagine what she's going through... But I applaud Vickie for trying and for RAISING 3 children of her own.
Thanks everyone!!!! For all the great ideas you are.giving me..how do u.post.pics on this site...i can put my pic.on here and the pic that I have of her.. Lol IF anyone is.interested..
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#39 Jul 18, 2013
Voice From the Past wrote:
<quoted text>Let me get this straight, the most likely person who could be your father is a guy who is the head of a well to do family here in Greeneville, but he is dead. He has a son but the son has refused DNA because of Rebecca. I am afraid there are many, many stories like this in Greeneville. I mean we have kids running around in very prominent families who look nothing like their Dads but look identical to a man the Mom was friendly with. It happens all the time.
Im sayin there is a big possibility of two people of which one.she.still.to.this day.goes around.. I will NOT publically put that name out.. If anyone want to know that name they.can mesaage me privately thru email AT [email protected]

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#40 Jul 18, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
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Thanks everyone!!!! For all the great ideas you are.giving me..how do u.post.pics on this site...i can put my pic.on here and the pic that I have of her.. Lol IF anyone is.interested..
I'm not sure how to upload more than one bc I'm on mobile and I can't even get this dang thing to add my profile back... But I've heard tale that it can be done... I do know you have to register and have an account... Maybe once you do that it will lead you thru the steps?
Vickie Riedling

Richmond, KY

#41 Jul 18, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
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I'm not sure how to upload more than one bc I'm on mobile and I can't even get this dang thing to add my profile back... But I've heard tale that it can be done... I do know you have to register and have an account... Maybe once you do that it will lead you thru the steps?
Lol I already have an account under a dufferent name so no one knows its me.. Lmbo ill get on my laptop and see what I.can.do.. Did u.go on my FB and see my pic..if so what.did ya think?

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#42 Jul 18, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
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Lol I already have an account under a dufferent name so no one knows its me.. Lmbo ill get on my laptop and see what I.can.do.. Did u.go on my FB and see my pic..if so what.did ya think?
Nope, but I will!:-)

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#43 Jul 18, 2013
Vickie Riedling wrote:
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Lol I already have an account under a dufferent name so no one knows its me.. Lmbo ill get on my laptop and see what I.can.do.. Did u.go on my FB and see my pic..if so what.did ya think?
I'm not finding you on fb?:-(
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Greeneville, TN

#44 Jul 18, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
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I'm not finding you on fb?:-(
https://www.facebook.com/vickie.riedling

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#45 Jul 18, 2013
Here wrote:
Thanks! I tried and tried but kept getting "no results" :-(

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