Vulcan1333

Alcoa, TN

#62 Nov 7, 2012
ok i did nowhere in my post say a parent shouldnt have to pay child support..was just pointing out that there are some fathers in the same shoes as those single mothers. And YES!! if some1 has a chile they need to take responsability. But that responsability is taking care of the children..not the deadbeat mothers living off of the CS and wellfare.I'm 22 years old and too see all these "ADULTS" act like this discusses me. I have ben payin CS for my son as of 2007(Even though he lived with me and was taking very well care of). And i got laid off back in August and i now risk the chance of going to jail on account of not paying child support. There is a difference in a "Loving" father and a hardworkin man who is LAID OFF!!! Rather than a person denying any claim or responsability to there children just to TRY to not have to pay CS. I KNOW i have a beautiful son and i honestly cant pay cs right now...Should i be jailed? I have been searching for a job since the day after i lost my last job. As i previously stated..a man down on his luck isnt a terrible good for nothing father!!Jobs are scarce and by the way the election went i dont see it getting any better for quite a while. What sorry candidates we had to choose from this year right? But just saying to please dont talk down on men not paying cs until u know there story and what there really going through. I know its my responsability and i do not mind it at all. Soon as i catch a break ill start payin like nothing had ever happened..Thanks to my ex good job at least i know my Income Tax check will pay up my back pay lol
The system is broke

Paterson, NJ

#64 Nov 11, 2012
It is absolutely ludicrous that someone (loosely, when has a woman gone to jail for not paying) would be sent to jail for not being able to pay legitimately.. The system favors the mother whether she custodial or not. When I custody she didn't work, and paid (when she wanted to) the minimum. If I had got any level of support I would still have custody... But now that I'm not custodial I get to pay my 25 percent, and health care and don't forget arrears which have made it impossible for me to maintain residence and transportation to see them(good luck getting her to bring them) with 2 jobs. And she's suing for more money... But I'm the deadbeat. The system can kiss my ass, and if they put me in jail, I'll lose my job so how am I gonna pay then? How am I ever going to pay? It's no wonder why fathers walk away who would want to put up with this, and it ain't never going to end.
MommaR

Paducah, KY

#65 Nov 23, 2012
Not only can you be put in jail but no bond will be granted. You will be STUCK there until every single penny is paid back! I know this for a FACT! I know 2 ppl sittin in GC Hilton atm for exactly that reason
Sassy

Abingdon, VA

#66 Nov 24, 2012
they need to be not good for anything else!!!
dead beat dads

Rockwood, TN

#67 Nov 24, 2012
ive been to child support 5times and the dead beat still hasnt went to jail an want pay he had to get a layer appointed to him now so we go back next month so idk what will happen now prob just him still getting it free in life
RonJeremy

Madison, AL

#68 Nov 24, 2012
Does a bear shit in the woods?
RonJeremy

Madison, AL

#69 Nov 24, 2012
That decision is in your hands. Make it known to the DA that you want him to go to jail, and that will change things. It is all up to you.

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#70 Nov 24, 2012
Hopefully.
tr

Salisbury, NC

#71 Nov 25, 2012
Hell Yeah Jesse Wilhoit did ha ha ha!!!
Been there

Elizabethton, TN

#80 Dec 4, 2012
girlWitAKid wrote:
They all need to be locked up
should go for women as same as men,why did they pass the law about taking their drvers license hunting and fishing license.why don't they do it and show some people that they can,voted it but no licensebeen taken
Stella

Griffin, GA

#81 Dec 8, 2012
Vulcan1333 wrote:
<quoted text>see exactly! its women like u that put loving fathers such as myself in jail because our economy is shit and we have been laid off and put in jail. It is in no way shape or form your money so he doesnt owe'YOU"a damn thing. He is supposed to pay for the care and wellbeing of his children, not there mother and her "Habits".
Uh...all the years she paid his share? Yeah. He owes her big-time with interest you fool. Kids have to eat whether its convenient or not. They have to go to the er when their sick..not when you get caught up in your bills.
dan

Brooklyn, NY

#82 Dec 26, 2012
Really wrote:
This is a stupid ??? of course a man/woman if willfully not paying CS will go to jail. Now, how that helps the children? Mom/Dad's in jail, no income & now has a record to make it harder for them to get a job. Kind of STUPID logic. Oh well, ladies go for it. You work while we sit in jail playing cards, having our meals brought to us & sleeping all we want. Oh, by the way, your tax dollars pay to keep us fed while in jail. SMART.
This just sounds like the most foolish comment ever.pay your child support and you wouldnt be there in the first place.youd rather be locked up and get free meals and have your free will taken from you then to support a child financially that has your blood running in their veins.youre a got damn fool.sounds like a male who has done this time before.have mercy on your soul
Wondering why

Johnson City, TN

#83 Jan 10, 2013
Been there wrote:
<quoted text>should go for women as same as men,why did they pass the law about taking their drvers license hunting and fishing license.why don't they do it and show some people that they can,voted it but no licensebeen taken
how can they do some and let others get away with it.Like Holly Ricker for instance.her pic was in busted paper again.she can always come up with money for bonding out but not for child support,might as well say they give her a slap on the hand and go free,and that stinks to me,how about every body else from ones that know her
big a

United States

#84 Jan 11, 2013
Wondering why wrote:
<quoted text>how can they do some and let others get away with it.Like Holly Ricker for instance.her pic was in busted paper again.she can always come up with money for bonding out but not for child support,might as well say they give her a slap on the hand and go free,and that stinks to me,how about every body else from ones that know her
she should have died in that wreck pos
Wow

United States

#85 Jan 11, 2013
big a wrote:
<quoted text>
she should have died in that wreck pos
this is a very shitty thing to say.
Tracy

Monroe, GA

#86 Jan 23, 2013
Geez wrote:
<quoted text>
If they are not paying child support ot helping the kids out why not put them in jail. If the custodial parent doesnt buy groceries they could get charged with neglect, so my question is why dont they charge the dead-beat with neglect? They are doing the child NO good anyway. While I agree that if the non-custodial parent hits a rough spot considerations should be made, but those who show no effort constantly should have all rights such as driving yanked!
If he has not paid anything in five mths for your chid but has the money to keep his other family up. My child is already doing with out so why should his other children not do without as well. Let their mother figure out how to raise them by herself like I do. I dont care what he does in jail.
Stan

Elizabethton, TN

#87 Jan 23, 2013
What man?
please help

United States

#88 Feb 6, 2013
If the father lives in Florida and the child lives in new Mexico, can the father go to jail for not paying child support. He has been giving her money through money order not through child support because she said it would count, but i dont think it does.
I hope

Greeneville, TN

#89 Feb 6, 2013
please help wrote:
If the father lives in Florida and the child lives in new Mexico, can the father go to jail for not paying child support. He has been giving her money through money order not through child support because she said it would count, but i dont think it does.
Hope you keep receipts.
Interested

Greeneville, TN

#90 Feb 6, 2013
looking for info wrote:
Will child support services send a man to jail for not paying his child support?


It happens all the time. Just check out easttennesseemugshots.com . And btw women also go to jail for failure to pay childsupport. I saw that too. LOL Have a good one!

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