imMe

Clover, SC

#1 May 5, 2013
I just love how my husband is on my every move. knowing everything i do..sad that i wouldnt be able to go out with friends.

“I'M BACK.......SPORA DICALLY”

Since: Jun 12

BUFFALO, NY

#2 May 5, 2013
And?
Relate

Tucker, GA

#3 May 5, 2013
imMe wrote:
I just love how my husband is on my every move. knowing everything i do..sad that i wouldnt be able to go out with friends.
This sounds an awful lot like someone I know only her asswad husband doesn't allow her to have friends.
thatsONLYtheBegi nning

Greeneville, TN

#4 May 5, 2013
Possessive? Jealous? That's the first signs of domestic abuse.... Or have you cheated on him before, so now he doesnt trust you anymore? IF not...tell him to get a life and some friends of his own!
Relate

Tucker, GA

#5 May 5, 2013
thatsONLYtheBeginning wrote:
Possessive? Jealous? That's the first signs of domestic abuse.... Or have you cheated on him before, so now he doesnt trust you anymore? IF not...tell him to get a life and some friends of his own!
I agree 4000%
husband point of view

Johnson City, TN

#6 May 5, 2013
First off if you did cheat he has every rigth to knw,whats goin ON,,(very Hard to TRUST AGAIN) you do it once, you will do it again.() if he gave you another chance and YOU CHOOSE not to LEAVE.. you knew the reprecussion in STAYING! be happy didnt thrw you out on your ASS!!! women think they have their hubby right where they want them (oh I can cheat he want do nothing) WRONG!!!!

an isnt point of having FRIENDS its the WRONG friends, a friend is suppose to support the right thing,,, not mess up a 15 to 20yr marriage, most friends look at the womens point of view Not both sides... the man can be the Victom too!! you dont know what goes on behind closed doors. the woman can be a sweet angel in Public ,, but a vindictive bitch at home. and the man may be ashamed he is being abused,and not want to come out and Say anything..... you ladies need get a LIFE and look at it from BOTH SIDES!!!!!
Beef Jerkey

Tucker, GA

#7 May 5, 2013
husband point of view wrote:
First off if you did cheat he has every rigth to knw,whats goin ON,,(very Hard to TRUST AGAIN) you do it once, you will do it again.() if he gave you another chance and YOU CHOOSE not to LEAVE.. you knew the reprecussion in STAYING! be happy didnt thrw you out on your ASS!!! women think they have their hubby right where they want them (oh I can cheat he want do nothing) WRONG!!!!
an isnt point of having FRIENDS its the WRONG friends, a friend is suppose to support the right thing,,, not mess up a 15 to 20yr marriage, most friends look at the womens point of view Not both sides... the man can be the Victom too!! you dont know what goes on behind closed doors. the woman can be a sweet angel in Public ,, but a vindictive bitch at home. and the man may be ashamed he is being abused,and not want to come out and Say anything..... you ladies need get a LIFE and look at it from BOTH SIDES!!!!!
Is there a male version of the finger snap I told you so neck move?
husband point of view

Johnson City, TN

#8 May 5, 2013
Relate wrote:
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This sounds an awful lot like someone I know only her asswad husband doesn't allow her to have friends.
WHO YOU KNOW... maybe you DONT know his SIDE of IT!!!!!
Relate

Tucker, GA

#9 May 5, 2013
husband point of view wrote:
<quoted text>
WHO YOU KNOW... maybe you DONT know his SIDE of IT!!!!!
I do know because I've witnessed the behavior firsthand. He has beaten her down mentally to the point that she has no self-worth or self-esteem. She used to be friendly and outgoing. Now she won't even look up at people. Such a sweet girl too.
grow up

Greeneville, TN

#11 May 5, 2013
Dear, husband point of view

Sounds like it happened to you, so you will be like the woman hating on the opposite sex.

You having trust issues, and being a victim of abuse at home, not knowing how to man up, And leave why? Fear of being alone? the children?thought she'd change?

Or did you finally kick her out? Or you finally left.

Any of the above you now have issues and I feel for anyone that is with you/ or gets with you.

Since: Dec 12

Charlotte, NC

#12 May 5, 2013
The radio talk show hostess, Delilah, addressed this very issue tonight. She told the person to run, not walk, do not pass go & do not collect $200 to get away from him. She & I agree, along with other posts, that this is an early sign of mental abuse & likely physical abuse.

Granny used to say "whenever someone accuses they are usually the one doing!" So, unless you have given a reason for him to be paranoid, guess what he has probably done or is doing?! ;]. Even if you have been unfaithful & he took you back does not give him the right to be excessively controlling. After all, rebuilding a relationship needs to be based on trust.

Thanks for reminding me why I'm divorced and better off now :) Best wishes & good luck with your relationship
imMe

Charlotte, NC

#13 May 6, 2013
Yep..well this man put me thru verbal hell for yrs and then decides to change when hes in danger of losing me..little bit harder for me to change..gonna take a little while. ive lived inside myself for so long . i lost myself..
Relate

Tucker, GA

#14 May 6, 2013
imMe wrote:
Yep..well this man put me thru verbal hell for yrs and then decides to change when hes in danger of losing me..little bit harder for me to change..gonna take a little while. ive lived inside myself for so long . i lost myself..
Been trying to convince my friend to move on but she is afraid to be alone which is ironic since she feels like a prisoner in her own life. She had one close friend but her asswad husband made her push them away. She cries all the time now. She is such a great girl. I hate to see it having been with a man who did the same to me. She deserves better.
Jane Doe

Jonesborough, TN

#15 May 6, 2013
Wow

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