Not quite...Saying you shouldn't date someone from another race is no different than saying you shouldn't date someone with a different hair or eye color from yourself.
Every race DOES have some very particular traits and habits that other races may not. This is where all of the hate stems, imo. I feel like people were FORCED to integrate JUST because of social standards, and that isn't the way to integrate a nation.
I do not blame someone for not wanting to be my friend (to any extent) and base that on my skin color. I do have an issue if they cannot treat me with common decency and respect me as a human.