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Perception

Faith, NC

#44 Apr 9, 2013
christianlady wrote:
Well , I didn't ignore it and we are divorcing now because he can't man up and at least apologize for hurting me. I guess he wasn't man I thought he was anyway
What exactly did he do? Was it just texting someone or did you see visual evidence of an in depth "connection" between the two people? Sometimes a man can be afraid to admit to a woman that he has a female friend simply because of the way it's always perceived as wrong or not allowed. Many women shod trust their men a little and see what happens. However if you find see it with your own eyes then I can't see the grounds for measures as extreme as divorce just yet.
chtistianlady

Charlotte, NC

#45 Apr 10, 2013
Perception wrote:
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What exactly did he do? Was it just texting someone or did you see visual evidence of an in depth "connection" between the two people? Sometimes a man can be afraid to admit to a woman that he has a female friend simply because of the way it's always perceived as wrong or not allowed. Many women shod trust their men a little and see what happens. However if you find see it with your own eyes then I can't see the grounds for measures as extreme as divorce just yet.
he text her at night and sends his LOVE. I don't think this other person is interested in him that way but he has fallen for her. Let him give it all up only to wind up alone! He is not the man I married , somethings changed !

“is your friend ”

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#46 Apr 10, 2013
I have married men calling me a lot.

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#47 Apr 10, 2013
Nasa wrote:
<quoted text> Its not stalking. Its investigating . Lol
Regardless of how you see it, it'll get your feelings hurt around me.:)
dontcare

Charlotte, NC

#48 Apr 10, 2013
Mrs Roberson wrote:
I have married men calling me a lot.
calling someone in presence of your spouse and texting in secret.are two different things! If your spouse texting someone else in secret then there is ulterior motives and guilt involved!
dontcare

Charlotte, NC

#49 Apr 10, 2013
Especially if any part of that text involves word love!!!
With the Crowd

Sparta, TN

#50 Apr 10, 2013
Going through the same thing! He came back, asked for a second chance and is still texting,calling, and seeing her and lying to me about it at the same time! After 25 yrs. of marriage I need the name of a good divorce lawyer PLEASE!!
Perception

United States

#51 Apr 10, 2013
chtistianlady wrote:
<quoted text>he text her at night and sends his LOVE. I don't think this other person is interested in him that way but he has fallen for her. Let him give it all up only to wind up alone! He is not the man I married , somethings changed !
Then I see the feelings you seem to have an I would support your decision.
christianlady

Lancaster, SC

#52 Apr 11, 2013
I don't know what to feel! I am broken ! I love my husband but WORDS can cut as deep as actions! Telling another woman you love them and you have to see her daily at work , that just hurt! Like a knife being stuck in my chest!!!
Hmm

Elizabethton, TN

#53 Apr 11, 2013
christianlady wrote:
I don't know what to feel! I am broken ! I love my husband but WORDS can cut as deep as actions! Telling another woman you love them and you have to see her daily at work , that just hurt! Like a knife being stuck in my chest!!!
I'm truly sorry you feel this way. I assure you it's not the end of the world. It gets better but takes a while. Good luck!
christianlady

Charlotte, NC

#54 Apr 11, 2013
Hmm wrote:
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I'm truly sorry you feel this way. I assure you it's not the end of the world. It gets better but takes a while. Good luck!
thank you. He says it wasn't meant that way. Only God knows what life holds
Bigger Picture

Greeneville, TN

#55 Apr 11, 2013
Maybe there is a bigger picture, something else better intended for you or maybe your marriage may still have a chance and be repairable. Either way sometimes you need a little time to yourself to reflect or just clear your head etc. If you get a chance watch Tyler Perry's "Why did I get married?" Always go with your first instinct and then pray about it. I wish you well.
Hmm

Elizabethton, TN

#56 Apr 11, 2013
Bigger Picture wrote:
Maybe there is a bigger picture, something else better intended for you or maybe your marriage may still have a chance and be repairable. Either way sometimes you need a little time to yourself to reflect or just clear your head etc. If you get a chance watch Tyler Perry's "Why did I get married?" Always go with your first instinct and then pray about it. I wish you well.
I love Tyler Perry's movies.

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#57 Apr 12, 2013
Hmm wrote:
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I love Tyler Perry's movies.
I do, too...and the recommended movie is a very good one...though, given the subject of this thread, I would be likely to take a more "Madea" approach...lol! ;)

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#59 Apr 12, 2013
Alyagotado wrote:
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Sorry, Word Woman. You're wrong. I am perfect. You should give more thought before you post slanderous propaganda like this.
My apologies, Aly...obviously, I was not thinking clearly when I posted that comment or I would have written "none of us are perfect, with the exception of Aly..." or "most of us aren't perfect"...please just know that I was, in no way, attempting to negate the fact that you are, without a doubt, perfection personified...however, this grievous oversight on my part at least proves that I, in fact, am not perfect & I sometimes make mistakes ;)
marriedwoman

Winnsboro, SC

#60 Apr 12, 2013
john wrote:
Start doing your job and sucking him off more and you'll get those sweet text and he won't be thinking about other women anymore
thanks for your advice! I did just that and give him bj every other night at least and our marriage and sex life is better than ever! He may be looking during the day but he comes home to me !
john

Greeneville, TN

#61 Apr 13, 2013
marriedwoman wrote:
<quoted text>thanks for your advice! I did just that and give him bj every other night at least and our marriage and sex life is better than ever! He may be looking during the day but he comes home to me !
Anytime... Nothing is better than sex... But then again nothing is better than a bj for a guy either... I wasn't trying to be vulgar... Just honest
marriedwoman

Greeneville, TN

#62 Apr 13, 2013
john wrote:
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Anytime... Nothing is better than sex... But then again nothing is better than a bj for a guy either... I wasn't trying to be vulgar... Just honest
nope I didn't take it that way! Sometimes we just need a reminder after many years of marriage I guess we get in a rutt or lazy! Not a night goes by without sex now:-)

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