married men texting other females

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christianlady

Conover, NC

#1 Apr 6, 2013
Is it still cheating if a married man sends affectionate texts to another woman he works with? Is that stil sin in his heart even if he hasn't physically cheated yet?
Lmao

Greeneville, TN

#2 Apr 6, 2013
Nope

Since: Mar 13

Greeneville, TN

#3 Apr 6, 2013
There is always the mentality of nipping things in the bud. The Bible has reference to if it is in your head it's in your heart and it's the same as if it had truly been. The only true rules are the rules you set to give hope for the outcome you desire. If it can be fixed, fix them if you want to.

( I believe in the Bible and follow God's word the best I can. Just sayin')

Since: Mar 13

Greeneville, TN

#4 Apr 6, 2013
see, it should say fix it if you want to. you cant fix them. They have to see what was givin and choose to keep it. Was that worth another post?

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#6 Apr 6, 2013
Friendly is okay. "hi how are you?", "have a good day." etc.... All good.

"hey sexy.", "I miss you.", "I want to see you.", "you make me smile.", "you're beautiful."...etc... Those should be reserved for your mate.

Some people are just flirty, even with you standing there... It's those who only come around, text, call when you aren't there you shouldn't feel comfortable with. Continuing "friendships" like that mean they will never be 100% true to you. If the other party says hi sexy and your man just says hi or hey... He's not buying their flirtatiousness... and there's a chance that anything inappropriately said would be erased and you'd never know...

Go with your gut.
christianlady

Charlotte, NC

#7 Apr 6, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
Friendly is okay. "hi how are you?", "have a good day." etc.... All good.
"hey sexy.", "I miss you.", "I want to see you.", "you make me smile.", "you're beautiful."...etc... Those should be reserved for your mate.
Some people are just flirty, even with you standing there... It's those who only come around, text, call when you aren't there you shouldn't feel comfortable with. Continuing "friendships" like that mean they will never be 100% true to you. If the other party says hi sexy and your man just says hi or hey... He's not buying their flirtatiousness... and there's a chance that anything inappropriately said would be erased and you'd never know...
Go with your gut.
exactly and gut says he is lusting
christianlady

Charlotte, NC

#8 Apr 6, 2013
john wrote:
Start doing your job and sucking him off more and you'll get those sweet text and he won't be thinking about other women anymore
you need help!
saved

Charlotte, NC

#9 Apr 6, 2013
12kno wrote:
see, it should say fix it if you want to. you cant fix them. They have to see what was givin and choose to keep it. Was that worth another post?
yes and thank you! I agree.

Since: Mar 13

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#10 Apr 6, 2013
I would be very upset if my husband was sending "affectionate" texts to another female. He doesn't mind if I goof around on Topix but neither of us would ever do anything so personal as one-on-one texting.

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#11 Apr 6, 2013
Se7en187 wrote:
I would be very upset if my husband was sending "affectionate" texts to another female. He doesn't mind if I goof around on Topix but neither of us would ever do anything so personal as one-on-one texting.
Exactly.
I don't text anything I'd ever have to explain or delete, and I'm not married. We both have friends of the opposite sex but if I were to answer his phone or see his texts... They had best be willing to carry on a convo with me or they will be eliminated from the contact list... We naturally don't need to use one another's phones but in the event that it should happen... Neither of us want to be put in the predicament of having to explain anything. It's repect for your sig other in my opinion. If his "girl" friends cannot carry on a conversation with the one he lives with, "loves" then they truly are not "just friends"... Even if it's a simple "hi how are you."
john

United States

#12 Apr 6, 2013
christianlady wrote:
<quoted text>you need help!
Keep thinking that... That's the answer to your question... That's why he lusts for someone else
Stick in the rear

Elizabethton, TN

#13 Apr 7, 2013
Se7en187 wrote:
I would be very upset if my husband was sending "affectionate" texts to another female. He doesn't mind if I goof around on Topix but neither of us would ever do anything so personal as one-on-one texting.
You have got to be kidding me?

Since: Mar 13

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#14 Apr 7, 2013
Stick in the rear wrote:
<quoted text>You have got to be kidding me?
What the heck is your obsession with me? Move along little one.

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#15 Apr 7, 2013
Se7en187 wrote:
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What the heck is your obsession with me? Move along little one.
Stalkers. Don't they make you feel "oh so special"?!?

Since: Mar 13

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#16 Apr 7, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
<quoted text>Stalkers. Don't they make you feel "oh so special"?!?
I just wonder why I can't have "nice" stalkers. Someone that follows my posts and says sh!t like, "you're so funny and beautiful!!! I love how you type!! Bravo! Bravo!" Mmm... no... my stalkers hate me. I just don't understand why one would waste time on someone they dislike.
Stick in the rear

Elizabethton, TN

#17 Apr 7, 2013
Se7en187 wrote:
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I just wonder why I can't have "nice" stalkers. Someone that follows my posts and says sh!t like, "you're so funny and beautiful!!! I love how you type!! Bravo! Bravo!" Mmm... no... my stalkers hate me. I just don't understand why one would waste time on someone they dislike.
You ever think maybe you wasted your time doing something wrong to me once. You are definitely not the person you want everyone on here to believe you are.

Since: Mar 13

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#18 Apr 7, 2013
Stick in the rear wrote:
<quoted text>You ever think maybe you wasted your time doing something wrong to me once. You are definitely not the person you want everyone on here to believe you are.
I don't hide who I am. If I know you "IRL" and "wronged" you then you deserved it...
2wheels

Jonesborough, TN

#19 Apr 7, 2013
christianlady wrote:
Is it still cheating if a married man sends affectionate texts to another woman he works with? Is that stil sin in his heart even if he hasn't physically cheated yet?
If you don't want a married man to send you texts, then don't give a married man your cell phone number.

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#20 Apr 7, 2013
Stick in the rear wrote:
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You ever think maybe you wasted your time doing something wrong to me once. You are definitely not the person you want everyone on here to believe you are.
Forgive and forget.... If you hold onto stuff so long that you must troll "Se7en" on here... You must be an extremely bitter person... Bitterness leaves you ugly... Learn from it and move on.

Since: Mar 13

Bennettsville, SC

#21 Apr 7, 2013
Same thing I was thinkin. And nobody likes Ugly now.

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