caught my son and his girlfriend..

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confused and disappointed

United States

#1 Jul 18, 2011
i dont know what the hell is going on with kids today, and i dont know if i want to now. im 42, have an 3 kids, one boy 18, and two girls 14 and 9. being a single mom ive had alot of trouble with my son growing up, mostly problems with drinking and smoking marijuana and not coming home. anyways, several months ago i let his girlfriend move in and after that things went down hill very fast in our relationship. he was never home, started acting really weird when he was home, and then i started noticing little things. everytime i would knock on their door id hear scrambling and them hiding things in the room. i thought drugs was the reason so i started snooping and trying to pry alittle more(cant really blame me), and couldnt find anything. this went on for a few weeks until this morning and i got off work early(i work 3rd shift and get off at 5 am).. i knew that they would still be sleeping, and wanted to see what would happen if i just walked in unanounced, and what they would grab for and try to hide. i opened the door(rather loudly) and was completely dumbfounded by what i saw. his girlfriend was in her pjs, and my son was in nothing but an adult diaper. i didnt know what to say as they did what i thought they would do and started grabbing things and throwing them into his nighttable.. a bottle, and baby wipes, then a pacifier.. i couldnt really do anything but giggle as he screamed and tried to cover himself. so, basically i found out my son (and possibly his girlfriend) has a diaper fetish, but is not on drugs.. i told him we had to talk about this when they get up later, i just dont know what to say about this whole thing. do i just let it go on, and act like i dont know about it like everything else they do, or should i freak out on why the hell hes doing this? any comments would be appreciated, but please no negative ones. this has been stressful enough.
Say What

United States

#2 Jul 18, 2011
Wth?! For real?! I am dumbfounded....all I can say is wth?!!

United States

#3 Jul 18, 2011
Jerry springer!!!!

Johnson City, TN

#4 Jul 18, 2011
Really its not that wierd. Its kinda funny if you think about it. Theyre just playing around. I would let it go, maybe have a laugh about it and consider yourself lucky its not something deviant.

I consider this quite normal in the grand scheme of things. Its just an older version of "playing house".
confused and disappointed

United States

#5 Jul 18, 2011
i feel the same way. i dont know what i did worng as a mother to make him want to do this, or how i should feel about him continuing to do this. it would be awesome if a psychologist chimed in on this.

United States

#6 Jul 18, 2011
Well atleast it isn't drugs, be thankful 4 that!!! They could be doing worse!!!
confused and disappointed

United States

#7 Jul 18, 2011
yeah, but would you want your 18 yr old and his girlfriend doing this in your house?

United States

#8 Jul 18, 2011
Well first of all with no downgrading the mom. My sons girlfriend would NOT be living with my son even if he is 18!!! If they wanna live 2gether get a job and move out 2gether!!!!
Psych doctor

Brentwood, TN

#9 Jul 18, 2011
well it seems your son is having issues with his child hood. maybe he didnt get what he needed when he was a baby or a infant? anyways this is the funniest thing ever.
justgetitoverwit h

Johnson City, TN

#10 Jul 18, 2011
they were just role playing. gotta keep the spice up in the relationship. and if she is dumb enough to change the poo poo diaper more power to her.
animal lover

La Vergne, TN

#11 Jul 18, 2011
Would you rather they WERE doing drugs? Not trying to bash you honey but it could be worse.
could be

Nolensville, TN

#12 Jul 18, 2011
Maybe the mommy in her is coming out, or maybe vanilla sex just isn't for them.
Don't most people have a freak side??
maybe not that freaky but still whats weird for one is normal for others.

United States

#13 Jul 18, 2011
mom, Wtf! you post this private embarrassing moment on topix, I thought you loved me!

Johnson City, TN

#14 Jul 18, 2011

Elizabethton, TN

#15 Jul 18, 2011
justgetitoverwith wrote:
they were just role playing. gotta keep the spice up in the relationship. and if she is dumb enough to change the poo poo diaper more power to her.
U mean more "powder" to her. Haha
interested party

Johnson City, TN

#16 Jul 18, 2011
How old is the g/f?

Since: Dec 10

Brentwood, TN

#17 Jul 18, 2011
Did you consider giving him a spanking?

United States

#18 Jul 19, 2011
Hey look on the bright side, you caught your son with a girl. You can't say you caught your son with a guy. Most cases a dad would be proud of their son. I would encourage his behavior unless you want a homo.

Mount Holly, NC

#19 Jul 19, 2011
Sorry lady. You invited this into your house. It could have been much worse. Its very odd behavior, still...behaviorism is always SAME sensory, attention, material, or escape. Think of which of those describes their needs to enact the fetish. If its a mental need, that's sensory.

You have a human son and allowed a human girlfriend to move in. You couldn't have expected bible lessons 24-7. If you did, admit how ignorant you are.

Antioch, TN

#21 Jul 19, 2011
thats a southern mamas boy for ya..........hahahahaha diapers!!!!

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