My wife is driving me CRAZY

My wife is driving me CRAZY

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Sick of it

Gallatin, TN

#1 Oct 20, 2010
I work 60-80 hours a week while my wife sits home and does nothing. We don't have kids. She says her back bothers her too much to get job, but she's never had surgery and doesn't take medication or go to the doc for it so. She won't cook unless her family comes over. She only cleans when her family comes over. We've only been married about a year but I can't put up with it much longer. I'm pretty laid back and have overlooked a lot to try and make it work. What do ya'll think I should do?
Heres what u do

Gallatin, TN

#2 Oct 20, 2010
Beat the brakes off that bitch til she learns you're the king and master of your household, and what you say goes!
WOW

United States

#3 Oct 20, 2010
Why r u posting on Topix instead of talking to your wife? Not being smart, just wondering.

Since: Oct 10

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#4 Oct 20, 2010
i wished i had a man like u
Sick of it

Gallatin, TN

#5 Oct 20, 2010
I've tried to talk to her about it but she stubs up and pouts.

Since: Oct 10

Fort Campbell, TN

#6 Oct 20, 2010
Maybe u should just talk to ur wife and tell her how u feel and tell her that some things are going to have to change in order for ur relationship to last. The first year is always the hardest and their has to be communication and understanding if the relationship is going to work. Good luck and I will keep u in my prayers.
Same boat

United States

#8 Oct 20, 2010
I had a wife like that would not take a job in a pie factory test tasting pies and when she did get a job she would get hurt and quit so now i pay child support
been there

Fort Campbell, TN

#9 Oct 21, 2010
I really feel for ya. I USED to have a wife like that too. I also worked 2 jobs and busted my butt for her and HER 2 kids. I raised her kids like they were my own and really loved them. I ended up leaving her when i found out she had been cheating on me almost the whole time! She couldnt work cause she was too busy with all her boyfriends. Im not saying that your wife is the same since i dont know either of ya, but dont get played like a fool like i was. I wasted almost 10 years on this woman who probably never gave a crap about me. I wish you the best. There are Great women out there but few and far between. I have found the best one tho so you cant have her. My 2nd wife is awesome and i only wish i could have found her all those years ago Good luck buddy. Hope it all works out for ya.
Scrounger

Hendersonville, TN

#10 Oct 21, 2010
By all means dont have any kids w her until this is straightened out.Kids will make it alot harder to leave when the time comes.
Fleabass

Live Oak, FL

#11 Oct 21, 2010
Get the heck out of there before you get her pregnant and get stuck with more problems than you care to think about! She ain't gonna change, bro.
MystDefy

Hendersonville, TN

#12 Oct 21, 2010
Hell yes, Scrounger. You took the words right out of my mouth. Children are MAJOR complications if things don't work out, and it's the kids who suffer for it. Got to be careful who you breed with. Watching somebody go through that crap right now.

I've said it before...women don't realize that while they're sitting at home, hubby is out in the real world where there are interesting, well-dressed, working women who offer much more than a bon bon munching couch potato. That's not to say that the woman is always wrong. I admire a woman who can stay home and raise her own children. She just better have a really good, faithful man who earns enough to support them. It happens and I think it's great, but there are also the lazy asses and the guys who won't put up with it for very long.
VoteIndependent

Austell, GA

#13 Oct 21, 2010
Wha5t about the wives that have their own home & money ? If the men fck around on them they re screwed any way u look at it the Man would have no where to go
Scrounger

Hendersonville, TN

#14 Oct 21, 2010
I have a good friend who's wife is mean as hell(she does work though.The only reason he stays is because they have three kids together and she would financially own his ass forever and would make it nearly impossible to see them or have anykind of a life.
MystDefy

Hendersonville, TN

#15 Oct 21, 2010
When a woman has your kids, she's got your balls in her pocket for at least 18 years! It's not necessarily right or fair, but it's the fact, Jack.
LoveBug

Austell, GA

#16 Oct 21, 2010
Not always I get along with my ex and we share the kids. Its up to the kids on what they want to do. Its not up to us as they are not ours . They are th eir own people. If a mom or dad keep the kids from the other parent they will have grown children that resents them forever. Kids love their parents equally & deserve time with each . Its not worth putting kids through pain as they didn't ask fto live with bitter parents. Poor kids :(
MystDefy wrote:
When a woman has your kids, she's got your balls in her pocket for at least 18 years! It's not necessarily right or fair, but it's the fact, Jack.
MR GOODMAN

Gallatin, TN

#17 Oct 21, 2010
if u dont want her ill take her sounds like i could make a pet out of her

Since: Aug 10

Hendersonville, TN

#18 Oct 21, 2010
How old is your wife? Has she matured yet or is she still all about herself?

“Dont ask i wont tell!”

Since: Sep 10

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#19 Oct 21, 2010
ok she sounds like she is just lazy and pampered. put the breaks on really. start by treating her like the child she is behaving like. DO NOT GIVE HER ANY MONEY FOR ANYTHING unless she earns it. She wants twenty dollars to go get her hair done do the dishes sweep some floors. a house wife is a full time job and wives do get paid for it. Make sure she knows why you are doing it and stick to your guns. PLEASE do not have any children for quite some time. and if this doesnt work after a few months then i would just hit the road. if she doesnt care enough about you to help you out then you prob dont need her anyway. Oh another thing you could do is call her family and invite them over without telling her maybe it will embarass her enough that she will do something other than watch tv and if you have cable have it cut off or put a passcode on it. if she wants to behave like a child treat her like one

Since: Oct 10

Morristown, TN

#20 Oct 21, 2010
Tell her this is not what you signed on for. Tell her that this is a deal breaker. I put up with a man for 10yrs that wouldn't work or clean house. I would come home from work (sometimes working 3 jobs while he had none) and he would still be asleep and the house a wreck. I DID have a child with him though and everyone is right once you have kids with them it makes it a 1,000 times harder to leave. I WISH I had put my foot down 9yrs earlier. Now we are going through a painful divorce beause finally after years of only one of us working and giving a crap I left. If she doesn't understand your point then WALK she NEVER WILL. She should love you enough to have a clean house and dinner on the table. I would have given anything to have a man like you are.
Fleabass

Live Oak, FL

#21 Oct 21, 2010
Sweet Suprise wrote:
ok she sounds like she is just lazy and pampered. put the breaks on really. start by treating her like the child she is behaving like. DO NOT GIVE HER ANY MONEY FOR ANYTHING unless she earns it. She wants twenty dollars to go get her hair done do the dishes sweep some floors. a house wife is a full time job and wives do get paid for it. Make sure she knows why you are doing it and stick to your guns. PLEASE do not have any children for quite some time. and if this doesnt work after a few months then i would just hit the road. if she doesnt care enough about you to help you out then you prob dont need her anyway. Oh another thing you could do is call her family and invite them over without telling her maybe it will embarass her enough that she will do something other than watch tv and if you have cable have it cut off or put a passcode on it. if she wants to behave like a child treat her like one
Yeah right. On paper that looks like a bunch of great ideas! You obviously have never been married.

The bottom line is this: Unless she is 18 or something, you drew a lame bitch and need to get rid of her because she isn't going to change. You should have recognized this BEFORE you got married in the first place. Have a kid and see how the dynamics change...

Lovebug, you're lucky. Most exes aren't like yours. I have to fight for everything I have because mine is a vindictive, self-serving bitch! She will take anything she can get her hands on and looks at her kids as pawns in the game.

Ditch the lazy bitch before she ruins your life.

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