why do girls like guys with "swag"

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Since: Oct 12

Nolensville, TN

#1 Oct 27, 2012
I've been single for nearly 5 years, and I can't get close to girls my age, because they want "swag" and not a caring guy that will treat them right.

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Since: Aug 12

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#2 Oct 27, 2012
If those girls are purely materialistic, you're probably better off NOT having them. I'm sure if you look around, you'll find some who are "real". Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places?
Slow joe

Clarksville, TN

#3 Oct 27, 2012
Girls like to b dominated, that's why they like swag
Slow joe

Clarksville, TN

#4 Oct 27, 2012
Oh yeah, guys with swag usually have a big d ick

“I've Always Been This Stupid”

Since: May 12

Greeneville TN

#5 Oct 27, 2012
Slow joe wrote:
Oh yeah, guys with swag usually have a big d ick
Not always. I don't have swag AND I don't have a big... Wait a minute. I guess you're right.

“I've Always Been This Stupid”

Since: May 12

Greeneville TN

#6 Oct 27, 2012
The_Doctor1 wrote:
I've been single for nearly 5 years, and I can't get close to girls my age, because they want "swag" and not a caring guy that will treat them right.
Dude, YOU'RE IN HIGH SCHOOL! Stop trying to fall in love. Over and over I see you on here saying you can't get a girl. The world is a lot bigger than Greeneville High School. I usually try not to be an ass to people but you seem to need some tough love. Very few people marry their high school sweetheart. Yes it happens but more marry girls they meet in college or after college. Just slow down, enjoy being young and alive, and eventually you will meet someone. And when you do you will look back and think "Man I was a jackass." I promise you.

Since: Oct 12

Nolensville, TN

#7 Oct 27, 2012
I'm almost out haha and well life is short so I wanna find a girl I truly love

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Since: Aug 12

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#8 Oct 27, 2012
The_Doctor1 wrote:
I'm almost out haha and well life is short so I wanna find a girl I truly love
Well, if you're just in High School, young man, you have soooo much to learn and so much living to do. Good grief, the last thing you want to concern yourself with now is a "girl"...seriously! Concentrate on your future, set goals, make your life productive. I know, I know, sounds boring but believe me, twenty years from now it won't! Geez, listen to the voice of reason...and experience!(-:

Since: Oct 12

Nolensville, TN

#9 Oct 27, 2012
I already know what Im doing haha and I cant even get a girl to notice me

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Since: Aug 12

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#10 Oct 27, 2012
The_Doctor1 wrote:
I already know what Im doing haha and I cant even get a girl to notice me
You'll figure it out, young man. It's so very complicated and feels anxious right now, been there, done that, but I'm hopeful you'll find your way! Listen to those who've been there, done that, because believe me, we actually DO know what we're talking about for what it's worth. I know, I know, it seems a million miles away right now but it's not, REALLY!(-:

Since: Oct 12

Nolensville, TN

#11 Oct 27, 2012
I know haha I never had issues with girls before now really

“Oderint dum metuant”

Since: Mar 12

Main Street

#12 Oct 27, 2012
Get a blow up doll. They can't say no, scream, need to eat, ask you for money, or give you a headache (aside from inflation). Trust me, it will pay off in the long run. You can even name her if you like and pose for pictures? lol :) GSP is right though. Take it easy man, within the next 5 years of your life, I would venture to say that it will all fall into place and everything will be COMPLETELY different from how you see it today.

Plus, high school girls are nothing but drama and distraction.

Since: Oct 12

Nolensville, TN

#13 Oct 27, 2012
Strange Smoke wrote:
Get a blow up doll. They can't say no, scream, need to eat, ask you for money, or give you a headache (aside from inflation). Trust me, it will pay off in the long run. You can even name her if you like and pose for pictures? lol :) GSP is right though. Take it easy man, within the next 5 years of your life, I would venture to say that it will all fall into place and everything will be COMPLETELY different from how you see it today.

Plus, high school girls are nothing but drama and distraction.
Well im gonna be making a good amount of money any girl would settle for me

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#14 Oct 27, 2012
The_Doctor1 wrote:
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Well im gonna be making a good amount of money any girl would settle for me
Good for you but making that "good amount of money" shouldn't be for any girl, success should be your personal choice. Sigh, you're young, you'll make mistakes, you'll take your lumps, experience your ups and downs then you'll figure out you have to be true to yourself, FIRST and foremost, before you can be true to anyone or anything else. Good luck!
Interesting

La Vergne, TN

#15 Oct 27, 2012
Couple things: YOU HAVE A TON OF TIME

First off, girls at your age are immature. Take advantage of this. While all your high school friends are getting married, having kids, and going super broke right away you need to be bustin your ass while single and making BANK. Get money while getin a good degree. Seriously. Now's the only time to do it. Any toys you want? A motorcycle? Slick mods for your car/truck? Do it now cause you sure cant later.

#2 at your age, for men, it is a WOMANS MARKET. women have a WAY higher value than men and most can pick whomever they want. You have to work your ass off to get any girl who is worth it to notice you. Wait till you're like mid-late 20s or even early 30s then it becomes a MANS MARKET. Women who have tried and failed or never tried at all will still be single at this point. They are desperate for a good man who has a good career (which you will have at this point because you invested the time and effort early on), making decent money, with a good start for himself in life. If you start now, this can be YOU.

We each have our own things that make us valuable. For WOMEN at your age, it is their looks and sex appeal. Not even going to sugar coat it.

For MEN, it is money and earnings potential. Same deal, that's just the way it is.

Therefore, right now, you're not making much money but them PYTs are out able to get whoever they want. However, as life goes on this will FLIP FLOP. Their looks will begin to fade and they know this, but your money will not. It will grow, giving you even more power. Don't let the women of your age push you around or treat you like dirt. The smart way to do it is to plan for the future, not the here and now.

Since: Oct 12

Nolensville, TN

#16 Oct 27, 2012
I really get close to a girl the get friend zoned because i will actually treat them right I know they are immature an I won't change for them because a girl needs a guy to make a difference in her life
SecondChance

Morristown, TN

#17 Oct 27, 2012
First off you said it right, they are GIRLS. Girls are immature and don't know what they want. Besides, finding true love is not something that happens just because you want it to. The girl you are supposed to be with may not even be around here.

And as for "swag" not every female cares for it. From what I've seen of this swag crap it's just little boys wishing they were tougher than they are and pretending they are rappers. It's not at all attractive to me Nd if you're about to graduate high school then you're not much older than me.

My advice? Focus on finding yourself for a while and figure out what you REALLY want from a female.

Since: Oct 12

Nolensville, TN

#18 Oct 27, 2012
SecondChance wrote:
First off you said it right, they are GIRLS. Girls are immature and don't know what they want. Besides, finding true love is not something that happens just because you want it to. The girl you are supposed to be with may not even be around here.

And as for "swag" not every female cares for it. From what I've seen of this swag crap it's just little boys wishing they were tougher than they are and pretending they are rappers. It's not at all attractive to me Nd if you're about to graduate high school then you're not much older than me.

My advice? Focus on finding yourself for a while and figure out what you REALLY want from a female.
Yeah I pretty much know who I am and I really just want a sweet girl that's fun to be with that isn't all about sex I want a girl who I can pretty much do anything with and trust with anything
SecondChance

Morristown, TN

#19 Oct 28, 2012
Honey, you have no idea who you are. That comes with age, as does a girl who is what your describing.

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#20 Oct 28, 2012
The_Doctor1 wrote:
I've been single for nearly 5 years, and I can't get close to girls my age, because they want "swag" and not a caring guy that will treat them right.
Oh my goodness! Did that 7th grade relationship end badly? That's always tough.

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