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worried

Charlotte, NC

#1 May 17, 2013
I came across my mans facebook messages and found one he had sent to another woman telling her how beautiful she still is. I was heartbroken. He never says that to me. I catch him in lies all the time over the dumbest stuff. Is there a way to know if he is messaging other women? Does it show on his friends box when you go to hos page? Most of this friends are women. I almost feel stupid asking this very question.

Since: May 13

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#2 May 18, 2013
I'm pretty sure it only shows in messages and if he's lying and deleting and hiding then its pretty obvious he is saying things he shouldn't. I know because I uses to be one to do the very thing ur talking about and was headed for divorce till I started church and straightened up my life and found God.
Rose

Duluth, GA

#3 May 18, 2013
worried wrote:
I came across my mans facebook messages and found one he had sent to another woman telling her how beautiful she still is. I was heartbroken. He never says that to me. I catch him in lies all the time over the dumbest stuff. Is there a way to know if he is messaging other women? Does it show on his friends box when you go to hos page? Most of this friends are women. I almost feel stupid asking this very question.
Hopefully it is just messaging because you can overcome that with some hard work but it has been my experience that there is usually cheating involved when he is lying and trying to hide stuff from you. Good luck.
worried

Charlotte, NC

#4 May 18, 2013
Thanks everyone! I guess I already knew the answer but it helps to get an outside view on things. It's hard when you have kids and have invested so many years into something only for it to end.

Since: May 13

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#5 May 18, 2013
U can change it and make it work but u have to talk to him and and find out why he is doing these things and if and what he is unhappy about and work on it together make him fall in love with you all over again

Since: May 13

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#6 May 18, 2013
I changed after 3yrs of cheating. I have a good wife to put up with it that long
worried

Charlotte, NC

#7 May 18, 2013
mee 423 wrote:
U can change it and make it work but u have to talk to him and and find out why he is doing these things and if and what he is unhappy about and work on it together make him fall in love with you all over again
I'm beginning to feel I have been made a fool of. This is not the first time. There comes a point where you just don't feel like fighting for it anymore. If he loved me he wouldn't treat me the way he does. When we are out together he talks to me like a dog in front of everyone. I just wonder how many people are laughing behind my back:-(

Since: May 13

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#8 May 18, 2013
Well I look at things in a different perspective than others do being a christian man now and my ways and beliefs are different from others and I'm not gonna try to push my ways on anyone. That being said without God in my life I would be divorced right now but thanks be to him I have changed my ways and we have been married now 5 yrs together 10 and have an 8 yr old daughter.if u feel u can't go on anymore that is ur choice and for no one to judge u for it.
David

Elizabethton, TN

#9 May 18, 2013
You should check with the poster called Georgia Peach is an expert on most everything,,,,she thinks.
Stick in the rear

Elizabethton, TN

#10 May 18, 2013
David wrote:
You should check with the poster called Georgia Peach is an expert on most everything,,,,she thinks.
Yeah, and don't forget se7en too.
Rose

Duluth, GA

#11 May 18, 2013
worried wrote:
<quoted text>I'm beginning to feel I have been made a fool of. This is not the first time. There comes a point where you just don't feel like fighting for it anymore. If he loved me he wouldn't treat me the way he does. When we are out together he talks to me like a dog in front of everyone. I just wonder how many people are laughing behind my back:-(
If that's the case then you need to leave. I'm sure there is someone out there who would be lucky to have you. Insulting you in front of others is a form of mental abuse he is using to keep you in line and under control by killing your self esteem. It seems you would be better off leaving.
Swinging Dick

Salisbury, NC

#12 May 18, 2013
Go get you some male friends. Payback's a bitch. You might find something that you've missed out on.
comments

Charlotte, NC

#13 May 18, 2013
I wonder how many relationships end over Facebook?
wht

Elizabethton, TN

#14 May 18, 2013
Ga peach seems to be a kind gentle lady that has an opinion if asked. That's what an open forum is.

“is your friend ”

Since: Mar 12

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#15 May 18, 2013
wht wrote:
Ga peach seems to be a kind gentle lady that has an opinion if asked. That's what an open forum is.
Wrong bucko. She is a know it all with a nasty mouth. I never even respond to her ramblings.

Since: Mar 13

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#16 May 18, 2013
Stick in the rear wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah, and don't forget se7en too.
Heck yeah!
<sticks her small chest out>
You betta rec-o-nize!

haha ju(ss) playin'
worried

Charlotte, NC

#17 May 18, 2013
Hey guys and gals- I just need advice. I have been with this person for12 years. I didn't mean to cause a agruement.

Since: Mar 13

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#18 May 18, 2013
worried wrote:
Hey guys and gals- I just need advice. I have been with this person for12 years. I didn't mean to cause a agruement.
My advice... just ask him. You're both grown up enough to not play games.

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#19 May 18, 2013
worried wrote:
Hey guys and gals- I just need advice. I have been with this person for12 years. I didn't mean to cause a agruement.
Honey, you aren't causing any arguments. There has to be a common iq amongst these posters to have a civil and legible argument... Se7en And I don't argue... The rest is stalkers and trolls... Look over them.

I have never claimed to know everything, but I have had a few heartbreaks, okay maybe a few more than just a few, so I know a little about what you're going through.... My advice, completely from experience...(and subject to cruel scrutiny)... If it's something you cannot live with, leave. If you're not going to leave.. Find peace with it somehow. Confront him, ask him about it. If the answers don't soothe your soul, pack his bags... Even after 12 years, you're not living life and being as happy as you could if you're having to check his private messages/text messages/emails. That's trust baby girl, and if you can't trust him, you can't love him.... If he admits to it, can you forgive him? Can you stomach to know that he's telling another woman she's beautiful when he doesn't tell you? My gut would be rumbling and I'd be gone.:( I'm sorry your heart is hurting. I hope this helps, as much as I hope it makes sense... The All Star race is on.:)

Lastly, if you will register, you can send a private message to me if you ever need to just talk... I'm no expert, but after living through the things I have, I might be able to help you see it from outside the box.

Hope I've helped.

Since: Mar 13

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#20 May 18, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
<quoted text>Honey, you aren't causing any arguments. There has to be a common iq amongst these posters to have a civil and legible argument... Se7en And I don't argue... The rest is stalkers and trolls... Look over them.

I have never claimed to know everything, but I have had a few heartbreaks, okay maybe a few more than just a few, so I know a little about what you're going through.... My advice, completely from experience...(and subject to cruel scrutiny)... If it's something you cannot live with, leave. If you're not going to leave.. Find peace with it somehow. Confront him, ask him about it. If the answers don't soothe your soul, pack his bags... Even after 12 years, you're not living life and being as happy as you could if you're having to check his private messages/text messages/emails. That's trust baby girl, and if you can't trust him, you can't love him.... If he admits to it, can you forgive him? Can you stomach to know that he's telling another woman she's beautiful when he doesn't tell you? My gut would be rumbling and I'd be gone.:( I'm sorry your heart is hurting. I hope this helps, as much as I hope it makes sense... The All Star race is on.:)

Lastly, if you will register, you can send a private message to me if you ever need to just talk... I'm no expert, but after living through the things I have, I might be able to help you see it from outside the box.

Hope I've helped.
I get those little chill bumps every time another poster mentions my name.

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