How do you know if your not the only girl a guy has?

[Tha Baddest Bitch]

I think someone aint gonna make it another month can we say CLINGY ugh its girls like you that make it hard for women like me to make it to the next level I mean a month really

[Knightly]

Guys get completely ( and quickly ) fed up with clingy, needy, paranoid, dramatic women. Normal men don't want to spend every damn waking hour with his GF. It's even more that way when u get married.

More than likely, you're acting odd over this. That will push him away too.

I'm telling you and ALL women, guys do NOT like to be accused of cheating, we also do NOT admire jealousy at all. Btw, jealousy in a man is not normal. Men who get jealous have little self esteem and more than likely a little dick too.

If you have a partner who gets attention from other people.....BE PROUD! However, it's YOUR behavior that will make them want you more. Be the person they can't live without.

[mr_biggerstaff]

Knightly wrote:

Guys get completely ( and quickly ) fed up with clingy, needy, paranoid, dramatic women. Normal men don't want to spend every damn waking hour with his GF. It's even more that way when u get married.
More than likely, you're acting odd over this. That will push him away too.
I'm telling you and ALL women, guys do NOT like to be accused of cheating, we also do NOT admire jealousy at all. Btw, jealousy in a man is not normal. Men who get jealous have little self esteem and more than likely a little dick too.
If you have a partner who gets attention from other people.....BE PROUD! However, it's YOUR behavior that will make them want you more. Be the person they can't live without.

no doubt!!!

[youareanidiot]

You can smell his underwear, quit your job (if you have one), and stalk him.

[duh]

You live in Greeneville so yeah he probably has a piece on the side. This of course will make you love him more. That is until he beats you then you will be convinced he is your soulmate.

[Lmbo]

Initials T.M?

[The problem is]

The problem with the world today is that when someone is cheating they allow their self to be used. A lot of times they know the person they are with has a significant other but instead of telling that person the truth they allow their self to be a dirty little secret. Sometimes people just don't want to know the truth so they try not to listen to their gut instinct. Don't be blind. If you think he is cheating he probably is.

[smile2002]

Amen..always be ONLY and #1 biatch !

[smile2002]

Cc..calls u sweet baby ?? Then ur not only one hunny

[his only love]

Is his initials C.C. i. think i'm not. the only one that wants to know what his initials are and how many days a wk do u see him. If its just been a month &you feel like this iys not gona last long.

[smile2002]

Yes initals are cc ..I'm telling u u r not only one ..good game ..game over

[his only love]

smile2002 wrote:

Yes initals are cc ..I'm telling u u r not only one ..good game ..game over

i keep my man happy sorry that ur game is over

[smile2002]

Enjoy ..what's left lol

[smile2002]

Man happy ?? Ummm where's he at lol

[curious too]

Confused wrote:

Just wandering if there is signs. Lol. Probably already know but just dont want to think it.

is his initials DH???

[Narcoleptic]

Yes. DH is here with me. Clipping my toenails actually.

[jimbo102]

Nita Mann wrote:

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Does he guard his cellphone as carefully as his man parts?
Does he get mystery texts/calls which are quickly erased?
Are there long periods of time in which he is "missing"?
Has he started being more meticulous with his appearance such as shaving, working out, new cologne, updated his wardrobe & underwear (lol)?
Has he started talking about a new girl at work a lot?
Has he changed his demeanor toward your relationship such as overly nice or withdrawn?
Has he hinted that he's bored with the relationship or wants to have an "open relationship"?
These are just a few things which popped into my head. Unless you are just paranoid from being dumped on previously, don't you think your instincts are trying to tell you something? If the relationship ends try to think of it as an open door for someone to come along who will love you, take care of you & make some good memories for your future. Good men are EXTREMELY HARD TO FIND. Try to keep him IF he is worthy of you! Good luck!:)

Hmmmmm! My last ex-wife had those signs!!!!

[could be]

another sign to look for is if he is on the phone and when he sees you walk into the room he get's off of the phone real fast and if yuask im who it ws he says it was nobodyor don worry about it then you need to worry about it or if he's getting late night calls orleaving he house withot you late t night. i have been there.

[Word Woman]

Tha Baddest Bitch wrote:

I think someone aint gonna make it another month can we say CLINGY ugh its girls like you that make it hard for women like me to make it to the next level I mean a month really

I'm curious to know how exactly you think "clingy" women affect YOUR ability to make it to the next level with men??? If I had to guess, I would say that your difficulties are likely due to your "baddest bitch" attitude, rather than what you perceive to be flaws in other women. I don't think there is any sure-fire way to know if you're the only woman, short of coming across undeniable evidence that you're not... Relationships, by nature, are risky b/c they require vulnerability...we all have to fly blind for the most part & hope not to crash-n-burn. I agree that jealousy & paranoia are not attractive, nor do they serve in building or maintaining a healthy relationship. However, asking questions, especially if something doesn't feel quite right, is not necessarily a bad thing if approached in the right way…and as long as it’s not a regular occurrence. In fact, though I'm sure some will totally disagree, I think it is actually healthy to have a discussion about previous relationships to find out what worked & what didn't & the reason(s) that they ended. There is nothing less attractive to me than a man who has nothing good to say about anyone he's previously dated (i.e. claims all of his exes are/were crazy & blames them for everything that was wrong with the relationships & ultimately, its failure)… these are, without fail, the guys who are incapable of making a relationship work to save their own lives.
Anyway…the long & short of it is that I don’t see that simply asking questions deems a woman (or man) to be “clingy”…it is human nature to protect ourselves & our feelings (or at least to try to…). It’s just a shame that there are people who are incapable of being loyal and/or honest & are too self-involved to consider how their behavior and/or deception affects another person.

[PoopyBallZ]

Word Woman wrote:

<quoted text>I'm curious to know how exactly you think "clingy" women affect YOUR ability to make it to the next level with men??? If I had to guess, I would say that your difficulties are likely due to your "baddest bitch" attitude, rather than what you perceive to be flaws in other women. I don't think there is any sure-fire way to know if you're the only woman, short of coming across undeniable evidence that you're not... Relationships, by nature, are risky b/c they require vulnerability...we all have to fly blind for the most part & hope not to crash-n-burn. I agree that jealousy & paranoia are not attractive, nor do they serve in building or maintaining a healthy relationship. However, asking questions, especially if something doesn't feel quite right, is not necessarily a bad thing if approached in the right wayÂ…and as long as itÂ’s not a regular occurrence. In fact, though I'm sure some will totally disagree, I think it is actually healthy to have a discussion about previous relationships to find out what worked & what didn't & the reason(s) that they ended. There is nothing less attractive to me than a man who has nothing good to say about anyone he's previously dated (i.e. claims all of his exes are/were crazy & blames them for everything that was wrong with the relationships & ultimately, its failure)Â… these are, without fail, the guys who are incapable of making a relationship work to save their own lives.
Anyway…the long & short of it is that I don’t see that simply asking questions deems a woman (or man) to be “clingy”…it is human nature to protect ourselves & our feelings (or at least to try to…). It’s just a shame that there are people who are incapable of being loyal and/or honest & are too self-involved to consider how their behavior and/or deception affects another person.

Why are you "word woman" you should be "wise woman" or "been there done that women"