How do you know if your not the only girl a guy has?

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Confused

Fort Campbell, TN

#1 Nov 4, 2012
Just wandering if there is signs. Lol. Probably already know but just dont want to think it.
Woo

Fayetteville, NC

#2 Nov 4, 2012
You can always smell him and see if you smell another woman on him
Nita Mann

Charlotte, NC

#3 Nov 4, 2012
Confused wrote:
Just wandering if there is signs. Lol. Probably already know but just dont want to think it.
Does he guard his cellphone as carefully as his man parts?
Does he get mystery texts/calls which are quickly erased?
Are there long periods of time in which he is "missing"?
Has he started being more meticulous with his appearance such as shaving, working out, new cologne, updated his wardrobe & underwear (lol)?
Has he started talking about a new girl at work a lot?
Has he changed his demeanor toward your relationship such as overly nice or withdrawn?
Has he hinted that he's bored with the relationship or wants to have an "open relationship"?

These are just a few things which popped into my head. Unless you are just paranoid from being dumped on previously, don't you think your instincts are trying to tell you something? If the relationship ends try to think of it as an open door for someone to come along who will love you, take care of you & make some good memories for your future. Good men are EXTREMELY HARD TO FIND. Try to keep him IF he is worthy of you! Good luck!:)

“Listen, Think, Speak.”

Since: Aug 12

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#4 Nov 4, 2012
Ask?
Nita Mann

Charlotte, NC

#5 Nov 4, 2012
GSP_trpr wrote:
Ask?
He would likely deny it. He would have probably already told her had he wanted her to know, don't you think?
ex hubby

Brentwood, TN

#6 Nov 4, 2012
See if he's wearing panties that are not yours!
Confused

Fort Campbell, TN

#7 Nov 4, 2012
Nita Mann wrote:
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Does he guard his cellphone as carefully as his man parts?
Does he get mystery texts/calls which are quickly erased?
Are there long periods of time in which he is "missing"?
Has he started being more meticulous with his appearance such as shaving, working out, new cologne, updated his wardrobe & underwear (lol)?
Has he started talking about a new girl at work a lot?
Has he changed his demeanor toward your relationship such as overly nice or withdrawn?
Has he hinted that he's bored with the relationship or wants to have an "open relationship"?
These are just a few things which popped into my head. Unless you are just paranoid from being dumped on previously, don't you think your instincts are trying to tell you something? If the relationship ends try to think of it as an open door for someone to come along who will love you, take care of you & make some good memories for your future. Good men are EXTREMELY HARD TO FIND. Try to keep him IF he is worthy of you! Good luck!:)
Lol he doesnt smell like another woman.
These are my answers
no
yes but I dont know if he erases them. He looks at the phone when he gets a text.
yes
no
no
kinda
no
Nita Mann

Charlotte, NC

#8 Nov 4, 2012
Pay attention to any of these changes. Things are probably ok. The long periods of time in which he is unaccounted for is the only red flag i see but you can't carry him around in a little cage with you so you have to trust him. He might look kind of special on a leash though, what do you think?

“Listen, Think, Speak.”

Since: Aug 12

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#9 Nov 4, 2012
Nita Mann wrote:
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He would likely deny it. He would have probably already told her had he wanted her to know, don't you think?
Probably...but coming clean and being truthful would be the RIGHT thing to do. Seems once trust is broken, it'll never be the same again no matter what. If you know the person well enough and ask, straight out, couldn't you tell if they weren't being honest with you?
Confused

Fort Campbell, TN

#10 Nov 4, 2012
We havent been together for a long time so I guess the reason Im askin is because I dont know him too good yet but I just feel like hes probably seein more than just me.
Nita Mann

Charlotte, NC

#11 Nov 4, 2012
GSP_trpr wrote:
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Probably...but coming clean and being truthful would be the RIGHT thing to do. Seems once trust is broken, it'll never be the same again no matter what. If you know the person well enough and ask, straight out, couldn't you tell if they weren't being honest with you?
Probably could; however, when you love them there is always a little voice which reminds you that you could be wrong for not believing them. In my experience, I have "known" but didn't want to believe it. Denial has a funny way of manifesting into full blown paranoia if left unattended.(Hope everyone likes my arm chair psychiatrist diagnosis) Wouldn't the world just be a better place if people would treat others the way they want to be treated in relationships? No drama, just peace & love....(no I'm not a democrat!)

Since: Oct 12

Franklin, TN

#12 Nov 4, 2012
How long have you been with him exactly? You are probably just being paranoid (which is completely normal for some) and perhaps it will pass.
Ummmm

Wadesboro, NC

#13 Nov 4, 2012
Confused wrote:
We havent been together for a long time so I guess the reason Im askin is because I dont know him too good yet but I just feel like hes probably seein more than just me.
Is his name G.V.? Ha!
Confused

Fort Campbell, TN

#14 Nov 5, 2012
Spoken Lies wrote:
How long have you been with him exactly? You are probably just being paranoid (which is completely normal for some) and perhaps it will pass.
Just a little over a month.

G.V. is not his initials

“I've Always Been This Stupid”

Since: May 12

Greeneville TN

#15 Nov 5, 2012
If over dinner he says " Do you remember when you you were my only girlfriend? Man that was a while ago."
wifey

Belmont, NC

#16 Nov 5, 2012
Dont accuse him if you are not sure, cuz trust me, you keep accusing him, he will get fed up with it and it will destroy your relationship. If you want to stay with him, then you have to Trust Him!!
Confused

Fort Campbell, TN

#17 Nov 5, 2012
I havent accused him or asked him. I think its too soon for me to trust him. Stuff like that takes alot longer than a month.

“Listen, Think, Speak.”

Since: Aug 12

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#18 Nov 5, 2012
Confused wrote:
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Just a little over a month.
G.V. is not his initials
I had assumed it was a relationship that had been long term. A month? Honey, if that's all the history you have it sounds like you're being just a wee bit insecure. Sorry.(-:
Confused

Fort Campbell, TN

#19 Nov 5, 2012
I get what you mean but if we had been together for a long time I would know what to look for. Its not really insecure. Other guys Ive dated seems like they was alot more into spending time with me especially when we first start dating.
smile2002

United States

#20 Jan 6, 2013
Initals ...C .C ???? Go with ur gut feeling !

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