How to heal a broken heart

How to heal a broken heart

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heart broken

Spartanburg, SC

#1 Jul 2, 2013
I have been with this person for over 13yrs. We have children together as well. Facebook was ruined my relatioship(partly) I stood by this person through thick n thin. We are coming to an end and I an heartbroken. I don't know where to start to pick up the pieces from here. I am just so depressed. help please.

Since: Dec 11

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#2 Jul 2, 2013
That's sad. Drugs ruint mine,but time is free therapy.

Since: Mar 13

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#3 Jul 2, 2013
heart broken wrote:
I have been with this person for over 13yrs. We have children together as well. Facebook was ruined my relatioship(partly) I stood by this person through thick n thin. We are coming to an end and I an heartbroken. I don't know where to start to pick up the pieces from here. I am just so depressed. help please.
That is sad... throw your computer away... work it out... you've been together too long to let something as small as the Internet screw it all up... but I honestly understand. You just have to give more details if u want advice from us "nobodies". Are you male or fm? Has there been a connection on FB with someone from the past? Wut's up, darlin'?

“I'M BACK.......SPORA DICALLY”

Since: Jun 12

BUFFALO, NY

#4 Jul 2, 2013
Seems like a bit of irony: Using the internet and a public forum to seek assistance/advice for a domestic issue caused (partly) by use of the internet!

Since: Dec 12

Lexington, SC

#5 Jul 2, 2013
For several years, hardly a month has gone by that I havent heard of someone breaking up over "classmates" or Facebook. Many people use cyber land to have their virtual lives where the grass seems greener. They do not have to deal with real life relationships which require nurturing to grow, stay beautiful & healthy.
heart broken

Spartanburg, SC

#6 Jul 2, 2013
he has been talking to other women on fb. i think there is no hope in repairing the relationship. his pill habbit doesn't make it any better. i am just not good at goodbyes. the reason i am asking on here is because i have no one to talk to. please don't be so mean.
So sad

Chicago, IL

#7 Jul 2, 2013
heart broken wrote:
he has been talking to other women on fb. i think there is no hope in repairing the relationship. his pill habbit doesn't make it any better. i am just not good at goodbyes. the reason i am asking on here is because i have no one to talk to. please don't be so mean.
I have been going through the same thing. Just found out he's cheating and I have been so upset. At first I thought something must be wrong with me, that he didn't want me. Now I realize that I shouldn't think like that! I have been trying to stay busy not to think about it but it just seems to consume me. I really know how you feel. I don't know what to do either. Just do like I do and realize you must keep your mind on the kids, they need you.

Since: Mar 13

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#8 Jul 2, 2013
heart broken wrote:
he has been talking to other women on fb. i think there is no hope in repairing the relationship. his pill habbit doesn't make it any better. i am just not good at goodbyes. the reason i am asking on here is because i have no one to talk to. please don't be so mean.
Oh, silly lady, no meanness intended... but honesty, understanding and integrity will not let me hold back from this...
A pill head daddy needs to go somewhere unexposed and become a pill head dead beat daddy...
Your love is zooming in on other chicks??
Sweetheart... really? You know what to do... I've been in a relationship my entire life and I'd still tell him to screw off under any of those circumstances... You already know this... now figure out what it's gonna take to live on your own and do it. Or don't... it IS your choice...

Since: Mar 13

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#9 Jul 2, 2013
So sad wrote:
<quoted text>I have been going through the same thing. Just found out he's cheating and I have been so upset. At first I thought something must be wrong with me, that he didn't want me. Now I realize that I shouldn't think like that! I have been trying to stay busy not to think about it but it just seems to consume me. I really know how you feel. I don't know what to do either. Just do like I do and realize you must keep your mind on the kids, they need you.
Oh good lord... Nope get a job and become financially stable and leave his sorry a?s

Since: Mar 13

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#10 Jul 2, 2013
Fine...
Emotionally... it is the hardest thing you will ever have to do...
But...
You will thank God you did it...

Since: Dec 12

Lexington, SC

#11 Jul 2, 2013
heart broken wrote:
he has been talking to other women on fb. i think there is no hope in repairing the relationship. his pill habbit doesn't make it any better. i am just not good at goodbyes. the reason i am asking on here is because i have no one to talk to. please don't be so mean.
I'm sorry you are going through this & don't have a support system. I know it's very hard to move on if you love someone. You just want him to straighten up so bad, don't you?! This is gonna be harsh BUT if he truly loved you & valued you then you would not be on here. Instead, He is "all about him" to get his drug fix & chasing chix to the detriment of your feelings, well-being & relationship.

Get yourself together to make it on your own & cut him loose! Have some confidence in yourself. You will find it is amazing what you can do on your own & always remember you will be where you are because you deserve better.:)

“light always defeats darkness”

Since: Jul 13

nowhere

#12 Jul 2, 2013
You are a strong and wise person, Nita

Since: Dec 12

Lexington, SC

#13 Jul 2, 2013
I Am The Magician wrote:
You are a strong and wise person, Nita
How nice of you to say such!:)

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#14 Jul 3, 2013
Do you have a Facebook, heart broken? If so, look me up,(Rebecca Dearing). I probably can't do/say anything to help but I can listen... You said you have no one... I am some one.. Everyone needs at least one. I've been in your shoes and it sucks. But if I can make it on my own under the circumstances I had... Anyone can. My thoughts are with you..
Rev Ape Allen

Elizabethton, TN

#16 Jul 3, 2013
GApeach-TNflower wrote:
Do you have a Facebook, heart broken? If so, look me up,(Rebecca Dearing). I probably can't do/say anything to help but I can listen... You said you have no one... I am some one.. Everyone needs at least one. I've been in your shoes and it sucks. But if I can make it on my own under the circumstances I had... Anyone can. My thoughts are with you..
Oh please!

Since: Apr 11

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#17 Jul 3, 2013
Rev Ape Allen wrote:
<quoted text>
Oh please!
Get over it! I have been through this kinda thing myself and I have leaned on a few people online to get me through it. Sometimes all you need is someone to talk to.
karma

United States

#18 Jul 3, 2013
The best way to get over someone..is to go get under someone else..

“Cure 4 ignorance-> Knowledge!”

Since: Feb 11

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#19 Jul 3, 2013
karma wrote:
The best way to get over someone..is to go get under someone else..
That's what they say, but it only ever masked the feelings I needed to deal with... Eventually those feelings come out but it's better to deal with them when they are fresh. Jmo.
Been There

United States

#20 Jul 3, 2013
Just focuse on your children. Place them second in your life. Place God first. Time will heal all. It will not be easy just look forward do not look back. Make plans for your future place goals that do not involve ideas from your past. Try new things. Do not be down on your self. Ditch that computer cause all it will do is bring u more drama.
heart broken

Nebo, NC

#21 Jul 3, 2013
another man is the last thing I want or need to deal with. I have no confindence in myself and that makes it that much harder. All I know is there is nothing I can do to change the way things are. It is what it is. I will have to try to be strong for my kids.

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