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anonymous

Johnson City, TN

#1 Oct 25, 2013
what would you take to blow my dam head off because i can not take my ex and my kids problems no more?
me only

United States

#2 Oct 25, 2013
Then just pack up and leave. No one is worth killing yourself over. I know times are tough and people think they can't go on. But you can. There is always a way.out. you can always better yourself. I pray you think this out and see that is not the answer. Just throw a bag in your vehicle and go to a motel for the weekend or somewhere to get away. Please don't even think of ending your life. I don't know you but I am praying for you.
BUYER

Shelbyville, TN

#3 Oct 25, 2013
Thats a selfish act. I knew someone that commited suicide. Your pain, worries, etc are gone but you leave your family, kids & friends behind grieving for a very long time. Theres nothing worth ending your life over especially when you have a family. I dont know you or the problems your having but keep in mind, everyone at some point has hard times. No matter what, theres hope & faith. I hope you find your way soon.
Goodness Sakes

Charlotte, NC

#4 Oct 25, 2013
You All could be talking a child molester out of killing himself when he could potentially rape a child !

You dont know who these nut bags are !

Leave people Alone ! What is the point in getting involved in others problems you are all want to be nosy and your advice helps no one !

Its obvious this person has problems he should call a therapissed or go to the E.R.

Since: Jan 11

Greeneville TN

#5 Oct 25, 2013
It's not a selfish act. One has to be in a place completely and totally different from what is ordinarily considered "normal". Some see it as an act of sacrifice. In their distorted frame of mind, they believe their love ones will benefit somehow from their absense. It is not a logical act. Some are in such unimaginable pain, either physically or mentally that the only thing they are capable of considering is escape from the torment. Life isn't all sunshine and rainbows for everybody. To require a person to "hang on" or "tough it out" for ones own sake may in fact be the more selfish act.

That being said, I will say that it is a devastating thing for those left behind and I would encourage anyone considering it to at least seek other solutions to problems before resorting to the ultimate, final solution. Life ebbs and flows. There will always be highs and lows and change is a constant.
Goodness Sakes

Charlotte, NC

#6 Oct 25, 2013
You said it better Mysty , I just know that when people get crazy dangerous thoughts on endangering themselves !

They could potentialy hurt them close to them if they have nothing to lose.

Im not trying to sound mean but people give advice when the only advice should be go to the nearest healthcare provider or call for help !!!

“You gotta stand for something”

Since: Sep 13

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#7 Oct 25, 2013
anonymous wrote:
what would you take to blow my dam head off because i can not take my ex and my kids problems no more?
I see it as selfish. Piss on the ex, but you have kids....that should be your reason to live. I've always been told those who scream suicide never do it, they are just looking for attention. I think you should talk to your doctor about it, and not seek advice on Topix.
marth stewart

Owatonna, MN

#8 Oct 26, 2013
anonymous wrote:
what would you take to blow my dam head off because i can not take my ex and my kids problems no more?
I read your message yesterday, gave it some careful consideration, and then slept on it before giving you this answer.

So basically it occurs to me that if you aren't the one who is causing the problems, then why should you be the one who gets their head blown off? Especially when it is not you, but your ex and kids who are the real source for all of your problems.

If you've got a gun pointed at your own head thinking that will solve your problems, then it seems to me like you have the gun pointed in the wrong direction entirely. Think about it.

Since: Mar 13

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#9 Oct 26, 2013
marth stewart wrote:
<quoted text>I read your message yesterday, gave it some careful consideration, and then slept on it before giving you this answer.

So basically it occurs to me that if you aren't the one who is causing the problems, then why should you be the one who gets their head blown off? Especially when it is not you, but your ex and kids who are the real source for all of your problems.

If you've got a gun pointed at your own head thinking that will solve your problems, then it seems to me like you have the gun pointed in the wrong direction entirely. Think about it.
Seriously? Go back to sleep...

“Read all about it!”

Since: Jan 11

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#10 Oct 26, 2013
If you have children, you do not have the right to take your own life! It is a terrible thing for a child to have to live with a parent's suicide. Lot of us go and are now going through crap that makes us want to crawl in a hole, but if you have kids.. you plug on. Find some help somewhere. Don't do it.
marth stewart

Owatonna, MN

#11 Oct 26, 2013
life a life of misery, for your children's sake! lol

“Read all about it!”

Since: Jan 11

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#12 Oct 26, 2013
marth stewart wrote:
life a life of misery, for your children's sake! lol
What's wrong with YOU?
get help

Shelby, NC

#13 Oct 26, 2013
I am a widow of a man who made the choice to take his own life. This is something I take very serious. Its no laughing matter at all. Every human being was put on this earth for a reason. No one said life would be easy but it is what we make of it. You are responsible for your own life discussions and at times your going to make mistakes along the way. The stresses of everyday life can get to us all but its called life. Giving up and committing. Suicide is a selfish act because u are not just giving up on your self but your family and kids as well and more importantly your giving up on God . My husband and i have kids together. they don't even remember him and the awful pain he left in our hearts will never go away. So get help. don't do that to your family.... i know u are at the breaking point and u don't know what else to do. but have faith in the lord to see u through the troubles. god will never give us more than we can handle.
marth stewart

Owatonna, MN

#14 Oct 26, 2013
FriendofDog wrote:
<quoted text>
What's wrong with YOU?
people who are suffering should pretend that they are happy, for the sake of their children.

especially if there is domestic abuse within the marriage, they should stay married for the sake of the kids.

lol, i just think that is a funny philosophy.
marth stewart

Owatonna, MN

#15 Oct 26, 2013
get help wrote:
I am a widow of a man who made the choice to take his own life. This is something I take very serious. Its no laughing matter at all. Every human being was put on this earth for a reason. No one said life would be easy but it is what we make of it. You are responsible for your own life discussions and at times your going to make mistakes along the way. The stresses of everyday life can get to us all but its called life. Giving up and committing. Suicide is a selfish act because u are not just giving up on your self but your family and kids as well and more importantly your giving up on God . My husband and i have kids together. they don't even remember him and the awful pain he left in our hearts will never go away. So get help. don't do that to your family.... i know u are at the breaking point and u don't know what else to do. but have faith in the lord to see u through the troubles. god will never give us more than we can handle.
If God were enough, you wouldn't be sad.
Really

Charlotte, NC

#16 Oct 26, 2013
Martha Stewart you need help yourself. Nobody said stay married or in a relationship for the kids sake but yes nobody should take their own life under any circumstances. There is always a way out of any situation. It may not be easy but it has to get better. Your comment about if God were enough then you wouldn't be sad. Well the Bible talks about "trials & tribulations" & people that live for God still get sad. Maybe you should pick the Bible up & read it sometime. Maybe it would help you understand some things!
marth stewart

Owatonna, MN

#17 Oct 26, 2013
Trust in god and you wont have any problems.

“You gotta stand for something”

Since: Sep 13

Location hidden

#18 Oct 26, 2013
Really wrote:
Martha Stewart you need help yourself. Nobody said stay married or in a relationship for the kids sake but yes nobody should take their own life under any circumstances. There is always a way out of any situation. It may not be easy but it has to get better. Your comment about if God were enough then you wouldn't be sad. Well the Bible talks about "trials & tribulations" & people that live for God still get sad. Maybe you should pick the Bible up & read it sometime. Maybe it would help you understand some things!
Beautiful! Amen! I agree 100%! I would like to add that even if you live for God that does not mean that bad things will not happen to you. You pray to him to give you strenghth, wisdom, courage, and to help carry you when you have to much on you. If you want protection from everything live in a bubble.
Really

Charlotte, NC

#19 Oct 26, 2013
Sorry to burst your bubble Martha but people that trust in God still have problems. It's called "LIFE". Everybody's life is not perfect & NOBODY on this earth is perfect!!!! Like Se7en187 said" go back to sleep" and when you do just keep dreaming of a perfect life! Have a nice night.
marth stewart

Owatonna, MN

#20 Oct 26, 2013
god takes care of everything.

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