And like the kids are going to like, much less love, the woman who will be blamed for the rest of the lives of all involved, for breaking up their happy home, whether it really is or not. Many times, children are left with angry bitter scorned parents left behind & grow up in miserable conditions because of it. Just not good to pour gasoline on fire.
<quoted text>OH HELL YES I DID... Been in this situation, my so called husband did this very thing. I first blamed her, the wh0re, the slut, the evil woman who stole my husband. After the divorce when I had time to reflect on what happened, I thought, wait, He is the one who did this to us. Yes, she had a part in it but, She did not know me, did not "love" me as he was suppose to. All I am saying is, it is not all her fault, in fact it is the majority HIS fault. Alot of women blame it all on the person outside their marriage & will take the cheater back, stop & really think who hurt you. Don't make the mistake & think, Oh if not for Her, He would have been a good boy. If he did it with one he will do it with another.