what do u think about dirty house wif...

what do u think about dirty house wifes and lazy mom"s?

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somebody that knows

Columbia, KY

#1 Nov 25, 2009
what would you do if someone sit on there fat ass and let there house get so dang nasty that the whole family of in laws had to come and clean the dang thing up?,dirty diapers from presents months behind furniture dirty clothes all over the living room furniture and anywhere else they could lay it.dishes stuffed here and there with dried food from weeks past.and it take a week for a family of inlaws to clean it up ,and you live in it for another 3 months and they come back do it again.
well

Grayson, KY

#2 Nov 27, 2009
they need a old fashion ass kicking.and for people to stop going in and cleaning it.i can see if they where sick or something but just to set down and let it get nasty and someone clean it for you .i see 3 problems here.#1 your husband needs to divorce your ass.#2your in laws needs to stop doing for you.#3 your children should be removed from the home.
Zoey

Ashland, KY

#3 Nov 27, 2009
well wrote:
they need a old fashion ass kicking.and for people to stop going in and cleaning it.i can see if they where sick or something but just to set down and let it get nasty and someone clean it for you .i see 3 problems here.#1 your husband needs to divorce your ass.#2your in laws needs to stop doing for you.#3 your children should be removed from the home.
I dont agree with the divorce,their could be some changes made to work it out. But yes if their was not a change made in the home then the kids should be removed,because it is not sanitary for the kids.
dave

Grand Forks, ND

#4 Dec 31, 2009
i live in iowa. is there a law that you can lose your child becouse your house is really dirty?

Thanks
prancer

Broken Arrow, OK

#5 Dec 31, 2009
maybe if you send social servic es to the house while its nasty it would be enough to scare her into cleaning it!
moretostory

Lexington, KY

#6 Dec 31, 2009
dave wrote:
i live in iowa. is there a law that you can lose your child becouse your house is really dirty?
Thanks
well if you let your house get that bad there must be a major problem that would let you get that point like staying on valium
to where you just can't get the motivation to clean. plus if
they are neglecting the house they are probably not paying
any attention to their kids either.
concerned

Elizabethtown, KY

#7 Jan 3, 2010
they should take the kids out of that enviroment! there is no excuse for that kind of nasty living!its not the inlaws job to clean up after a fat lazy ass!
Stormchaser

Baird, TX

#8 Jan 3, 2010
Well just let me tell you , I called social services on my cousin because I walked in her house one day , just for a visit , hadn't seen her in years, and there was food on the coffee table that had turn a bright green color ( and the kids was eating it ) there was dirty dishes that looked liked they hadn't been washed in over a month, the kids face was nasty , they looked like they hadn't had a bath in a month of Sundays.... There was stuff everywhere dirty close ,dirty shoes with mud on them, nasty looking toys .... Now the kids was eating the stuff on the coffee table , picking stuff up putting stuff in there months , the Baby was drinking out of a cup the looked just nasty as nasty could be, So you get the point it was freakin nasty.... I called Social Services and they in turned called my cousinm and told her that they were coming to look at her place because a family member from Carter County had called in on her and reported her unfit.... Now I don't think that was right at all.... They told me they wouldn't tell her who called ,but since I'm her only cousin from Carter County I think it's safe to say she knew who it was.... Am I wrong to think that Social Services went about that totally wrong?
concerned

Elizabethtown, KY

#9 Jan 4, 2010
WOW! yeh, i think they were totally out of line with that one! oh, and let me guess! they gave her time to clean up to! wouldnt surprise me none!thats why people dont want to get involved because there is no such thing as anonymous!
hillbilly

Ashland, KY

#10 Jan 4, 2010
i think the people that are lazy an don't take care of the house now. their not going to take care of the kids either. they have several issues depressed or just crazy or on drugs. theres no reason the kids should have to deal with moms probalms. an wheres dad at i no he might work but theres no reason his as- cant help out at least give the kids a bath.
CONTROLLING ADULT

Whitney, TX

#11 Jan 4, 2010
hillbilly wrote:
i think the people that are lazy an don't take care of the house now. their not going to take care of the kids either. they have several issues depressed or just crazy or on drugs. theres no reason the kids should have to deal with moms probalms. an wheres dad at i no he might work but theres no reason his as- cant help out at least give the kids a bath.
I WOULD GIVE THE KIDS A BATH BUT I WOULD BOOT HER ASS DAD IS AT WORK .AHHH WHEN IT GETS SO BAD THE INLAWS WILL BE BACK AND CLEAN IT
cleanin fever

Knoxville, TN

#12 Jan 4, 2010
Tell you'uns what. All it takes for me is to chew me up an oxy 80 drink me a big ol cup of sugary coffee and whammo I'm set to clean me some dirty house! Hellfire I can clean all day long on two 80s.
Stormchaser

Roosevelt, OK

#13 Jan 4, 2010
cleanin fever wrote:
Tell you'uns what. All it takes for me is to chew me up an oxy 80 drink me a big ol cup of sugary coffee and whammo I'm set to clean me some dirty house! Hellfire I can clean all day long on two 80s.
DUMBASS!!!!
penny

Arnold, MO

#14 Jan 26, 2011
I am in a relationship of 3 years with my girlfriend. She has 2 teenage children one is a 14y/o girl and the other is a 15y/o boy. I am a mother of 4 with grandchildren and my lifes work has been keeping a clean house. Some tell me that i am overboard but to me a clean house says everything and beyond that sometimes i wonder if i have a disorder because even clutter will send me into a frenzy. I often become very depressed and angry with disorganization and is truly something i can not tolerate. I have been a RN for 16 years of my life and organization is my first name. I have tried to discuss my feelings with my new family various times and I have expressed the importance this holds with me. I have been nice, I have been mean, I have been down right nasty about it with little to no avail. I have pleaded and begged for help and consistincy, the mother of the children, my girlfriend finds no importance in this, clutter doesnt bother her and she will not re-inforce chores with the children. If they do not do them, it is simply brushed away no consequences, ever. My girlfriend works a full time job and does not lift a finger in the house, i am now on disability due to an accident so i am home all the time. I am able to clean but can not do it all alone. I have felt in the past this is my duty now that i am home but it can be very overwhelming and i keep insisting i need help. i have given the children a few daily chores that are not hard, cleaning their rooms, dishes, trash and catbox cleaning but it never seems to be consistant for very long and then im back to what the family says is "bitching". I have gone as far as threatening to move out and still things do not change. I believe i have lost my respect with all my family, and i believe if they could say it would just tell me to shut up. I am lost i have tried everything under gods given skies with no results. I am ready to move, i want to continue my relationship with my girlfriend but feel i really need to move into my own place just to save our relationship. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Niicole

United States

#15 Feb 11, 2011
Well from my experience (Lived in a dirty house) I hated it every weekend I would stay with friends. And every weekday I would clean for a whole hour or more plus do my homework. My mom only does landury and sometimes dishes. She has FIVE kids and can't even take care of one. I am scared because I am 16 and when I leave who is going to try and clean. Also my day work Mon. through Sat. And he clean for 30. Mins a day. The kids ages are me 16 years old, sister 10, brother 11, brother 6, and lastly my other brother 3. My sister who 11 helps a little by cleaning her room same with my brother who 11. But the house is still dirty my mom has from 8:30 in the morning to 2:30 in the afternoon to clean and she only has one kid with her. It pisses me off because when I get home she says she tried and needs a nap BUT SHE DOES NOTHING. I wake up at 5:40 every week day to go to school and go to bed at 11 pm. And she wakes up at 8am everyday and she goes to bed at 9:30pm. So WHAT DOES SHE DO ALL DAY WHATCH TV ON THE COMPUTER I don't know. All I now is when I leave I am scared for my siblings cause I will be in FL not in PA. So WHAT SHOULD I DO ??( ps we have had bugs in our house before and its nasty :S)

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Niicole (: THANKS FOR READING :)
i know

Owingsville, KY

#16 Feb 12, 2011
i work a full time job when i come home i clean every thing up then start supper i cant stand for any thing to go dirty
omg

Ashland, KY

#17 Feb 12, 2011
Just hearing all this makes me want to scrub everything in my house down; and trust me I don't have any dirty dishes with stuff growing on them! How can people live like that? I wouldn't be able to function! My house is lived in; but it is not nasty by any means!
robin

Englewood, OH

#18 Feb 16, 2011
i know someone that is dirty. she is too busy cheating on her husband to clean her house up.you all may know her,she may have tried to steal your man or wait if he isn't 18 and under,maybe i should say steal your son.-sorry. i walked in her house one day and wanted to vomit. dog crap everywhere,roaches crawling all over,maggots wiggling all around in her dirty pots and pans.....dishes with food stuck to them that had molded.-you get the point.-nasty!!! dirty,molded,wet,smelly clothes piled so you couldn't even walk though her trailer.-all over the floors. why in the hell isn't social services doing their job???
Truth

Ashland, KY

#19 Feb 16, 2011
well wrote:
.#1 your husband needs to divorce your ass.#2your in laws needs to stop doing for you.#3 your children should be removed from the home.
So you're saying that BOTH the mom and dad are sitting around not cleaning? Then why is the blame being put on the woman alone? Can't the husband/dad get off his ass and clean too, especially if both of them work outside the home?

I mean, if it's really supposed to be harmful to the kids, than the dad can sanitize just as well.
Pissed off

Ashland, KY

#20 Feb 16, 2011
I have a out law for a daughter-nlaw she has always been super nasty in her house and still is!!but bless her little sick twisted pea brain !she thinks she is too beautiful to cook clean or wipe her crack clean with rags!!yes tore up rags!at the age of 14 she was giving my grandson pills or should i say snorting with him...mow he is 20 and has never worked at anything !but was taught to bum borrow and steal and never pay back anything!!at one time she kept animals in her house of differnt kinds and was full of @hitt!! how nasty is that??? Yep she will klnow me when her crazy eyes reads this...Let the good times roll BABY!!!! i am just across the hill!! Thief!!!! i can just see those fake tears rolling like a big ole semi truck!!!sniff,sniff..

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