In love with ex ?
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mitch

Broken Arrow, OK

#1 Aug 22, 2009
Anyone out there still in love with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend? If so, what's your story?
I am

Dawsonville, GA

#2 Aug 23, 2009
I moved to kentucky to get myself off of drugs and in the mean time lost my fiancee of 3 years. i still love him very much and my love for him is getting in my way of being happy here. i have been with someone else and i tried very very hard to make myself love that person but it is hard to do until i let go of my feelings for my ex.
sarah

Ashland, KY

#3 Aug 23, 2009
no one likes to be alone, but i would recommend not dating for a while, you're gonna end up hurting yourself and the person who you're with. Time heals all wounds. Concentrate on getting your life together. Don't go looking, a new love will happen when you least expect it.
been there

Nicholasville, KY

#4 Aug 23, 2009
My ex dumped me, & I tried moving on to get over him and just ended up hurting my best guy friend that I was dating. It's not worth it. I don't think you ever get completely over your first love.(In my opinion)
Still in love

Ashland, KY

#5 Aug 23, 2009
I have been in love with my ex for years. We had a fight, I told him to marry the girl he had a child with... and he did, eventually. They are now divorced and he is with someone else now. I married, but am very unhappy, and so is he. I am hoping someday our paths will cross again, and things will work for us. I saw him a couple of weeks ago... and my heart melted. He made me realize how miserable I was. I pray to god every night to bring him back to me. He was my love.
me too

Sharpsburg, KY

#6 Aug 23, 2009
i still love my ex very much. we broke up because we just fight and i wasnt happy. but just because i wasnt happy dont mean i still dont love him. We have a son of 7 months together. its hard being away from him but even harder to be with him. we dont get along anymore it seems. i find out about his past and some of the things i find out, if i had known when we first started out as friends, i wouldnt have ever talked to him again. im still pretty screwed up about it and it will take me a long long time to even consider dating again. im not only depressed about all this but i think iv got the depression that you get after having a child. im so screwed up right now. my mind in constantly going. it never stops on anything imparticular it just keeps going, thinking about how we fight. i feel guilty too because of my son. i just dont know what to do. iv gave him chances, and he still just dont take a change.
Ricky

Grayson, KY

#7 Aug 23, 2009
Not everyone is meant to be together.
Cathy

Whitney, TX

#8 Aug 24, 2009
me too wrote:
i still love my ex very much. we broke up because we just fight and i wasnt happy. but just because i wasnt happy dont mean i still dont love him. We have a son of 7 months together. its hard being away from him but even harder to be with him. we dont get along anymore it seems. i find out about his past and some of the things i find out, if i had known when we first started out as friends, i wouldnt have ever talked to him again. im still pretty screwed up about it and it will take me a long long time to even consider dating again. im not only depressed about all this but i think iv got the depression that you get after having a child. im so screwed up right now. my mind in constantly going. it never stops on anything imparticular it just keeps going, thinking about how we fight. i feel guilty too because of my son. i just dont know what to do. iv gave him chances, and he still just dont take a change.
I was the same way and left my husband of 5 years after our last child was born. You could be having effects of depression, it can last of to 9 months after your child is born, and gets worse before it gets better. After thinking back to what I did, I caused a lot of the fighting because of it. After I realized what a mistake I had made it was too late, he had moved on and re-married. Im married again now but im not happy at all. Its also hard with the kids, cause I have to see him everytime I drop off my little girls and it hurts so bad. My advice to you, whoever you are, the past is the past, if you love him like you say you do then let him know before its too late. Hope my advice helps, Cathy.
the ex

Whitney, TX

#9 Aug 24, 2009
all i need is a chance to show you i can change, shes right let the past be the past. but if things keep going the way they are im not ever going to come back even if you want to.
justin 123

AOL

#10 Aug 24, 2009
is the other female Holly Jackson?

“love, loyalty, friendship”

Since: Sep 08

Dutchville

#11 Aug 24, 2009
Oh Hell no.
lost in love

United States

#12 Aug 24, 2009
Im going through the same thing. It will never make sense to me why love is not enough. I love him so much and he loves me. But all we have to do is start talking about a relationship and it ends.
get over it

Greenup, KY

#13 Oct 6, 2009
if it didnt work theres a reason for it. stop disillusioning yourselves once you are out and away from your ex's. you are just lonely.
justagirl

Whitney, TX

#14 Oct 6, 2009
I think about my ex everyday. We were enganged and I screwed up. I have some unreasolved issues with being left alone and I took it out on him while he was working away. I miss the smile I had when I was with him. He helped me through some really tough times. I hope he knows I'm sorry and I would take everything back if I could.
get over it

Greenup, KY

#15 Oct 6, 2009
once again there is a reason that you split. its over, so get over it.
justagirl

Whitney, TX

#16 Oct 6, 2009
Still in love wrote:
I have been in love with my ex for years. We had a fight, I told him to marry the girl he had a child with... and he did, eventually. They are now divorced and he is with someone else now. I married, but am very unhappy, and so is he. I am hoping someday our paths will cross again, and things will work for us. I saw him a couple of weeks ago... and my heart melted. He made me realize how miserable I was. I pray to god every night to bring him back to me. He was my love.
I know what you mean. My husband and I saw my ex in a store a couple months ago and my stomach filled with butterflies! It just reminded me of how miserable I am.
saz

Flatwoods, KY

#17 Oct 6, 2009
I will always love my ex but I know we were not ment to be together.
justagirl

Whitney, TX

#18 Oct 7, 2009
Hey Mitch! Are you in love with an ex?
Josh Napier

Lexington, KY

#19 Oct 8, 2009
sarah wrote:
no one likes to be alone, but i would recommend not dating for a while, you're gonna end up hurting yourself and the person who you're with. Time heals all wounds. Concentrate on getting your life together. Don't go looking, a new love will happen when you least expect it.
truth
Jilted

Cincinnati, OH

#20 Oct 8, 2009
20 years ago we were going to get married,one day he just called and said it was over.-i know 20 years is a long time to love someone,but i just can't stop and i can only pray that someday he will be mine again.i know that it may be wrong to feel this way,but a heart wants what it wants.

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