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HER ONLY DAUGHTER
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I HAD THE BEST DREAM IN THE WORLD THE OTHER NIGHT ABOUT MY MAMA WHOM I MISS SOOO VERY MUCH! IT WAS GREAT I DREAMT THAT SHE WAS ALIVA AGAIN, AND I GOT TO FEEL HER TOUCH ONE MORE TIME, IT FELT SO REAL THAT I NEVER WANTED TO STOP HUGGING HER, MAMA TODAY HAS BEEN 4 MONTHS AND IM STAYING STRONG FOR YOU BECAUSE I KNOW THAT IT WAT YOU WOULD HAVE WANTED...I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING ON THIS EARTH.
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MIK STONE-SANTA ROSA CA
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that's a damn lie her first love did not beat her. why are you even opening a whole other subject, oh is it to take the focus off of the wife KILLER ANDY? you better get you facts in order before you start accusing someone of any thing. let's stick to the real topic Terri's death at the hands of a tweeker,woman beater and muderer....ANDY. we can forgive but we will never forget how she was murdered.
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I know why he didnt just leave, its because everytime he tried she would threaten suicide, which andy knew she was quite capable of doing, so i guess 4 him it was a lose lose situation, is u ask me, u people are just as crazy as you've been saying he is. I'm sdaying its right but don't open pie holes until you know for sure what your saying is the TRUTH.
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i messed up a couple things, im not saying its right but, it was both of them, just don't open your mouths until you really know what went on in that household, none of us do, so really my facts are opinions also, quit being rude there were two lives lost here, ones with the angels and ones in the closest thing to hell
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flint wrote: they were BOTH RESPONSIBLE!!she's the one who chose to stay!some of you say you offered her help and knew what she was going though!but yet she did NOT take the HELP that was being offered.you also claim she was a smart women but I guess she also chose to turn her back on the situation.15yrs. is a long time and yes it's very hard to leave but the help was there for her.I'm not saying this was her fault,I'm saying they were both 2 growen adult's that made there own bad choose's.I'm sorry to say this kind of thing happen's everyday and someone always get's hurt or die's .that's why some one need's to be the RESPONSIBLE one and leave.but nither did and something bad happened.it takes 2 and both were IRRESPONISBLE until the end!!!sorry for all that are HURTING. I agree very much in what you are saying here. The whole relationship had been very long and complicated with continuous alcoholism and mental disorders on both parts. I just have to give the kids credit ...they were the STRONGEST ONES out of all the adults on BOTH sides over the years. The adults should have stepped up and saved the kids out of that mess YEARS ago. Mr. Ulanski... It was ok for you to leave the boys in that mess??? I always wanted to ask you WHY??? Erica's dad...where were you??? Head in the sand too? I don't understand you Fathers allowing YOUR children to grow up in that environment and not doing something about it then...but NOW you'll slam Andy??? Pretty much Terri chose WHO would help her raise her kids. Does anyone wonder about that besides me? I truely regret not doing anything...hopefully God will have mercy on ME someday for not helping the kids when I knew I should have. I know addictions and mental disorders can play a horrible role in relationships, Terri and Andy were victims of both these diseases, which is what led us to this tragedy. May both sides stay strong and add understanding and comfort to each others lives.
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HER ONLY DAUGHTER
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family wrote: I know why he didnt just leave, its because everytime he tried she would threaten suicide, which andy knew she was quite capable of doing, so i guess 4 him it was a lose lose situation, is u ask me, u people are just as crazy as you've been saying he is. I'm sdaying its right but don't open pie holes until you know for sure what your saying is the TRUTH. HEY GUESS WHAT "ANONYMOUS PERSON" OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVE NO IDEA SO YOU REALLY SHOULD NOT PUT YOUR 2SENSE IN ABOUT MY MOTHER. I DONT KNOW WHO YOU ARE BUT OBVIOUSLY YOUR JUST AS CRAZY AS HIM FROM WHAT I CAN TELL, HAHA YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME LAUGH! ANYWAYS THIS WEBSITE IS NOT FOR JUST ANYONE TO VISIT(HINT HINT) ITS FOR PEOPLE THAT HAVE GOOD THINGS TO SAY ABOUT MY MOM. SO PLEASE DO US ALL A FAVOR AND BUT OUT CAUSE NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY NONE OF US WANNA HEAR IT!!!
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RIGHT is RIGHT & WRONG is WRONG. Wheather it is family or not that person needs to pay for his own actions.
By the time this is all over, justice will prevail.
And as I have said in the begining this should be for the good memories of Terri.
I can remember myself and my son going up north to Cadillac and spent the whole weekend up there. Terri and her girlfriend, Erica, Myself and my son went out on the boat all day and just had a blast. Came back cooked out on the grill and had a blast. All I can see is her face right now (justa smiling & laughing)
That is one thing I will say about my Terri, is she had a lot of friends no matter where she went, she made friends!!!! OH and for the ones that don't know she was alot of fun to be around even if we were not drinking!!!!!!!
I know she is lookin down and is with everyone of us-everyday at on point or another.
I hope the kids continue to be strong cuz that is what she would have wanted,INCLUDING you TIFFANY!!
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i am family
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HER ONLY DAUGHTER wrote: <quoted text>
HEY GUESS WHAT "ANONYMOUS PERSON" OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVE NO IDEA SO YOU REALLY SHOULD NOT PUT YOUR 2SENSE IN ABOUT MY MOTHER. I DONT KNOW WHO YOU ARE BUT OBVIOUSLY YOUR JUST AS CRAZY AS HIM FROM WHAT I CAN TELL, HAHA YOU PEOPLE MAKE ME LAUGH! ANYWAYS THIS WEBSITE IS NOT FOR JUST ANYONE TO VISIT(HINT HINT) ITS FOR PEOPLE THAT HAVE GOOD THINGS TO SAY ABOUT MY MOM. SO PLEASE DO US ALL A FAVOR AND BUT OUT CAUSE NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY NONE OF US WANNA HEAR IT!!! and i do know wat went on i just figured id speak my opinion politely, i loved both of them but i wont sit here and let someone get bashed when it takes two, so laugh all u want but im also lookin out 4 your feelings, im close family but i just wanted people to think about the thinga i said, it wasnt directed towards u Ericka.
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MIK STONE-SANTA ROSA CA
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FYI MR.ULANSKI WENT THROUGH A LOT OF MENTAL & PHYSICAL AFTER HE & TERRI SPLIT UP. IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHO HAD THE BOYS MORE THAN ANDY & TERRI IT WAS THEIR GRANDPARENTS MR. ULANSKI'S MOM & DAD. THEY SPENT MORE TIME WITH THEM THEN ANY FAMILY MEMBER. NOT TO MENTION HOW THEY TOOK CARE OF ALL THEIR NEEDS,AND THEIR GRANDMA ULANSKI STILL DOES.SHE HAS GOTTEN JOEY OUT OF A LOT OF JAMS AND SHE WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO AS LONG AS SHE CAN.
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HES MY DAD
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you know i understand where some of you are coming from. and i also understand that my brothers and sister no longer have their mom, but i don't have my dad, yes he is alive but he has lost his life in a way also.i never got the chance to grow up with my dad and that hurt everyday growing up.in the last 5 yrs me and my dad have become very vey close. so how it is to me is he was in my life until i was 7 and then he was gone and then in my life again and then RIPPED THE HELL AWAY FROM MY LIFE AGAIN!!! i would never wish something like this on anyone ever. i don't exspect terri's family to be supportive of him but i know his family is and will be till the end.thi9s has taken such a toll on my life it is hard for me to function day to day,i miss terri and my dad so very much. my kids talk about them from time to time and refere to terri as grandma terri,they r waiting to go up north to go fishin but it won't happen now.i have lost about 14 pound from all this and if you know and seen me you know i can't afford to lose it.i'm already skinny enough.i dream of my dad everyday and he will always be in my heart mind and prayers and the same for terri. so can everyone please just stop all the middle school bull shit and stop bashin eachother and MY DAD!!!i still have not been able to cry about any of this other than when i found out and at terri's funeral. i don't ever have a moment to my self. i always have my kids and i don't cry in front of them b/c they don't need to see it plus they have no clue on what is goin on or i'm at work and that is not the place. so i have alot balled up inside.so please stop talkin mess and have some DAMN RESPECT for others.. my dad only has 2 judges god and the one from the court!!!!!!
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HIS ONLY DAUGHTER wrote: UNTIL U ALL KNOW THE REAL FACTS OF WHAT REALLY HAPPENED THAT NIGHT, AND UNTIL MY DAD IS FOUND GUILTY IN (THE COURT OF LAW)I THINK U ALL NEED TO THINK ABOUT HIS FAMILIES FEELINGS AND WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH ALSO.I CAN STOP READIN ALL THESES COMMENTS AND NOT LOOK AT THEM AGAIN BUT I WANNA KNOW WHAT KIND OF THINGS THAT R BEING SAID ABOUT MY DAD!! AND IT HURTS TO KNOW WHERE HE IS AND THAT TERRI IS NO LONGER WITH US. BUT U KNOW WHAT IS REALLY MESSED UP MY SO CALLED BROTHERS AND SISTER PULLED THE WOOL RIGHT OVER MY EYES. IF YOU WANNA KNOW WHAT I MEAN BY THAT JUST ASK ANY OF THE 3. THERE R SOME OF U CALLING HIM A MURDERER AND A PHSYCO (AND A WANNA BE BIKER) IS IT NOT FUNNY HOW ALL OF U LOVED HIM PARTIED WITH THEM AND TALKED TO HIM ALL THE TIME ALL THE WAY UP UNTIL SHE PASSED?!?!? I JUST WANT U ALL TO LOOK AT WHAT U R WRITING AND REMEBER HE STILL HAS A DAUGHTER OUT HERE AND I DO READ ALL OF THIS!! the only wool being pulled over the eyes is the one you pulled on my 2 kids and their sister
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PART OF HIS FAMILY wrote: IT'S A SHAME WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO TERRI,I HAVE KNOWN ANDY FOR MANY YEARS.AND I WILL DEFEND HIM TO THE END. WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE TO JUDGE! ARE YOU GOD! AND FOR YOU PEOPLE OUT THERE SAYING GIVE ME 5 MINS. ALONE WITH HIM, SO YOU ARE NO BETTER. HOW MANY OF YOU SO CALLED GREAT PEOPLE OUT THERE HAVE NEVER SAID I WISH YOU WERE DEAD! THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE ALL SAYING ABOUT ANDY. YOUR ALL BLAMING HIM AND NO-ONE EVEN KNOWS WHAT HAS HAPPENED YET. AND THEN TO SAY THAT IT WAS A BAD RELATIONSHIP WHY DIDN'T ANY OF HER GREAT FRIENDS OR FAMILY GET HER OUT OF IT, NO YOU LEFT HER THERE. YOU PEOPLE NEED TO STOP AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOUR SAYING ABOUT MY NIECE'S DAD. NO-ONE THOUGHT HE WAS A BAD GUY UNTIL AFTER ALL THIS HAPPENED.JUST THINK GOD IS JUDGING YOU FOR ALL THAT YOU SAY ABOUT HIM, JUST REMEMBER THAT THE NEXT TIME YOU GO TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH ABOUT SOMEONE. I FEEL FOR TERRI'S CHILDREN FOR THEIR LOSE AND I ALSO FEEL FOR WHAT ANDY'S FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH AND TO LET ALL YOU ANDY HATERS KNOW I'M ONE OF HIS FAMILY. I ALWAYS THOUGHT HE WAS BAD
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mich wrote: Lets not forget who they considered and called dad for the past 15 years. That is not so easy to forget. THEY WERE MADE TO CALL HIM DAD,THEY NEVER WANTED TO
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Michigan wrote: Terri's first love beat her too so he shouldn't act so innocent. I watched many violent scraps between him and her(some involved the police). No one sets out to kill someone in domestic abuse it's a tragic end to a terrible way of living. This isn't an excuse for Andy. Andy's one and only judge wil judge him and all others should keep silent and let their father do his work. All Terri ever knew was one abusive relationship to another. She wanted to be loved but didn't know how to go about being loved. The cycle of violence started long before Andy. She just needed help and unfortunetly it is to late for that. So help those that are left, the FOUR children Terri loved; Tiffany, Joseph, Michael and Erica. Help them break the cycle, swallow your bitter pills and do what Terri would have wanted EVERYONE to do and that is FORGIVE!! NO TERRIS FIRST LOVE DID NOT BEAT HER I AM HER FIRST LOVE AND IF YOU WITNESSED THIS YOU ARE A LIAR. PUT YOUR NAME OUT THERE IF YOU DARE
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relative wrote: <quoted text> I agree very much in what you are saying here. The whole relationship had been very long and complicated with continuous alcoholism and mental disorders on both parts. I just have to give the kids credit ...they were the STRONGEST ONES out of all the adults on BOTH sides over the years. The adults should have stepped up and saved the kids out of that mess YEARS ago. Mr. Ulanski... It was ok for you to leave the boys in that mess??? I always wanted to ask you WHY??? Erica's dad...where were you??? Head in the sand too? I don't understand you Fathers allowing YOUR children to grow up in that environment and not doing something about it then...but NOW you'll slam Andy??? Pretty much Terri chose WHO would help her raise her kids. Does anyone wonder about that besides me? I truely regret not doing anything...hopefully God will have mercy on ME someday for not helping the kids when I knew I should have. I know addictions and mental disorders can play a horrible role in relationships, Terri and Andy were victims of both these diseases, which is what led us to this tragedy. May both sides stay strong and add understanding and comfort to each others lives. I DID NOT LEAVE THE BOYS IN THAT MESS IT WAS TERRIS CHOICE FOR ME TO LEAVE AND I DID WHAT SHE WANTED. ANDY WAS IN THE PICTURE YEARS AFTER I LEFT. I SENT THE KIDS PICTURES OF ME AND ALWAYS HAD THEM IN THE SUMMERS(WHILE I WAS IN TEXAS) WHEN I CAME BACK I HAD THEM EVERY OTHER WEEKEND
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It is a sad situation when people have to try to start blaming others that were not in this relationship.
There is no need in bashing the boys dad. I am a relative of Terri's and I know that the boys' dad was in the picture in and out of state.
This situation is Andy & Terris' only.
No one's relationship is picture perfect. At least Joe left when him and Terri knew the marriage was over.
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you mean they were made to call him DAD even as growen adult's?so therefore you are also saying as grown ADULT children the were forced to write HIM letter's & send ANDY card's stateing that HE meaning ANDY was more of a dad to them than there owen so called dad was?I think NOT mr.cause I have it in there OWEN writting that say's DIFFERENTLEY!!!!!AHOLE!!and I don't thyink ANYONE was bashing YOU!! they were stateing FACT'S to the point of if YOU as a so called dad thaught YOUR kid's were in such a BAD ENVIROMENT than WHY would A as you call YOURSELF a dad WOULD YOU leave your CHILDERN THERE?????????O.M.G.I can't belive what an IGNORANT IDIOT YOU are.
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Her first love wrote: <quoted text>
I DID NOT LEAVE THE BOYS IN THAT MESS IT WAS TERRIS CHOICE FOR ME TO LEAVE AND I DID WHAT SHE WANTED. ANDY WAS IN THE PICTURE YEARS AFTER I LEFT. I SENT THE KIDS PICTURES OF ME AND ALWAYS HAD THEM IN THE SUMMERS(WHILE I WAS IN TEXAS) WHEN I CAME BACK I HAD THEM EVERY OTHER WEEKEND YOUR a VERY,VERY STUPID man!you say u did what teri wanted,but yet it was a bad situation for your KID'S!I'd be ASHAMED to say I was aware of how bad it was and than still call myself a dad!a DAD that cared would NOT of EVER let that HAPPEN.so therefore there's a name for DAD'S like YOU,that would be LOSER! NOT DAD!!!another thing u r makeing yourself look like the FOOL YOU are.just to let you know I'm a WOMAN & I'LL go head to head w/u ANYTIME!! TROUBLEMAKER!!!
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Her first love wrote: <quoted text>
the only wool being pulled over the eyes is the one you pulled on my 2 kids and their sister oh really was you there when i got fu**ed out of all my dads shit???? i don't think so... so maybe you shpould keep your comments to your self because you don't know the half!!!!!!!!how dare you even comment on me? who in the hell do you think you are? no body to me!!!!!!!!!!
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Her first love wrote: <quoted text>
THEY WERE MADE TO CALL HIM DAD,THEY NEVER WANTED TO think NOT but any LOSER dad would make that statement.I DON'T think you have clue.u need to find a rock to crawl under.oh I'm sorry,I ment a pebble,for that pea brain of yours.
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