Deadbeat parents sought

Deadbeat parents sought

There are 17 comments on the Lebanon Daily News story from Oct 24, 2010, titled Deadbeat parents sought. In it, Lebanon Daily News reports that:

The Lebanon County Domestic Relations office has released a list of people it is seeking for past-due child support.

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wasted money

Lancaster, PA

#1 Oct 24, 2010
IS it an extenuating circumstance for these fellas......

IF the mommy is a lazy, careless, irresponsible,
baby pumping sperm bank who spits illiteracy with her cussing while stealing from local stores and looking for future sperm donors for additional income with loud music and gross display of body parts on the porch and sidewalk in open view of traffic on a US Highway ???
savethetatas

Gaithersburg, MD

#2 Oct 24, 2010
If we have addresses, why have warrents not been served. Wasted, I know plenty of situations just like this. It makes those of us that work everday and take care of our children look bad! My ex is behind by 32,000..and has finally started paying, although they boys are now over 18. He pays a low amount of money and his excuse was, I have bills. Well, so do I. I paid rent, car payments, utilities and still managed to take care of karate classes, midget football, skateboards, bicycles, dr visits, shots, dentists....on less than he makes. He went to jail, got paroled and as soon as they attached his wages, new charges. He spent the better part of 15 years in jail so he could escape his obligations and responsibilities. There are women out there that are just as disgusted with the system as men!

Since: Nov 09

Lebanon, PA

#3 Oct 25, 2010
savethetatas wrote:
If we have addresses, why have warrents not been served.
"Last known addresses," also known as "not there anymore or we wouldn't have to put their name in the paper."
thought

Lancaster, PA

#4 Oct 25, 2010
Just reading the headline, the first thing that came to my mind is they've come to the right town!
wow

Palmyra, PA

#5 Oct 25, 2010
wasted money wrote:
IS it an extenuating circumstance for these fellas......
IF the mommy is a lazy, careless, irresponsible,
baby pumping sperm bank who spits illiteracy with her cussing while stealing from local stores and looking for future sperm donors for additional income with loud music and gross display of body parts on the porch and sidewalk in open view of traffic on a US Highway ???
Even if those things are true, the kids still need to eat, need clothing and a roof over their head. pay up scumbags.
savethetatas

Lebanon, PA

#6 Oct 25, 2010
LancerSykera wrote:
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"Last known addresses," also known as "not there anymore or we wouldn't have to put their name in the paper."
only problem with that is...they listed someone I knew a few years ago...and he still lived at that address. they had a warrent for my ex, and he was at home, across the street from my grandparents....they called and notified the sheriffs department and noone showed up! The two departments do not work that close together on these things sometimes..I've seen people get thrown in jail for being $30. short on the $230. that they owed. The same day I watched people that owed a few thousand walk out of the court room because they "forgot to notify DRS that they lost their job". Without a purge...that person was my husband. Fair...absolutely not. Should he have gone to jail...Heck yeah!
wow

Palmyra, PA

#7 Oct 25, 2010
savethetatas wrote:
<quoted text>only problem with that is...they listed someone I knew a few years ago...and he still lived at that address. they had a warrent for my ex, and he was at home, across the street from my grandparents....they called and notified the sheriffs department and noone showed up! The two departments do not work that close together on these things sometimes..I've seen people get thrown in jail for being $30. short on the $230. that they owed. The same day I watched people that owed a few thousand walk out of the court room because they "forgot to notify DRS that they lost their job". Without a purge...that person was my husband. Fair...absolutely not. Should he have gone to jail...Heck yeah!
Why do you want him in jail? He can't pay you from jail.
savethetatas

Lebanon, PA

#8 Oct 25, 2010
because when he's in jail he is on work release and pays support. once he's out again he quits his job...its just a cycle that seems to happen continually with him!
good-luck

AOL

#9 Oct 25, 2010
The raven, even being the nasty bird he is, still makes sure his young are provided for...
Ha!I have one for you, my ex owes over $20,000, he opened an unemployment claim in May,then in June he went to jail.BUT he continued to collect unemployment until the end of September FROM A MAXIMUM SECURITY PRISON?!I turned him into Labor&Industry in July and nothing had been done.(i am still pursuing turning him in)hE MUST HAVE HIS GIRLFRIEND CALL IT IN FOR HIM OR SOMETHING. He finally stopped his claim in september when he got notification from domestic relations that the newest child support law allows for him to sit in jail and doesn't even owe while he rots there.So not only doesn't he pay child support but he got illegal unemployment for 5 months.So it's not only parents not getting their child support,hard working people don't get their unemployment either.It's because like dead beats and crooks like "this guy". Just remember a snake may shed his skin but underneath he is still a snake.
wow

Palmyra, PA

#10 Oct 25, 2010
good-luck wrote:
The raven, even being the nasty bird he is, still makes sure his young are provided for...
Ha!I have one for you, my ex owes over $20,000, he opened an unemployment claim in May,then in June he went to jail.BUT he continued to collect unemployment until the end of September FROM A MAXIMUM SECURITY PRISON?!I turned him into Labor&Industry in July and nothing had been done.(i am still pursuing turning him in)hE MUST HAVE HIS GIRLFRIEND CALL IT IN FOR HIM OR SOMETHING. He finally stopped his claim in september when he got notification from domestic relations that the newest child support law allows for him to sit in jail and doesn't even owe while he rots there.So not only doesn't he pay child support but he got illegal unemployment for 5 months.So it's not only parents not getting their child support,hard working people don't get their unemployment either.It's because like dead beats and crooks like "this guy". Just remember a snake may shed his skin but underneath he is still a snake.
Yet you screwed him and allowed him to procreate....you're pretty smart
TheChosenOne

Lebanon, PA

#11 Oct 25, 2010
@wow Agreed...i bet she was not calling him a dead beat when she was getting boned in the shower, on the living room couch, and the back seat of his car...
Lebanon

Washington Boro, PA

#12 Oct 25, 2010
My daughter's father owes her over $17,000 she is only 9 years old and he only comes to see her once a year. When I ask him about the child support money he says. I can't give it to you because I have to pay for my stepchildrens sports, or dr bills.
nosympathy

United States

#13 Oct 25, 2010
domestic relations is a joke!the state should find these low lifes and put them in jail for as long as they were not paying sopport cuz you know damn well they cant pay it!!! they made me pay for a child. and if i didnt pay my ass would be in the slammer!! so to all you dead beat,lowlife scum that cant hold up to your part,your not worth the air you breath nor the room you take up!!!! pay for your kids you lazy pieces of sh!t!!!!
wow

Palmyra, PA

#14 Oct 26, 2010
Lebanon wrote:
My daughter's father owes her over $17,000 she is only 9 years old and he only comes to see her once a year. When I ask him about the child support money he says. I can't give it to you because I have to pay for my stepchildrens sports, or dr bills.
Did you mean to say your ex husband owes child support for your daughter ? Probably not. This will sound old fashioned but maybe , just maybe if women make better choices these things wouldn't happen as often. Date a man, get to know him, get a ring on your finger, get married then start a family. Stop hopping in bed with every one. These men have no respect for you or for the kids they spawn and children deserver better then this. If your not married and you get pregnant, it's pretty much your fault. You should be controlling the birth control.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

Emmaus, PA

#15 Oct 26, 2010
wow wrote:
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Did you mean to say your ex husband owes child support for your daughter ? Probably not. This will sound old fashioned but maybe , just maybe if women make better choices these things wouldn't happen as often. Date a man, get to know him, get a ring on your finger, get married then start a family. Stop hopping in bed with every one. These men have no respect for you or for the kids they spawn and children deserver better then this. If your not married and you get pregnant, it's pretty much your fault. You should be controlling the birth control.
How typical! It's always the womans fault cause the male sperm just happens to jump in her vagina all by themselves. Why doesn't HE wear a condom?? Responsibility works both ways!!
wow

Palmyra, PA

#16 Oct 26, 2010
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY wrote:
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How typical! It's always the womans fault cause the male sperm just happens to jump in her vagina all by themselves. Why doesn't HE wear a condom?? Responsibility works both ways!!
It's still YOUR body....make him wear a condom....You're the one who ends up pregnant. It's your fault, unless of course you were raped, then that is a whole different story. More importantly, be a little more picky as to whom your sleeping with which is why I said, get to know him, you know, date? get a ring, get married have a family. You're so darned surprised that the father of your kids are scumbags but had you got to know him before you screwed him you would have known he was a scumbag. Keep your legs crossed.
Night Deposit Box

Lancaster, PA

#17 Oct 26, 2010
Just say MOE... uhhh, eerrrr... NO.

Don't be a sperm bank.

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