should moms have to pay child support if they dont have their children????

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HISBABYGIRL

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let me know what you think please....

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UM Yes! nuff said.

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sorry just being silly. On a serious note, Yes i believe 100% that the mom should have to pay child support if the father is the one who is caring for the child. It took both to create the child, so both should be responsible!
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Absolutely - equality for all. ;-)
Really though, I agree with what sum1else typed - it is the responsibile thing to do.
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Yes if the father is the full time care taker of the child, then yes.
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father had temp custody for 2 yrs now has full custody. mom has 3 children and has custody of none of them. she parties all the time and only wants to see them when she wants then gets ignorant if were doing something with them. as of right now she doesnt have any visitation with the 2 oldest and sees her other one on wend or thurs for an hour..

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I don't care if the mom, dad, grandparent or aunt or just a family friend, parents should still be financially responsible if they don't have custody of their kids. After all the child didn't have a choice about coming into this world!

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HISBABYGIRL wrote:
father had temp custody for 2 yrs now has full custody. mom has 3 children and has custody of none of them. she parties all the time and only wants to see them when she wants then gets ignorant if were doing something with them. as of right now she doesnt have any visitation with the 2 oldest and sees her other one on wend or thurs for an hour..
damn after reading that i bet i know who it is, BUT i will keep names to myself. Good luck on that one. If it's a case like that i bet the mom doesn't even work does she? You will take her to court and she will give the judge some kind of sob story saying she can't find a job and he will give her an extension so she doesn't have to pay. Just know that once the children grow up, they will see the true colors of their mom. They will look back and know what she is doing is wrong and know who really does love them and who supported them. Just make sure you take the higher path and don't say anything negative in front of them, even though the words you are probably thinking are the truth!
HISBABYGIRL

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ya if your from granite then you know who it is. and i hope the kids do realize whos been here for them and eventually know how ignorant and childish she really is. and mom says shes working. its not even about the money because we know we wont get anything from her im tired of her dogging me and my husband and we have his 2 and my 2. and if you ever came to my house you would see the kids are all clean and so is my house. she dont even have her own place ive been in mine for 13 years...
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HISBABYGIRL wrote:
let me know what you think please....
I think it depends on circumstances. My 14 year old asked if she could go live with her dad. He's not a bad guy, but he has never paid child support. Not once. If she needed something and I asked he would get it for her, but never made a regular monthly payment. He lives 2 hours away. If my daughter really does go to highschool there, I WILL NOT be paying child support.
HISBABYGIRL

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Mar 3, 2011
 
well the judge gave him full custody because of her ways....
it happens

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My dad made my mom pay child support for me, so I know it happens, I mean why shouldn't they, you'd expect an absent father to pay wouldn't you ? So why now when the rolls are reversed ?
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he probably wont get anything out of her anyway. but at least she will be put in the same situation she put him in when she had them...
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yes.
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I have my kid , hav at least 9 friends that hav e there kids ! And out of all 9 none of them get help from the moms !! Sux but that is the way it is .

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yes they should have too, shouldnt even be a question!
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I absolutely believe that moms should pay child support if the children do not reside with them. The fathers would be expected to, so why not? We have custody if my step-son and have for years, and his mother contributes absolutely nothing to the financial responsibility of her child, so I understand your frustration. We are also from GC. You know, this seems to be an ever increasing problem. I bet uf we were to group up & draw attention to our cases we could get a lawyer wanting to take on such a group case for a discounted rate. Thats our issue. The mom does work, but the money we would spend sueing her, we would bever get that back in support. Its a shame too, the kid is really beginning to learn how irresponsible his mother is.
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Mar 5, 2011
 
Ya , funny .
HISBABYGIRL

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Ya , funny .
WGATS FUNNY????
HISBABYGIRL

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that was supposd to be whats funny??

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