Why Do Men and Women Like To Be Called Mommy or Daddy during sex?

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#1 Nov 12, 2008
I just can't understand it. In the throws of passion some woman yell out "DADDY" (or POPPY) and guys yell out "MOMMY".

In the world of me, the thought of calling some guy "daddy" while having sex makes me cringe. I have a dad and he's not the image I want in my head while I'm having my way with a man.

The rest of you - your feelings on this or can you explain it to me why this is a good thing to say?
Do em and screw em

Grand Rapids, MI

#2 Nov 12, 2008
Because my mommy is hotter than your mommy.

“Pleasantly Deranged”

Since: Apr 08

West Michigan

#3 Nov 12, 2008
Just curious....how do you know some people like this?

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#4 Nov 12, 2008
Wide_Stance wrote:
Just curious....how do you know some people like this?
Ummmm...I was a bit wild a few years ago LOL plus I see it on TV and hear people just talking like this in regular conversation. I also had a boyfriend ask me to call him "Daddy". Yeah...he's my ex now. It's just creepy.

“Dude, Where's my car?”

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#5 Nov 12, 2008
Brattus Rattus wrote:
I just can't understand it. In the throws of passion some woman yell out "DADDY" (or POPPY) and guys yell out "MOMMY".
In the world of me, the thought of calling some guy "daddy" while having sex makes me cringe. I have a dad and he's not the image I want in my head while I'm having my way with a man.
The rest of you - your feelings on this or can you explain it to me why this is a good thing to say?
All I can say is that you must be sleeping with some major league weirdos! LOL.

“I'll think about it!”

Since: Nov 08

Lakeview

#6 Nov 12, 2008
For some, it's a way for them to express their fantasy of sexual innocence...a way of either submission or playing the "little brat" seeking attention (even if only for that moment).

Mostly, it's used within a BDSM relationship & is called age play. It can be a for of roleplay. These people aren't thinking of their parent at that time & are actually repulsed by any sort of pedophilia or incest.

But this sort of thing can be akin to other roleplay fantasies that involve a dominant role vs. a submissive role.

I know people who live the parent/child relationship roleplay on a dialy basis yet are consenting ADULTS.

I'm sure this isn't quite the level you were referring to, but it's all a shade of the same color, so to speak.

I, personally, couldn't imagine taking part in such a fantasy or even just the use of such titles during the throws of passion, but I do understand the thought process.

I hope that helps!

“91 Whiskey”

Since: Nov 08

Grand Rapids

#7 Nov 12, 2008
If someonr called me daddy during sex it would be very counterproductive for me.

“Pleasantly Deranged”

Since: Apr 08

West Michigan

#8 Nov 12, 2008
Brattus Rattus wrote:
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Ummmm...I was a bit wild a few years ago LOL plus I see it on TV and hear people just talking like this in regular conversation. I also had a boyfriend ask me to call him "Daddy". Yeah...he's my ex now. It's just creepy.
Yeah, I don't really have an answer for you but I'm also interested to hear what others think. I once had a girlfriend that wanted me to (lightly) choke her. I thought that was really bizarre. I also had one that insisted I pull her hair. The weird, bizarre world of sexual fetishes...what say ye topix people?

“Pleasantly Deranged”

Since: Apr 08

West Michigan

#9 Nov 12, 2008
Hurley35 wrote:
<quoted text>All I can say is that you must be sleeping with some major league weirdos! LOL.
I'm sure this was a long, long time ago, in a land far, far away!

“I'll think about it!”

Since: Nov 08

Lakeview

#10 Nov 12, 2008
Wide_Stance wrote:
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Yeah, I don't really have an answer for you but I'm also interested to hear what others think. I once had a girlfriend that wanted me to (lightly) choke her. I thought that was really bizarre. I also had one that insisted I pull her hair. The weird, bizarre world of sexual fetishes...what say ye topix people?
Oh, I'm sure there are a few of us on here that could share a lot more knowledge than we'd care for anyone local to know about us! ;-)

“Dude, Where's my car?”

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#11 Nov 12, 2008
Wide_Stance wrote:
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Yeah, I don't really have an answer for you but I'm also interested to hear what others think. I once had a girlfriend that wanted me to (lightly) choke her. I thought that was really bizarre. I also had one that insisted I pull her hair. The weird, bizarre world of sexual fetishes...what say ye topix people?
Wow, have I led a sheltered sex life! LMAO...

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#12 Nov 12, 2008
Hurley35 wrote:
<quoted text>All I can say is that you must be sleeping with some major league weirdos! LOL.
In the past...oh yeah. I was one of the weirdo's. LOL I just never understood that part of it. I have do too much crazy stuff to even remember but that name calling stuff really grosses me out.

“Why so serious?”

Since: Aug 08

Port Huron, MI

#13 Nov 12, 2008
I'm not too keen on being called "daddy", or calling my woman "mommy" during the throws of passion. But I guess it would be better than calling out the wrong name.

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#14 Nov 12, 2008
Unbelievable News wrote:
For some, it's a way for them to express their fantasy of sexual innocence...a way of either submission or playing the "little brat" seeking attention (even if only for that moment).
Mostly, it's used within a BDSM relationship & is called age play. It can be a for of roleplay. These people aren't thinking of their parent at that time & are actually repulsed by any sort of pedophilia or incest.
But this sort of thing can be akin to other roleplay fantasies that involve a dominant role vs. a submissive role.
I know people who live the parent/child relationship roleplay on a dialy basis yet are consenting ADULTS.
I'm sure this isn't quite the level you were referring to, but it's all a shade of the same color, so to speak.
I, personally, couldn't imagine taking part in such a fantasy or even just the use of such titles during the throws of passion, but I do understand the thought process.
I hope that helps!
Very interesting. Thank you for your insight. I had thought about it that way. Makes more sense to me now. I have heard of lots of role playing games but not "age play".

But still...*shudder*

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#15 Nov 12, 2008
Wide_Stance wrote:
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Yeah, I don't really have an answer for you but I'm also interested to hear what others think. I once had a girlfriend that wanted me to (lightly) choke her. I thought that was really bizarre. I also had one that insisted I pull her hair. The weird, bizarre world of sexual fetishes...what say ye topix people?
OMG! I had a guy that wanted to (and tried to) choke me, too! Freaky!

Since: Jul 08

Saint Charles, IL

#16 Nov 12, 2008
Brattus Rattus wrote:
I just can't understand it. In the throws of passion some woman yell out "DADDY" (or POPPY) and guys yell out "MOMMY".
In the world of me, the thought of calling some guy "daddy" while having sex makes me cringe. I have a dad and he's not the image I want in my head while I'm having my way with a man.
The rest of you - your feelings on this or can you explain it to me why this is a good thing to say?
If some guy hollered "mommy" while we were doing the wild thing....I think I would vomit

Since: Jul 08

Saint Charles, IL

#17 Nov 12, 2008
Morris E Smith wrote:
But I guess it would be better than calling out the wrong name.
No thanks, I'd rather be called the wrong name

“Dude, Where's my car?”

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#18 Nov 12, 2008
Morris E Smith wrote:
I'm not too keen on being called "daddy", or calling my woman "mommy" during the throws of passion. But I guess it would be better than calling out the wrong name.
LMAO, the reminds me of the old lawyer joke...

Lawyer - "And what did your Husband say to you when he woke up that morning?".

Wife - "He said 'Where am I Linda?'".

Lawyer - "And why did that upset you?"

Wife - "Because my name is Susan".
OMG

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#19 Nov 12, 2008
If my husband called me mommy during sex and I had a mental picture of his mother....I think I am going to be sick!!!

“I'll think about it!”

Since: Nov 08

Lakeview

#20 Nov 12, 2008
Brattus Rattus wrote:
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Very interesting. Thank you for your insight. I had thought about it that way. Makes more sense to me now. I have heard of lots of role playing games but not "age play".
But still...*shudder*
On this particular "thing", I agree...for myself.
You're welcome & anytime you have such a question! LOL.

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