When dating a Colombian man, what are...

When dating a Colombian man, what are some informative things to know?

Posted in the Grand Island Forum

First Prev
of 2
Next Last
Country Boy

Batavia, NY

#2 Sep 5, 2013
Trust your instincts.....run
Buck Rohde

Buffalo, NY

#3 Sep 5, 2013
amyanswer wrote:
I am 35 and dating a man, 42, who is Colombian (from there, but has lived in U.S. for 14 years. We have been dating only a few weeks, but he tells me often (almost right from the start) how much he thinks of me, misses me, and wants to see me more. When he texts me, if I don't respond right away, he will ask if I am home, or alive, or what I am doing. And on our second date, he was asking if I see myself as a good wife, will wait for him while he is gone for a week next month, etc. I do not want to stereotype, but are Colombian men, or Latin men, known for being controlling or posessive? He is also very romantic and affectionate, which I do like, but somewhat feel like he is coming on so strong so soon, and a little leery on it. Suggestions and advice greatly appreciated.
I would do everything in my power to break off with him. Those Latin types are totally possessive and controling.They will want to dominate you totally to boost their own ego.You are their status symbol.If you dump him, you may have to get an order of protection from him.There are very few exceptions to this and I say birds of a feather should stick together.

The safiest way to break it off is to let him find you undesireable and get him to dump you.Poor hygene is the best way.

Judged:

34

13

4

Reply »
Report Abuse Judge it!
Javier Sanchez Gutierrez

Buffalo, NY

#4 Sep 5, 2013
Call Immigration.
gee ya think

Buffalo, NY

#5 Sep 5, 2013
repeat after me.. La MIGRA!!!!! that may send him running.
GUMPNF

Niagara Falls, NY

#6 Sep 5, 2013
Call him PUTO
tbird19482

Farmington, CT

#7 Sep 5, 2013
He'll be asking you to smuggle coke in your enormous vagina before you know it

Have a nice day.

Judged:

26

12

1

Reply »
Report Abuse Judge it!
GUMPNF

North Tonawanda, NY

#9 Sep 5, 2013
GUMPNF wrote:
Call him CARBUNCLE
Outstanding post
GUMPNF

Niagara Falls, NY

#12 Sep 6, 2013
Lacrosse Coachhh wrote:
Does he hit you in the balloon knot?
outstanding post
Ninaa

Toronto, Canada

#14 Nov 27, 2013
I dated a Colombian guy for 3 months. It was a very perfect in the beginning. I heard about Colombian men here n there how they usually cheat and stuff. but also heard they also can be very kind and supportive and other goood things. SO, we were all over each other all the time, and he first said he likes me,,and thinking about me all the time..We respected each other space. and he was very romantic sending me love poems and love songs,, calling me Nina and he said that he likes which falls to te quiere category.. which is more than a casual like and still not love..
But, 3 weeks ago he said he is sleeping w his ex-, Things started to change.. I accepted that it was my mistake that I frightened him when I said to him I am confused over some stuff about my Ex-.. Well and yess he went and slept with his ex.
And I developed emotions for him over this 3 months,, then he comes saying to me( After all love poems and other things) that he has no feelings any more...
and yes we broke up.
FYI he gave me some pod too,,, made up a story and brought some for me... I have never smoked,,
GUMPNF

North Tonawanda, NY

#15 Nov 27, 2013
GUMPNF wrote:
Call him PUTO
All the Columbian men I have dated loved to have their ball sacks rubbed with an elixir of cocaine and carbuncle ooze.

Most felt very much at home at my casa in Love Canal.
My motive was, of coarse, their love canals.
chofer

Brighton, UK

#18 Dec 7, 2013
Hi there, it is quite funny to read how you talk bad about colombian men, It seems discrimination, but I would like to give you in easy understanding a way to interpret our behave as you define ego.

All Colombian men normally start a relationship caring and being sweet, otherwise, they would not ask you to have a relationship. Unfortunately, women do not take their time to listen to men, By this I mean, we say everything what we feel, but we are also expecting same behave from women, if a foreign person tries to be cold, it will not work, provide a safe relationship it is therefore a best way to make colombian men care about you.

We are sweet, polite and tender but if we notice women are more sweet we starting to realise how wrong is our behave in order to ask forgiveness.

I hope you can learn about it. Be yourself and show to Colombian men why you are so special withouth hurting our feelings as we react in bad way if we notice women have lied to us.
Brenda Rivera

Houston, TX

#19 Dec 21, 2013
Hi my Name is Brenda Rivera
QueChimba

Medellín, Colombia

#21 Dec 21, 2013
What a bunch of idiotic moronic comments here..trolls...
Sommer

Springdale, AR

#24 Dec 26, 2013
I've been dating a Colombian man for 3 months now. He is great! He's 26 and I'm 29. I think it depends on the person and what they have been through on how they are.
Charnise

Bronx, NY

#26 Mar 19, 2014
I've been dating a Colombian man for about a month now...he's a sweet gentle giant, he knows I'm falling in love with him and I think it's scaring him, I so want to understand him but he seems so complex...what to do?
Buck Rohde

Buffalo, NY

#27 Mar 19, 2014
Charnise wrote:
I've been dating a Colombian man for about a month now...he's a sweet gentle giant, he knows I'm falling in love with him and I think it's scaring him, I so want to understand him but he seems so complex...what to do?
Are you a Black woman/man, because your name seems like it. Is he dark with big dark eyes like most vvetbacks?
Immature Neocon

Hamburg, NY

#28 Mar 19, 2014
Charnise wrote:
I've been dating a Colombian man for about a month now...he's a sweet gentle giant, he knows I'm falling in love with him and I think it's scaring him, I so want to understand him but he seems so complex...what to do?
HOW MUCH DO YOU WEIGH?
June

Mexico, Mexico

#29 Apr 16, 2014
Country Boy wrote:
Trust your instincts.....run
Lol. I agree :-D
Canadiangirl

Calgary, Canada

#30 May 14, 2014
I have been with a Colombian guy for 3 years, and I myself am mixed European with Ecuadorean but I am very white washed as being born in canada. I love my Colombian boyfriend very much and they are very different than any other race of men. They are much more romantic and when they fall in love with you they want you to be only theirs. You may think of it as being possessive but I've never considered it that bad. We have had our ups and downs (just like any other relationship) and I know people talk about Latin guys being cheaters, well I know he has never cheated on me and I make It that way by being a good girlfriend to him and giving him everything he needs. We are still going strong and I love him more each day I will never go back from Colombians because they are so full of life and so exotic.
BAB

Jacksonville, FL

#34 May 24, 2014
chofer wrote:
Hi there, it is quite funny to read how you talk bad about colombian men, It seems discrimination, but I would like to give you in easy understanding a way to interpret our behave as you define ego.
All Colombian men normally start a relationship caring and being sweet, otherwise, they would not ask you to have a relationship. Unfortunately, women do not take their time to listen to men, By this I mean, we say everything what we feel, but we are also expecting same behave from women, if a foreign person tries to be cold, it will not work, provide a safe relationship it is therefore a best way to make colombian men care about you.
We are sweet, polite and tender but if we notice women are more sweet we starting to realise how wrong is our behave in order to ask forgiveness.
I hope you can learn about it. Be yourself and show to Colombian men why you are so special withouth hurting our feelings as we react in bad way if we notice women have lied to us.
Thanks for your input! Better understanding.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker
First Prev
of 2
Next Last

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Grand Island Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
Gay Skype Fun (Aug '15) 3 hr Kevin 37
News The 25 Most Dangerous Cities in the U.S. Are Mo... (Nov '10) 3 hr WPWW 20,966
Buffalo NY - Attn Adoptees and Birth Parents an... (Nov '13) 4 hr jbohacek 17
Ghetto assed names in the news (Nov '16) 5 hr Ken 15
Tracy Demler 6 hr Guess who 8
Philip Litten 11 hr test 3
Mary Alice Demler 12 hr Racey Tracey 4

Grand Island Jobs

More from around the web

Personal Finance

Grand Island Mortgages