Why can't your own opinon count too who you marry?

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Since: Aug 11

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#1 Sep 24, 2011
My family and friend get mad every time I say i gonna marry or date a black guy. I always wanna date outside of my race and I really do love Asians and white guys the most but I'm always getting mad at because of it!!! It shouldn't matter about who you marry or what race or what he does(as long as it's not illegal)....it matter's as long as you love that person right! Then what's the big deal? Shoot I would even marry a Japanese Gangster to prove the point and love him as long as he if faithful and doesn't hurt me in the long run.

Since: Sep 11

Dayton, OH

#2 Sep 24, 2011
marring or being with someone of a different race is a choice that you have to make yourself.the only thing that comes to mind in my opinion is that your family and friend are most definitely predudus.they are scared of what others think. i would however avoid the gangster,you also need to take in consideration that there are more than just your family and friend that are also racist and you will be called names and may encounter some hateful people but if you and your man are willing to encounter the relationship knowing this and are strong enough to get through it together then let them love you from a distance.both you and your man get jobs,extend your educations an you can have a wonderful life together.dont do any thing hasty think it through and good luck

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#3 Sep 24, 2011
barbycat wrote:
marring or being with someone of a different race is a choice that you have to make yourself.the only thing that comes to mind in my opinion is that your family and friend are most definitely predudus.they are scared of what others think. i would however avoid the gangster,you also need to take in consideration that there are more than just your family and friend that are also racist and you will be called names and may encounter some hateful people but if you and your man are willing to encounter the relationship knowing this and are strong enough to get through it together then let them love you from a distance.both you and your man get jobs,extend your educations an you can have a wonderful life together.dont do any thing hasty think it through and good luck
Thx your a big help!!! If you saw a Yakuza( the gangster) you would def. change your mind!! I understand about how some people are so dang evil about those things but I don't even care to tell the truth!I am strong I'm just hoping that I can find that one I can be strong with to stand through it all, to love through it all, also to think through it all!! I want that love to cherish but with someone I can love not other people!

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