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#21 Aug 24, 2008
dummy wrote:
i caught my wife cheating. how should i pay her back? should i do the same thing to her?
Sleep with her sis or bf video tape it and mail it to her
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#22 Aug 25, 2008
You Are Just Confused wrote:
Well, I do not think that it is wise to pay her back. You need to think about how much you love her and if she is willing to quit her stupidness to be with you and you only.
If you think that you can not live without her and you can forgive her... you need to leave it alone. And ask her why? What was she not happy about at home? Even though this is not an excuse, helpyour marriage... do not hurt it.
You are her husband and I do not know how close you guys are... but, for better or worse, death do you part.... you have to be strong for her. If she is at her weakest moment, she needs you.
You can't just "pay her back" and think that you will be happy with yourself. Do not stoop to that level and make her think that her doing what she done was not hurting you. If you cheat back... she is going to think that you didn't care to begin with and her doing that did not hurt anything.
The saying once a cheater, always a cheater... is so not true. Just have hope that she can stop and be strong. It's hard... I know, but be there for your wife even more than you ever have been.
This may bring you closer...
I still hurt and I still think about it... but, my marriage is happy and there is a lifetime to prove that it will never happen again.
:)
thx 4 the consideration, its just that it hurt me so very bad and i can never get past the fact that she was with someone else. seems that everyday something brings it into my mind. we r back together, but believe me is is the hardest thing i have ever tried to do { forgetting that is } but i`m gibin it my best shot and thank u 4 the advice. i never seriously wanted to pay her back but if the situation arises and i did sleep with someone else i don`t think i could feel guilty about it.
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#23 Aug 25, 2008
praying wrote:
<quoted text>do you have kids?
yes, 2 still in school, stayed with me thru this whole nightmare
Your Daddy

Glasgow, KY

#24 Aug 25, 2008
Try to set up a threeway and at least have some fun
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#25 Aug 25, 2008
well wrote:
You can't really pay someone back for cheating on you. It would just show bad on yourseld. Either forgive her or ger a divorce. Sorry to sound bland but its pretty much they way you have to be. It's really had to forgive and forget, and so you might not be able to deal with it the correct way. So divorce might be you only option. But before you do anything you should sit and think about what you might be giving up.
Good luck
thanks 4 the concern and advice. i never thought i would get any good advice on here but 3 or 4 of u people have given me soom things to really think about. but make no mistake i do love my wife and this has hurt and does hurt very bad.

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