Why don't women want good men

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Oct 18, 2008
 
I know this is an old saying, "Good guys finish last", but it is true. I have cared for this woman for a long time and I have tried to take care of her and her children. But, she just wants to be my friend, but she will date a jerk that doesn't give a damn about her. I would like to hear from the woman out there. You say you want to a good man, but when you find one you don't respect him and you just want to use him until something else comes along. WHY!
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Not all women are like that. That's just like saying all men are after one thing. It's just not true. It sounds as though you really have spent a lot of time, energy, and heart on this woman. It's obvious you must care a great deal about her. It's really sad that she isn't "feelin it" too. But it seems as though she isn't. As hard as it may be, your best bet would be to find a way to walk away and hopefully find someone who can appreciate you. As long as you're there for her to use until "something better comes along" she'll use you...
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Oct 18, 2008
 
Legacy wrote:
Not all women are like that. That's just like saying all men are after one thing. It's just not true. It sounds as though you really have spent a lot of time, energy, and heart on this woman. It's obvious you must care a great deal about her. It's really sad that she isn't "feelin it" too. But it seems as though she isn't. As hard as it may be, your best bet would be to find a way to walk away and hopefully find someone who can appreciate you. As long as you're there for her to use until "something better comes along" she'll use you...
I have a daughter that has a boyfriend like that.As long as she is there for him to use he will stay around until something better come along..
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Low self-esteem. Plus they think they can "change" the man..boy. Women love games.
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Good Guy you gotta start getting out more often. Maybe all your time is focused on her and theirs a woman out there who would love to find a guy with the kind if attention your giving her. As long as you keep doing the same routine, nothing will change. Your looking for something that may never be and once you start looking behind the closed door you put up you may find your dream. Life is what you make it, so make your what you want it to be.
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Good guy wrote:
I know this is an old saying, "Good guys finish last", but it is true. I have cared for this woman for a long time and I have tried to take care of her and her children. But, she just wants to be my friend, but she will date a jerk that doesn't give a damn about her. I would like to hear from the woman out there. You say you want to a good man, but when you find one you don't respect him and you just want to use him until something else comes along. WHY!
Sounds like you're caring for a moron. Find a woman who is intelligent and understands the value of a good man.

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Oct 18, 2008
 
hows everyone in the barren

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Oct 18, 2008
 
hey i am a single dad and had my son cents he was 1 and works his ass off i am a damn good guy and everyone women i meet all they want is a dick that treats them like shit not someone that wants to treat them rite and show them the best in life
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Good guy wrote:
I know this is an old saying, "Good guys finish last", but it is true. I have cared for this woman for a long time and I have tried to take care of her and her children. But, she just wants to be my friend, but she will date a jerk that doesn't give a damn about her. I would like to hear from the woman out there. You say you want to a good man, but when you find one you don't respect him and you just want to use him until something else comes along. WHY!
You know, as hard as it may be....stop being her friend. It's her loss. I don't know if you give her money or help her with babysitting or what, but besides just normal conversation, I suggest to stop. This makes me mad she doesn't appreciate you, and I don't even know you. There is a good girl out there for you. God Bless you and good luck.
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Oct 18, 2008
 
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hey i am a single dad and had my son cents he was 1 and works his ass off i am a damn good guy and everyone women i meet all they want is a dick that treats them like shit not someone that wants to treat them rite and show them the best in life
Where do you find these women?? Really... there are women out there who will appreciate the extra effort, the nice guy... don't give up on your game, give up on that girl.

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lol yeah as soon as a women hears the words i am a single dad with a kid and work all the time they are gone like the wind good guy or not
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Oct 18, 2008
 
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lol yeah as soon as a women hears the words i am a single dad with a kid and work all the time they are gone like the wind good guy or not
u are right.
Legacy

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Oct 18, 2008
 
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lol yeah as soon as a women hears the words i am a single dad with a kid and work all the time they are gone like the wind good guy or not
THen that's their problem and not the kind of girl you need anyway. Do you want a girl who is going to be jealous of the time you need with your kid? Because if they run when they find out you're a single dad, it's likely because they realize they won't be number one. They're selfish... haven't grown up... is that what you want? How old are you? I'm guessing 26 by your name... is that right?
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Oct 18, 2008
 
I mean 25... keyboarding in the dark...

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Oct 18, 2008
 
yeah i am 25 and every woman i have met cents my divorce has been nothing but selfish stuck up money hungery pains and they don't give a shit about anyone or anything else but them selfs
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Maybe they want a man who can form sentences and spell correctly...
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Oct 18, 2008
 
Then you really don't need them do you?
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Oct 18, 2008
 
good guys just want what they cant have!
thats wat im saying

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Oct 18, 2008
 
There is this girl i really have alot of feelings for and she won't give me the time of day. She just wants to stay real good friends but she won't give me a chance to date her. She has dated all of these boys that most of them hasn't treated her right and her boyfriend now all he does is b**ch at her for this and that. He cusses at her and does her like s**t all the time. When he does and we are hangin out he tries to make sure she is on the phone the whole time and won't leave her alone. Her boyfriend is a real punk that doesn't know how to treat women. I have done everthing for her like giving her rides here and there, bought her food and took her all kinds of places and she doesn't even give me time a day. I have never disrespected her in anyway been good to her and had her back on everything. I have even come very close to fighting over her and she doesn't give me a chance she just wants to be best friend's which i understand kind of. idk wat i have to do to get my deserving chance i need. she says she doesn't wanna date me cause she don't wanna mess are friendship up and i understand kind of but idk wat to do when i am in love with this girl badly and nothin i do helps me. i have been there for her everytime something goes wrong juss like i allways will be. she tells me that i probably will have a chance if something happens to her and her boyfriend but idk if i should juss wait and see or move on. I have waited a long time on trying and i'm afraid i have juss wasted my time with not gettin with somebody. i know i didn't wate my time because i would never take back the membories we have but i prolly should have found me someone else. My friends thinks she uses me sometimes cause she knows i will do usually most everything she asks maybe that's where i'm screwing up on doing watever she asks maybe i should try to have some backbone with her and not exactly everything she asks that wat firends thinks. She i'm too sweet for her to date so idk wat to do. Any Avice from anyone.
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Oct 18, 2008
 
thats wat im saying wrote:
There is this girl i really have alot of feelings for and she won't give me the time of day. She just wants to stay real good friends but she won't give me a chance to date her. She has dated all of these boys that most of them hasn't treated her right and her boyfriend now all he does is b**ch at her for this and that. He cusses at her and does her like s**t all the time. When he does and we are hangin out he tries to make sure she is on the phone the whole time and won't leave her alone. Her boyfriend is a real punk that doesn't know how to treat women. I have done everthing for her like giving her rides here and there, bought her food and took her all kinds of places and she doesn't even give me time a day. I have never disrespected her in anyway been good to her and had her back on everything. I have even come very close to fighting over her and she doesn't give me a chance she just wants to be best friend's which i understand kind of. idk wat i have to do to get my deserving chance i need. she says she doesn't wanna date me cause she don't wanna mess are friendship up and i understand kind of but idk wat to do when i am in love with this girl badly and nothin i do helps me. i have been there for her everytime something goes wrong juss like i allways will be. she tells me that i probably will have a chance if something happens to her and her boyfriend but idk if i should juss wait and see or move on. I have waited a long time on trying and i'm afraid i have juss wasted my time with not gettin with somebody. i know i didn't wate my time because i would never take back the membories we have but i prolly should have found me someone else. My friends thinks she uses me sometimes cause she knows i will do usually most everything she asks maybe that's where i'm screwing up on doing watever she asks maybe i should try to have some backbone with her and not exactly everything she asks that wat firends thinks. She i'm too sweet for her to date so idk wat to do. Any Avice from anyone.
I know, I have given money and she would cook for some asshole and he wouldn't take care of her. I would bring her groceries so she and her children would have food to eat. I love this woman, but I know I need to leave her alone. Just hard to realize the truth. You can't change people.

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