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queen

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#42
Apr 28, 2010
 
Melissa wrote:
I am both an ex-wife (but my exhusband has yet to have another relationship so no one's hated me or been jealous of me yet) and I am also a 2nd wife to my husband, and I can't stand his ex-wife...not because I'm jealous she was the 1st wife or anything like that, but because of all the stuff she did to him & the way she tries to manipulate him to get what she wants like she should still be a priority in his life. They share 1 son, but I shouldn't even call it that because we just found out the kid isn't even his ad the child is 11 years old! She also went to jail for drugs a few years back & had all her kids taken from her. She has a total of 3 kids & now we know that NONE of them know you their real dads are. She's a real piece of work! Thank goodness he got out of that.
Sounds like to me you stepped in to a lyons den. Why do you people get into such crap. Find a nice single guy with no kids or baggage and then you won't have to worry about it.
Gretchen H

Mount Vernon, OH

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#43
May 4, 2010
 

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I am dealing with my ex's new wife...she hates me with a passion. I really did not have any feelings toward her at all. I do not care who he is involved with as long as my kids are safe and well taken care of at his house. However, this woman spreads lies and rumors about me. She is constantly telling people that I am jealous of her because I am still in love with my ex. I no longer even address her or her drama. I do however wish that she would get over it, so that way I could have a working relationship with my ex...as we have 2 boys together. I don't see it happening unless I can get a gag order from the court. I don't know if she is just insecure or if she is just truly a hateful B&*^! Whatever the case...I really just don't want to fight. I am dating someone with and ex..who he has 2 kids by. I don't hate her..I won't talk about her. Its not place to be in between him and his kids mom. As far as I am concerned...that is his area of expertise..and he can deal with her. NOT ME. I just wish all new girlfriends/wives would deal with it the same way!
Aunt Bea

Glasgow, KY

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Jul 5, 2010
 

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When one dates or marries someone who is divorced and especially if there are children from that union, then expect problems. It is not all going to be a bed of roses. So one must deal with it or date/marry someone without children.

And when you do marry a man with children, know that he is going to be supporting those kids (if he is a decent man anyway) and your own income is going to be reduced because of that. That is the price you pay for marrying someone with children. Think about these things before you marry and if you don't like it, then don't marry that person.
In A Fog

Longmont, CO

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#45
Jul 19, 2010
 
I am the ex wife. My husband left me when my daughter just turned 2 and my son was 6 months. He met her on business. I never had anything to do with her. He filed for divorce and I am better off for it. He had multiple affairs. She stalked me on the Internet. She is much older than me to. She set up a bogus FB profile as a guy and we talked for a while until I figured it out. She wanted to be a legal custodian for my children and be a part of all medical decisions. She is a NUT! She hates me and has so much anger and I can't figure it out. I am glad she got the ex husband. How do you deal with someone like that ESPECIALLY with such small children. I don't trust her at all!
Happily Ever After

Glasgow, KY

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#46
Jul 19, 2010
 
The ex in my life is now someone else's problem...the new significant other is wonderful to me but from what I hear... it is one of the situations that you don't know someone until you live with them...so i believe they deserve each other and I can live happily ever after like in the fairy tales...R-E-L-I-E-F...getting rid of ex's can cure more than any purple pill, rolaids or tums...hope everyone can find the happy after the ex....
Deserving

Glasgow, KY

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#47
Jul 19, 2010
 
Ex deserves new wife...the grass is greener but it takes alot of CARE to keep it that way...lol
My ex deserves everything he lives with and I am alot better off...the grass is now greener on my side also...
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Glasgow, KY

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#48
Jul 19, 2010
 
Legacy wrote:
It is strange, the new wife seems to enter in with an automatic hate for the ex. I don't hate her, she hates me, bizarre huh? I like to think she's so mad because she's realizing day after day that I wasn't the total idiot she thought at first I must have been for leaving such a man. Instead, she's learning how I was so easily able to leave him with a smile on my face and a song in my heart. And that pisses her off because she walked into the same mistake I made it out of. Ha!
You go girl.....
Mytwobits

Oxnard, CA

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#50
Jul 28, 2010
 
I am an ex-wife and have been divorced for 4 years. While I have had several boyfriends and like being single, my ex moved in with his new wife before our divorce was final. He was always very afraid of being alone.

His new wife will one day call me names, make up lies about me, and harass me. The next day she will try to act like my friend. It's crazy.

Anyway, my opinion is that since she married my ex when she clearly knew he had unresolved personal issuess, she has to make me the bad person in her own mind so she can believe she made a good choice in the man she married. The more of a villian she can make me out to be, the less she has to be afraid of her own choice to marry my ex.
TERI

Bowling Green, KY

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#51
Aug 10, 2010
 
I have this issue. Except my ex hubby's new wife's age says it all. he is 30, she is 19 and she wont allow him to see our 3 children bc they just had a new baby! and she is nice to my face, but begind my back she talk ab me and my 3 children like a dog. i think i agree with the above... it is JEALOUSY!
cricket

Saint Paul, MN

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#52
Aug 18, 2010
 
Well, from my perspective as the second wife, I would definitely say that my husband's ex did not take kindly to being "deposed" (even though they were divorced for a year before I met him)-- so I saw a fair amount of insecurity on HER part. I think that maybe you need to look at yourself and see what you might be contributing to the situation -- or maybe you are a little insecure yourself...
Smarty

Cave City, KY

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Aug 19, 2010
 

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cricket wrote:
Well, from my perspective as the second wife, I would definitely say that my husband's ex did not take kindly to being "deposed" (even though they were divorced for a year before I met him)-- so I saw a fair amount of insecurity on HER part. I think that maybe you need to look at yourself and see what you might be contributing to the situation -- or maybe you are a little insecure yourself...
So you got yourself a used hubby? Sounds like you're proud of it. Personally I wouldn't have used goods. It's like having to wear hand me downs. They are wearable , maybe better than nothing but the past shows on them and that past never goes away...it's there forever. Maybe you just want the ex to be insecure.
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Alliance, OH

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Aug 20, 2010
 

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Smarty wrote:
<quoted text> So you got yourself a used hubby? Sounds like you're proud of it. Personally I wouldn't have used goods. It's like having to wear hand me downs. They are wearable , maybe better than nothing but the past shows on them and that past never goes away...it's there forever. Maybe you just want the ex to be insecure.
everybody has a past, including you, nothing wrong with used its like buying a car get a better deal on used when you drive it off the lot you dont lose 5,000 dollars.
Smarty

Cave City, KY

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#55
Aug 22, 2010
 
Thats because it's already depreciated.
x hater

Baldwin City, KS

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#56
Aug 22, 2010
 
I HATE my husbands x she is a total freaking nut job.Shes a drunk & hey isnt my problem shes a cheating lying whore who got caught.I so wished that bitch would leave the damn country or better yet just leave us ALONE.Not my problem she knows now what she walked away from.I say get on with youre new life with your new husband & leave us ALONE.
me too

Cave City, KY

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#57
Aug 23, 2010
 
i had the same problem as x hater, the first couple of years, she was constantly using their child to try and get him to come back home. she married someone else as soon as their divorce was final. the child would say things like mama says she still loves you and doesn't know why you won't come home. . . my husband would simply tell the child, your mommy has a new husband, and i have a new wife. she would lie about the child being sick, just so she had an excuse to call and talk to him. if i called to check on the child, she would be rude saying it was none of my business, and to tell him to call her. he finally told her that i was the step mom and his wife and i loved the child too. this made her mad, and we don't get to see the child much anymore.
Shelly

Camdenton, MO

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#58
Sep 5, 2010
 
I'm not sure who's idea it was but my ex's new wife is called Grandma by my grand children. Personally, it was mentioned to me by one of my grand children if it would be ok. I didn't answer and so it went forth. Neither one of them do much at all for the kids or grand children so I feel it was out of the ordinary since it wasn't earned. I wonder what will be next.
hard working mom

Glasgow, KY

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#59
Sep 6, 2010
 
well i recently found out my ex was engaged, so through my daughter i congradulated both them ,he said whatever,and she said thanks,well through a web site our daughter wanted to talk to her,while i was at work which i had no problem with, only to get the comment she wasnt going to talk to our kid afraid she would get in trouble from me for talking to her, after she told her that I knew of her talking to her and it was fine, she still told her she wasnt talking to her, then next day I wroteher a very nice, respectfull message telling her it was fine for her to talk to our child, that i wanted my ex to go on with his life and all i cared about was our kids ,and that we needed to get along because she was going to be a part of my kids life,and all i asked was she show them respect of a mother when they was in her care and they would never hear from me, only for my daughter to get the responce she wasnt going to answer my message and she still wasnt going to talk to her and deleted her from the site ,and blocked her so how is my child going to feel when and if she goes to her dads house and her there they are suppose to get married next fall ,my girl has only met her one time for a few mins but this is the type person im going to have to deal with, with my child!
Knowing

Glasgow, KY

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#60
Sep 6, 2010
 
hard working mom wrote:
well i recently found out my ex was engaged, so through my daughter i congradulated both them ,he said whatever,and she said thanks,well through a web site our daughter wanted to talk to her,while i was at work which i had no problem with, only to get the comment she wasnt going to talk to our kid afraid she would get in trouble from me for talking to her, after she told her that I knew of her talking to her and it was fine, she still told her she wasnt talking to her, then next day I wroteher a very nice, respectfull message telling her it was fine for her to talk to our child, that i wanted my ex to go on with his life and all i cared about was our kids ,and that we needed to get along because she was going to be a part of my kids life,and all i asked was she show them respect of a mother when they was in her care and they would never hear from me, only for my daughter to get the responce she wasnt going to answer my message and she still wasnt going to talk to her and deleted her from the site ,and blocked her so how is my child going to feel when and if she goes to her dads house and her there they are suppose to get married next fall ,my girl has only met her one time for a few mins but this is the type person im going to have to deal with, with my child!
Once they are married...Your child will see them more often...been there and seen this...it will all work out
Hawk

Glasgow, KY

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#61
Sep 6, 2010
 
No it won't.If a woman or man don't won't to be around your child before you are married ,you can bet your ass they won't wan't them after you are married.
its life

Etoile, KY

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#62
Sep 6, 2010
 
I have a son and a daughter by my Ex husband. we seperated before my daughter was born, but in the state of KY you cannot go forth with a divorce if you are pregnant, stupid law i hate it. But in the mean time i have met a man who is very good to me and my kids, and he has two children also (my ex husband used to hit me in front of my son and while i was pregnant with our daughter) I in no way hate his ex. She takes great care of his little girl. But i do have a problem when her and her fiance get into an argument she wants my boyfriend to call her and come over and talk, he repeatedly tells her no so she makes up with her fiance. IDK if she has ever said anything about me, his daughter has never said anything, and i'm not going to ask because i REFUSE to put an innocent child through all that bullcrap that my own parents put me through.

Now my ex husband on the other hand is extremely jelous of who i am with now. he calls 1000 times a day cussing me and my boyfriend. Now he has a girlfriend who is still in highschool that thinks it is okay to tell me that if she ever sees me, kids or not, she will kill me. Thats fine and all, I changed my number, got a protective order for me, my kids, my boyfriend, and my household. And now my ex is not allowed around my children at all. he doesnt pay child support so he knows taking me to court for visitation would be a HUGE mistake on his part.=]

So a word of advice to all the jelous exes and jelous new signifigant others: GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON! because the more problems you cause the more it will backfire on you!

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