Relationship Even In Older Age

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Dont Understand

Gilbert, WV

#1 Jun 18, 2008
Wonder why a good woman always gets done wrong by men and usually a good man gets a woman that always is no good. Just don't understand why? Has always been my experience always.
Reason

Mechanicsburg, PA

#2 Jun 19, 2008
I think that the reason that good women get done wrong by men are because they are to many pill whores around here now,and most men are like well if I can get it then I am gonna take it.Yeah it seems as if all the good men end up with whores and women that aren't any count.It seems as if they work there ass off every day and they are getting done like shit why they are at work.That makes me so sick to know that these are really good men and that they just set back and let these women do them like shit.Honestly half of them know about what there wife/husband is doing to.I know a few good men that are looking for a good woman,I think if women would stop going for looks only they would find them a good man and learn that looks aren't everything.Wanna know more just ask
Reason

Mechanicsburg, PA

#3 Jun 19, 2008
I think the reason why a good woman always get done wrong is because they all go for looks only.Good men usually do get a bad woman that is usually how it goes I know so many good men that work every day and get done like shit why there men are at work.I know a few good men that are looking for a good woman,don't always go for looks!
Agree

Thurmond, WV

#4 Jun 19, 2008
Looks is not everything when you are treated right.
DOUBLE D

United States

#5 Nov 24, 2008
I AGREE
DOUBLE D

United States

#6 Nov 24, 2008
AND so many use the excuse that they don't get enough at home ,well thats just an excuse that they make up to try to justify ntheir infidelities.
MARRIED THIRTYFIVE YRS

United States

#7 Nov 24, 2008
I think the reason is that too many people jump too fast into a relationship. They ignore red flags and wear rose colored glasses. Alot of times its because they lack confidence in themselves and settle for the first thing that comes along. One thing is definately for sure...BEAUTY IS OFTEN ONLY SKIN DEEP!!! I suggest taking your time and be a little more picky next time.
confused------ why

Lyburn, WV

#8 Nov 24, 2008
I really want to know this!
why do people say they have fell in love with you (man or woman) and they say they want to be with you for the rest of their life. they say they are crazy about you and cant live without you....
then after they get you.... after a short time...
they just start saying they wished you didnt do this or that... usually just small at first but they get bigger as time goes on....
the longer you are with them.... the more they
WANT TO CHANGE ABOUT YOU !!!!!!
my question....
HOW IN THE HELL DID THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH A PERSON THEY WANT TO CHANGE IN EVERY WAY...
PLEASE ANSWER
help me out here
honestly

United States

#9 Nov 24, 2008
confused------ why wrote:
I really want to know this!
why do people say they have fell in love with you (man or woman) and they say they want to be with you for the rest of their life. they say they are crazy about you and cant live without you....
then after they get you.... after a short time...
they just start saying they wished you didnt do this or that... usually just small at first but they get bigger as time goes on....
the longer you are with them.... the more they
WANT TO CHANGE ABOUT YOU !!!!!!
my question....
HOW IN THE HELL DID THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH A PERSON THEY WANT TO CHANGE IN EVERY WAY...
PLEASE ANSWER
help me out here
In the beginning it's lust. You don't really know the actual person you just know the outside person. The more you get to know the actual person the more you realize that maybe they aren't what you thought you wanted. See what I mean?

People say they fall in love way too much and way too soon. It takes time to actually fall in love with someone. You have to work at it too. You can't just fall in love with the whole package in a couple of months. You have to spend time with that person really getting to know the real person. If there are things you don't like, you have to sometimes look past those things. If there are too many of those things, it gets too hard to look past them and then the relationship fails.

That's my $.02 worth. Hope that helps.
Confused ------ Why

Lyburn, WV

#10 Nov 25, 2008
I agree with what you are saying..... but why do people imagine how someone is.... it is their lives they are putting forth. At least it was that way... lol.

I guess like the very old saying "look before you leap" really does make since. My grand told me this... lol.

Thanks honesty
want you

Gilbert, WV

#11 Nov 25, 2008
Reason wrote:
I think that the reason that good women get done wrong by men are because they are to many pill whores around here now,and most men are like well if I can get it then I am gonna take it.Yeah it seems as if all the good men end up with whores and women that aren't any count.It seems as if they work there ass off every day and they are getting done like shit why they are at work.That makes me so sick to know that these are really good men and that they just set back and let these women do them like shit.Honestly half of them know about what there wife/husband is doing to.I know a few good men that are looking for a good woman,I think if women would stop going for looks only they would find them a good man and learn that looks aren't everything.Wanna know more just ask
you say you know a few good men wanting a good woman, how about a few good women looking for a man? I am a divorced white male and seems like all I do is look, can't find, LOL
ya dont say

Gilbert, WV

#12 Feb 5, 2009
confused------ why wrote:
I really want to know this!
why do people say they have fell in love with you (man or woman) and they say they want to be with you for the rest of their life. they say they are crazy about you and cant live without you....
then after they get you.... after a short time...
they just start saying they wished you didnt do this or that... usually just small at first but they get bigger as time goes on....
the longer you are with them.... the more they
WANT TO CHANGE ABOUT YOU !!!!!!
my question....
HOW IN THE HELL DID THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH A PERSON THEY WANT TO CHANGE IN EVERY WAY...
PLEASE ANSWER
help me out here
sounds to me like they was lying to you all along just to get what they wanted.

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