Why do men treat good women bad?

Why do men treat good women bad?

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Clendenin, WV

#1 Aug 4, 2011
For the life of me I don't understand why it is that when a man has a good women they treat her like crap, but you give him a low life tramp and he'll treat her like gold. What is it? Is it the way they are wired? I know first hand that the better you are to man, the worse he thinks he can treat you. I know that they treated other women better, women who treated them like a dog. So if some one could just clue me in one this, i'd really appreciate it.
well

Charleston, WV

#2 Aug 4, 2011
i would love to find me a good women around the gilbert area i treat her real good and be good as i could be to her every one deserves one chance.
ten i man

Prestonsburg, KY

#3 Aug 4, 2011
A "man" will not treat a lady bad. Some of these overgrown boys that you women pick to fall for thats another story. A better question in my opinion would be, why a "LADY" would allow herself to be treated badly by some jerk and stick around for more. These overgrown boys are not going to respect you if you don't respect yourself
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Clendenin, WV

#4 Aug 4, 2011
ten i man wrote:
A "man" will not treat a lady bad. Some of these overgrown boys that you women pick to fall for thats another story. A better question in my opinion would be, why a "LADY" would allow herself to be treated badly by some jerk and stick around for more. These overgrown boys are not going to respect you if you don't respect yourself
I have to disagree with you on this. I plenty of respect for myself but around here you know how it is. A woman believes in standing by her man and then if she decides she can't anymore then he makes sure that she comes out looking like the bad one. so we are screwed if we do and screwed if don't. if you know what i mean. I do agree with you on the part that they are not really a "man" though.
watchfull eye

Gilbert, WV

#5 Aug 4, 2011
good luck on finding a good women in the gilbert area there husband dont no more go out front door when some man comeing in the back.
ten i man

Prestonsburg, KY

#6 Aug 4, 2011
NO NO NO, not buying that stand by your man bs. People can only treat you the way YOU allow them to. Would you allow a stranger to mitreat you? No of course not, so why would you allow someone that "loves" you to mistreat you?I hope you have no kids to see this, if you do they will grow up thinking thats normal behavior for men and women, and continue this same behavior.
humm

Gilbert, WV

#7 Aug 4, 2011
ten i man wrote:
NO NO NO, not buying that stand by your man bs. People can only treat you the way YOU allow them to. Would you allow a stranger to mitreat you? No of course not, so why would you allow someone that "loves" you to mistreat you?I hope you have no kids to see this, if you do they will grow up thinking thats normal behavior for men and women, and continue this same behavior.
With Strangers you don't have mortgages, land, car payments & children to feed with. Nor do you have to share your children either.It's not as easy to leave as just picking up or putting someone out. Also WV & KY men are well know for being abusive.You make it sound so cut and dry and it's not. It takes some women years to plan a way to leave an abusive spouse. You clearly don't know what your talking about.
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Clendenin, WV

#8 Aug 4, 2011
humm wrote:
<quoted text>With Strangers you don't have mortgages, land, car payments & children to feed with. Nor do you have to share your children either.It's not as easy to leave as just picking up or putting someone out. Also WV & KY men are well know for being abusive.You make it sound so cut and dry and it's not. It takes some women years to plan a way to leave an abusive spouse. You clearly don't know what your talking about.
Exactly! You hit the nail right on the head!
ten i man

Prestonsburg, KY

#9 Aug 5, 2011
Humm I respect your right to have an opinion, and to voice that opinion, but you are wrong.

In your statement You say ky/wv men are known for being abusive, while some are they are a minority.
I understand that it is difficult to leave a spouse with whom you share bills, and have invested your time and emotions with. But there is help available for those that seek it. And yes it is cut and dried, if someone is in an abusive relationship they need to GET OUT. while they may not know what they will face when they leave, they know for certain what they face if they stay as you have already stated ky/wv men are known for being abusive.
My understanding

United States

#10 Aug 5, 2011
Most women stay because they feel they have nowhere to go or no way to pay the bills. There are people out there to help you with things like this. Also, would you want your children raised in one unhappy home or two happy ones? I am sure not all men from WV/KY are abusive, but you don't need a man in your life to survive. My ex and I separated when my child was about 6 months old, and I am so glad he is gone. It was like the weight of the world had been lifted off of my shoulders. My daughter is 12 now, and we have struggled, but we have become stronger and survived!
ugly man

Charleston, WV

#11 Aug 5, 2011
You women wanted them "cute" bad boys, now reap what you sow!
humm

Gilbert, WV

#12 Aug 5, 2011
ten i man wrote:
Humm I respect your right to have an opinion, and to voice that opinion, but you are wrong.
In your statement You say ky/wv men are known for being abusive, while some are they are a minority.
I understand that it is difficult to leave a spouse with whom you share bills, and have invested your time and emotions with. But there is help available for those that seek it. And yes it is cut and dried, if someone is in an abusive relationship they need to GET OUT. while they may not know what they will face when they leave, they know for certain what they face if they stay as you have already stated ky/wv men are known for being abusive.
Their a minority compared to bigger States with higher populations. Abuse don't just start over night.Most start with verbal abuse until it reaches the physical level. Not really going into this subject. Yes they should leave & no their not going to change their going to get worse. There are programs out there. Best advice is if they show any signs of abuse before marriage DONT MARRY THEM. If its to late and you are already in that spot then start making a plan to get out NOW. State Police can give information and take women to shelters & the laws on this subject are getting tougher. It is not cut and dry but it can be done.
humm

Gilbert, WV

#13 Aug 5, 2011
ugly man wrote:
You women wanted them "cute" bad boys, now reap what you sow!
And bad boys sure can become dead boys also. Boom... some should watch just what they sow because they may reap their just reward.
Why

Charleston, WV

#14 Aug 5, 2011
You can tell that it's a guy that is responding with these comments about reaping what you sow and if you wanted to just walk away you could. A woman knows better. Around here no matter how good a woman has been in a marriage, as soon as it is over, he tells everyone that she cheated or she done this or that. And please child support and alimony in the state of west virginia is a joke. So like I said before, you are screwed if you do, and screwed if you dont!
watchfull eye

Gilbert, WV

#15 Aug 5, 2011
and you are screwed when that guy come in the back door and your husband gose out front door.

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#16 Aug 5, 2011
watchfull eye wrote:
and you are screwed when that guy come in the back door and your husband gose out front door.
I think this is BS.....usually the guy that runs his mouth and spreads all the rumors about his wife cheating and "a man coming in the back door, etc." is full of __it!!!!! If you take a good look, HE'S the one cheating and trying to turn the attention off himself and onto his wife by calling her a cheater. It never fails!!!!! Cheating husbands in Gilbert area, spreading rumors about their wives. Give it up, your actions are showing the truth to your community.
watchfull eye

Gilbert, WV

#17 Aug 5, 2011
i think it bs when man goes out front door to work for a women and she on bed with her legs prop open waiting on another man come in the back door.
duh

New York, NY

#18 Aug 5, 2011
Cuz beotches ain't nothin but hoes and tricks.
wv sweetheart

Belfry, KY

#19 Aug 5, 2011
Why wrote:
You can tell that it's a guy that is responding with these comments about reaping what you sow and if you wanted to just walk away you could. A woman knows better. Around here no matter how good a woman has been in a marriage, as soon as it is over, he tells everyone that she cheated or she done this or that. And please child support and alimony in the state of west virginia is a joke. So like I said before, you are screwed if you do, and screwed if you dont!
i agree with ya 100%

“I love my family!”

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#20 Aug 6, 2011
There are programs available to help you get out. These programs won't FORCE you to get out, but they do give you options till you understand you have a CHOICE.

SAFE in Welch is a great housing program that allows families to seperate from their abuser. 800.688.6157

There are other options as well. Check out this webpage. http://www.womenslaw.org This page has a lot of helpful information concerning your laws, statutes, and limitations as well as all court documents needed to file based off your state.

I can tell you that no matter what goes on, whether you choose to stay or leave, it never gets any better. Will be praying for all the women/men whom are in a domestic situation in the world. God bless.

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