i am sorry that your man ain't no good. Do u kno what people say about a wife who keeps taking a cheating dog back? WTF?????? You see your husband out and he has another female in his truck HEll nah.. his sh&t will be packed when he gets home and she can have him.9 times out of 10 it won't happen to these girls when they get married they will 1) just start cheating on the man not a good choice in my opinion or 2 leave him. This is not IRAQ you do not have to stay with a low life you will not be stoned to death for leaving him. Girls that have been out with married men know all the tricks and it would be real hard for them to be fooled. My man come home smelling too clean he's had a shower NOT GOOD. There is a million and one ways to tell if a man is cheating and I feel sorry for these women who have married the first guy that came along and rescued them from mommy and daddy. MY advice to these wives if they have not already done so they need to get an education, get a job, get a life, and leave his sorry butt!! No woman deserves to be treated less than what she feels she deserves. Some wives unfortunately don't know there own self-worth their husbands have convinced them that they can't do better or their fat or their lazy or their this or their that. That is the man trying to manipulate you and make sure that you have low-self esteem so that when they do get caught your convinced that if you were to leave him you will have to spend the rest of your life alone and GASP get a job OH NO!!! I mean really I hate to say it and be like that but most of the time it isn't the independent woman with her own car, job and bank account that's getting cheated on. That man knows if he f's up she don't need him and he can get his stuff and go bc of course being independent means everything is in my name. Have these women not signed pre-nups?? To new an idea for ya? A pre-nup is to protect your interest so when you find out you made a mistake and married a slime ball you can take everything he has because he broke the nuptials he signed the "contract" As long as women/wives want to blame these young girls, pill ho's, sluts, whores, whatever they name of the week is bottom line if your husband will cheat he will also lie and its sad that women actually believe men when they say "but she came on to me.." c'mon it don't take a genius. I know it hurts but you are so better off without him. I do not know who you are but I do know you deserve a lot better than what you got at home. If he wants to run around and chase the skirts let him do him and you do you...leave him. Or if you want to go the more traditional route try counseling. Communication is the key there is something lacking in the relationship for the man to stray. If he is going after young girls then he is feeling old..he needs those young girls to boost his self-esteem to remind him that he still has it. Maybe they look at him how you used too. And I am not saying for one minute that the wives cause any of this. Far from it...the man/husband is 100% responsible for his actions. But if you want to work it out then you have to figure out what is wrong with the relationship so you can fix it. Most of the time these men cheat for numerous reasons and sex isn't even in the top 5. His ego is number one, followed by wanting to be one of the guys,etc. I am sure there are some freaks out there that like certain things that no respectable person would do but most of the time them men by ho's.anyways leave him sweetheart he ain't worth the trouble and heartache he is causing you.