Jeff Reed & Kristi Byrnes Crouch McNabb (soon to be Reed)

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Congratulations are in order for these two individuals! They both cheated and lied to their previous spouses (this makes number 3 for Kristi), and now they are engaged to be married! Now for someone who wasn't having an affair BEFORE they were divorced (Jeff in June '09, Kristi in July '09), this sure is a quick engagement! Maybe it's because Jeff is living with Kristi and her son illegally. Good luck to you both! You plainly deserve each other.

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I am happy for Jeff and Kristi. This is great news, they're engaged. I see the two of them together and I see how happy they are now. I know that she will give Jeff the lifetime of happiness that he finally deserves and I know Jeff will do the same for her. Isnt it amazing, the circumstances that brought the two of them together? WOW - funny how life works sometimes; they were meant to be together. They both can be happy at last. CONGRATULATIONS JEFF AND KRISTI!

[Casual Observer]

I was wondering where the posts on this "lady" term used loosely, went.

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Casual Observer wrote:

I was wondering where the posts on this "lady" term used loosely, went.

I believe the ex wife of the boyfriend is pressing charges against the last post that was made on that thread due to the threatening manner in which it was posted, and the police had topix to remove it.

[Casual Observer]

Ah, well she has a right not to be threatened. Absolutely no one should be threatened. If you cannot work within the law you should leave the situation alone. However, If I remember, she was not supposed to have the boyfriend living there. Maybe he is living there illegally maybe he isn't, however, I'll bet no one who is not blood can stay at that house, so if his sister spends the night, catch it on tape, if she has girl friends stay, catch it. If his best friend stays catch it. My divorce says BLOOD relative or relative by marriage - an engagement isn't marriage. Maybe someone could take pictures or videotape and prove it to the police. Or just put it up on youtube......Just a thought I didn't let my ex-husband get away with this.

[Casual Observer]

Honest to goodness, if she is guilty of everything I have read here. I would make sure her ex had pictures of EVERYONE that spent the night at that house. Then he could use them later if needed.

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Casual Observer wrote:

Ah, well she has a right not to be threatened. Absolutely no one should be threatened. If you cannot work within the law you should leave the situation alone. However, If I remember, she was not supposed to have the boyfriend living there. Maybe he is living there illegally maybe he isn't, however, I'll bet no one who is not blood can stay at that house, so if his sister spends the night, catch it on tape, if she has girl friends stay, catch it. If his best friend stays catch it. My divorce says BLOOD relative or relative by marriage - an engagement isn't marriage. Maybe someone could take pictures or videotape and prove it to the police. Or just put it up on youtube......Just a thought I didn't let my ex-husband get away with this.

My friend has filed this with the courts and has a copy of their divorce. She's also called DHS who have been watching them for weeks. They are getting their case together. These two people that we are talking about deserve all the hell anyone can give them for what they put my friend through. It is pityful what she goes through every single day. She just wants to let sleeping dogs lie, but I am encouraging her to make their lives a living hell. They deserve each other.

[Casual Observer]

Well I don't know about DHS...but the ex-husbands divorce lawyer would love it. Don't you love women who think they can get away with anything because they have the kid. Women like that are either uneducated or they just think they are above the law. Daddys are getting joint or full custody now, all they need to prove is the home life is harming the child either physically or emotionally. I would assume if they are having friends spend the night against the order of the court they are teaching the child he doesn't have to respect the law. Lawyers can do lots of things, I had a good one in my divorce. Again, I would not let a day go by that I didn't drive by and snap a shot - probably at 2-3am when they are not expecting it. If they are having extra company they have to park somewhere.

I do not know this woman, however, I can't imagine I would want to considering what I have read on this post and the last one.

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Casual Observer wrote:

Well I don't know about DHS...but the ex-husbands divorce lawyer would love it. Don't you love women who think they can get away with anything because they have the kid. Women like that are either uneducated or they just think they are above the law. Daddys are getting joint or full custody now, all they need to prove is the home life is harming the child either physically or emotionally. I would assume if they are having friends spend the night against the order of the court they are teaching the child he doesn't have to respect the law. Lawyers can do lots of things, I had a good one in my divorce. Again, I would not let a day go by that I didn't drive by and snap a shot - probably at 2-3am when they are not expecting it. If they are having extra company they have to park somewhere.
I do not know this woman, however, I can't imagine I would want to considering what I have read on this post and the last one.

My friend doesn't even care about him anymore. She's already made her funeral arrangements and it has in them that her ex, the cheating ex, isn't even allowed at her funeral. She didn't want him to be a part of her life, and she doesn't want him to be a part of her death. Her ex cheating husband can't have his own kids, and this will be the second child he is raising that isn't even his. That must be some kind of psychological thing, him raising other mens children because he can't have his own. I don't know, but I do know my friend is done with the whole situation and has told me that if I wanted to do anything about it, I could. She has her ducks in a row, I'll say that. She had everything the courts needed. Now she won't get the blame for this, I will. I would gladly do this in honor of my friend who has done so much for me. Anyone who knows her knows that she has a heart of gold. Not very many women like this one. Thanks for your input!

[Casual Observer]

Can't have his own kids??? Why? Is he defective? LOL

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Casual Observer wrote:

Can't have his own kids??? Why? Is he defective? LOL

You could say that. According to my friend, he had an accident when he was younger. I don't know the details.

[Casual Observer]

LOL... wonder if that means he is missing anything??? LOL....LOL what poetic justice that would be for your friend. She should probably thank this girl for picking up her "damaged goods" LOL...

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Casual Observer wrote:

LOL... wonder if that means he is missing anything??? LOL....LOL what poetic justice that would be for your friend. She should probably thank this girl for picking up her "damaged goods" LOL...

My friend did say that he only has one instead of the normal two on a man. My friend is so much happier now since he isn't in her life. She walked on eggshells for many years just to keep the peace in the house. She hasn't loved him in many years. That's why she just wants to leave it be. She figures she doesn't have to do anything for them to get their punishment, God will punish those who cheat and lie after taking a vow under God. I so admire my friend. She truly is one in a million.

[Casual Observer]

Sounds like a your friend is a very good woman - certainly much better than a woman who would cheat on her husband then let a man, who is not her husband, live with her and her impressionable child. Seems to me, since you have noted they are not married yet, and are living together - she obviously doesn't care what she is teaching this child. Another parent without morality, self-respect, or dignity. We see that all the time......