catch a cheater
thats interesting

Louisville, KY

#1 Jun 30, 2010
How do you catch a cheating spouse? I have heard rumors. A LOT. I know somethings up, but I need proof. Cell phone bill won't work, mommy pays his bill. So i never see it. His mommy does. I did find out that he was talking to an old girlfriend that lives in NC. He had her number hidden under a code name of one of his buddies that live there. BUT I have a feeling and I need proof
dont worry

United States

#2 Jun 30, 2010
They manage to get caught eventually on their own. Don't look for the evidence unless you just want proof in order to leave them. It will drive you crazy.
well

Lexington, KY

#3 Jun 30, 2010
if he's cheating...he will lead a separate life from you. He will make you think thats just the way it has to be because of your circumstances but in reality, its what he likes, having a wife and girlfriends on the side. He will say he's going out with the guys...but don't be fooled, when he doesn't come home, hes with her..not the guys! Cell phone records are the very best way to catch someone cheating. Also, if they accuse you of cheating, its because they themselves are cheating. There are soooo many signs!!!!
thats interesting

Louisville, KY

#4 Jun 30, 2010
Hes accused me. But he doesn't go anywhere at night. He does have a job were he has alot of freedom and no supervision. I work the same hours. Therefore I can't follow him around. I have heard alot of things. Just a feeling and yes I will leave him when I have the proof in hand. Its just how.
OK then

Winchester, KY

#5 Jun 30, 2010
Its worth taking a vacation day here and there.
agree

United States

#6 Jun 30, 2010
I agree with "OK then". If you have any idea about where they could be meeting, show up. I could imagine that seeing the look on his face would be one of the best moments. I do recommend smashing his cell phone with a rubber mallet over and over. That is a lot of fun as well.... haha
TrustMe

United States

#7 Jul 3, 2010
thats interesting wrote:
How do you catch a cheating spouse? I have heard rumors. A LOT. I know somethings up, but I need proof. Cell phone bill won't work, mommy pays his bill. So i never see it. His mommy does. I did find out that he was talking to an old girlfriend that lives in NC. He had her number hidden under a code name of one of his buddies that live there. BUT I have a feeling and I need proof
If you are having a feeling then you are probably right. He will slip up. Just be quiet and listen...without responding...to things he says. Stay silent until you have enough evidence that he can't get out of it. Usually one of the first clues is he will start acting different in bed. Might do something new with you that he hasn't done before, lot of silencing the phone when it rings and you are standing there, becomes more distant emotionally. etc.
If you have your own cell phone, purposely leave it in your car next time you see him and then ask to borrow his real quick to make a phone call to your parents or girlfriends and see how he acts. If he is hesitant then that might be your answer.
TrustMe

United States

#8 Jul 3, 2010
thats interesting wrote:
Hes accused me. But he doesn't go anywhere at night. He does have a job were he has alot of freedom and no supervision. I work the same hours. Therefore I can't follow him around. I have heard alot of things. Just a feeling and yes I will leave him when I have the proof in hand. Its just how.
Have one of your close friends that you trust that he doesn't recognize their car check up on him for you!
clues

Winchester, KY

#9 Jul 3, 2010
Ladies stop being fools heres all the clues you will ever need.
1. The smell of the other womans cologne (25% get caught)
2. The cell phone stays on vibrate or hidden is his car or truck.
3. Usually a hair follicle or lipstick on his shirt or other clothing.80% of excuses are I forget to turn it back on baby oops
4.TRAVELS AWAY ALOT SUDDENLY
5.States that he is at his buddies just ask his buddy his car or motorcycle broke down (yeah right)remember his buddy will lie for him because he is fu..cking someone too.
5.Oh yeah tickets for a game or movie for two didn"t include you.
6.Makes excuses to go to the store to get cigarettes alot or something at the store down the street.21% of course with a mixture of some other excuse.
6.He has too stay over after work ,he has to get the job done by tomorrow.60% cheaters do this one.
7.Oh heres the top of the list... He states your friend is so ugly,crazy or fat OR too young But you find out he has been screwing her the whole time behind your back..and she went along with it what a friend,. drop her friendship straight up.
8.Only a few men might do this one,my FAMILY MEMBER IS DYING AND HAD TO LEAVE RIGHT AWAY.
YES, SOME MEN WILL STOOP THIS LOW.
9.Ladies watch out for the babysitters they want a good ,husband father, lover provider and maybe your children.And every thing you might be.
10.Oh right! this one HONEY, I am teaching baseball, football or scouts this weekend .,but he forgot his sports equipment.
11.He came home from work and he can't find his wallet or his wedding ring ect., which he took off when he was with the other girlON HIS LUCH BREAK , because he feels guilty or she don't know he is married.
12.Or he came home broke when he forgot to come home ,he had to pay for the motel room and take her out or he had to pay some of the other womans bills for her.But he tells you someone rolled him.Geez aint that a good.
yep

Winchester, KY

#10 Jul 3, 2010
or he will have one of his buddies call to get him out of the house for the night..

biggest clue is when he doesn't come home at night after he says hes doing something with the guys..really he's planned a whole night to be with her! and you think he's drunk so much that he should just stay where he's at so he can be safe! yeah right!!!!

Keepin their cell phone private from you is a huge clue....

they will cheat when its convenient, so it will be someone they see during their routine..whether its work or coaching sports...

And don't be fooled there is just one..there are always more than one with these men! They need their ego stroked and lots of attention to feel good about themselves!!

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#11 May 9, 2014
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Why are you

United States

#12 May 9, 2014
On here saying all this? Are you a good friend of the one being cheated on? I think not! Or you would be helping a friend out and getting pics to show them! No, you just want to get on topix and hope that they will see it! Some friend! If your a friend I would hate to see what an enemy is ! Just to chicken sh** to be a real friend and talk to them about it! You know that this way does not work at all! A real friend would be helping! This is not helping anyone but your dramatic a**, keep stroking your ego, because apparently you like good people going thru misery! A true friend would step up to the plate! This will not get you thought of as serious!
rocker

Lexington, KY

#13 May 10, 2014
yep wrote:
or he will have one of his buddies call to get him out of the house for the night..

biggest clue is when he doesn't come home at night after he says hes doing something with the guys..really he's planned a whole night to be with her! and you think he's drunk so much that he should just stay where he's at so he can be safe! yeah right!!!!

Keepin their cell phone private from you is a huge clue....

they will cheat when its convenient, so it will be someone they see during their routine..whether its work or coaching sports...

And don't be fooled there is just one..there are always more than one with these men! They need their ego stroked and lots of attention to feel good about themselves!!
I love doing all of that. I'll take any hole I can find. Anywhere anytime. Im just out to have as much fun as I can. And u will never catch me :)
rocker

Lexington, KY

#14 May 10, 2014
well wrote:
if he's cheating...he will lead a separate life from you. He will make you think thats just the way it has to be because of your circumstances but in reality, its what he likes, having a wife and girlfriends on the side. He will say he's going out with the guys...but don't be fooled, when he doesn't come home, hes with her..not the guys! Cell phone records are the very best way to catch someone cheating. Also, if they accuse you of cheating, its because they themselves are cheating. There are soooo many signs!!!!
That's so dumb and not true. Go ahead. Check my phone all u want. U would never find a thing! Bc only idiots get caught and use their real phone. Guys..smarten up. Just be like me and go get a secret second pre paid phone. Keep it hidden. I keep mine hidden in my car. That's the number that all the girls get. Not my real one. And then only use it when u are out and away from home. It's all simple if most guys weren't idiots. That's why they get caught bc no one knows what they are doing or how to do it. But I'm a pro. I've had my extra fun for years and never even been suspected
scott

Lebanon, KY

#15 May 12, 2014
Shannon hardin is the biggest cheatin ho around,ask her
Emily

Tucker, GA

#16 May 12, 2014
rocker wrote:
<quoted text>
That's so dumb and not true. Go ahead. Check my phone all u want. U would never find a thing! Bc only idiots get caught and use their real phone. Guys..smarten up. Just be like me and go get a secret second pre paid phone. Keep it hidden. I keep mine hidden in my car. That's the number that all the girls get. Not my real one. And then only use it when u are out and away from home. It's all simple if most guys weren't idiots. That's why they get caught bc no one knows what they are doing or how to do it. But I'm a pro. I've had my extra fun for years and never even been suspected
maybe u haven't got caught because you may actually have a decent girl who trust you. Enjoy while you can. How undeserving u are.

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