i am miserable in my marriage!

i am miserable in my marriage!

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Since: Jan 11

Richmond, KY

#1 Apr 18, 2013
I have been married for almost 18 yrs, I have 3 amazing children that love dearly. The problem is that I have been completely miserable for about the past 17 yrs. I have put up with so much BS just to stay married for my kids; I don't want them to suffer.
My wife is a total bitch, she refuses to work, does nothing around the house, shows me no respect whatsoever...
I have no idea what to do. Stay married for my kids and continue to be miserable for eternity or leave her and hurt my kids? It seems like I'm in a no win situation.
Ms Purdy

United States

#2 Apr 18, 2013
Sounds like my marriage! Join the club.
Speakinrealtalk

United States

#3 Apr 18, 2013
Get cancer or really sick then u got real problems you whiny bitch!
Yep

Paris, KY

#4 Apr 18, 2013
Then why her sorry a$$ doesn't work you can pay $2000 a month or more in child support. You better find a dam good divorce attorney that will get you those kids. Stay at home moms isn't a job. Its called being lazy and worthless. Find you a hooker or some side meat to satisfy.
Speakinrealtalk

United States

#5 Apr 18, 2013
Yep wrote:
Then why her sorry a$$ doesn't work you can pay $2000 a month or more in child support. You better find a dam good divorce attorney that will get you those kids. Stay at home moms isn't a job. Its called being lazy and worthless. Find you a hooker or some side meat to satisfy.
You're Probably a loser to who's spouse deserves better!
aintdatright

United States

#6 Apr 18, 2013
Speakinrealtalk wrote:
Get cancer or really sick then u got real problems you whiny bitch!
you are right. People don't know real sorrow until they're faced with something tragic,a real battle of emotions.

Since: Jan 11

United States

#7 Apr 19, 2013
Speakinrealtalk wrote:
Get cancer or really sick then u got real problems you whiny bitch!
Go phućk yourself.
see a marriage counselor

Georgetown, KY

#8 Apr 19, 2013
see a marriage counselor with your wife present. Topix isnt the place to ask for advice on marriage. Both of you need professional counseling.
Wang0 Tang0 wrote:
I have been married for almost 18 yrs, I have 3 amazing children that love dearly. The problem is that I have been completely miserable for about the past 17 yrs. I have put up with so much BS just to stay married for my kids; I don't want them to suffer.
My wife is a total bitch, she refuses to work, does nothing around the house, shows me no respect whatsoever...
I have no idea what to do. Stay married for my kids and continue to be miserable for eternity or leave her and hurt my kids? It seems like I'm in a no win situation.
good guy

Duluth, GA

#9 Apr 19, 2013
Wang0 Tang0 wrote:
I have been married for almost 18 yrs, I have 3 amazing children that love dearly. The problem is that I have been completely miserable for about the past 17 yrs. I have put up with so much BS just to stay married for my kids; I don't want them to suffer.
My wife is a total bitch, she refuses to work, does nothing around the house, shows me no respect whatsoever...
I have no idea what to do. Stay married for my kids and continue to be miserable for eternity or leave her and hurt my kids? It seems like I'm in a no win situation.
Is she hot??
Shloop

El Monte, CA

#11 Apr 19, 2013
Wang0 Tang0 wrote:
I have been married for almost 18 yrs, I have 3 amazing children that love dearly. The problem is that I have been completely miserable for about the past 17 yrs. I have put up with so much BS just to stay married for my kids; I don't want them to suffer.
My wife is a total bitch, she refuses to work, does nothing around the house, shows me no respect whatsoever...
I have no idea what to do. Stay married for my kids and continue to be miserable for eternity or leave her and hurt my kids? It seems like I'm in a no win situation.
I at one point left my marriage bc I was unhappy. My children suffered greatly during this time. It gave us the strength to work on our marriage and we are now happier than ever and so are our children. I don't know your wife but maybe if you told her you are considering divorce she would straighten up and try harder. Would either of you consider marriage counseling? If she loves the kids as much as you do then she should be willing to make changes. If not, your best bet will be to stick it out til they are 18. Even then the kids might be angry with you for a few years but eventually they will see the true colors. Good luck.
Lisa

Duluth, GA

#12 Apr 19, 2013
Does your wife play with little boys and give them moonshine and work for the SCMS
Been there

Bellevue, WA

#13 Apr 19, 2013
If you aren't happy, then you need to do something about it! You've been married this long, so you need to do some sort of counceling, don't run out and put your di-k in anything and fall in love........or maybe that's what you need to do. There's only one person that makes you happy abd that's you! So only yourself knows knows what you want or need.
Hey

Louisville, KY

#14 Apr 19, 2013
Wang0 Tang0 wrote:
I have been married for almost 18 yrs, I have 3 amazing children that love dearly. The problem is that I have been completely miserable for about the past 17 yrs. I have put up with so much BS just to stay married for my kids; I don't want them to suffer.
My wife is a total bitch, she refuses to work, does nothing around the house, shows me no respect whatsoever...
I have no idea what to do. Stay married for my kids and continue to be miserable for eternity or leave her and hurt my kids? It seems like I'm in a no win situation.
Wanna meet
puck

United States

#15 Apr 19, 2013
Why don't you stay home and do her job with the kids and then you might see why she that away . I think your the b!tch and you have already got someone new and Ur looking for the easy why out.
Frankie

Georgetown, KY

#16 Apr 19, 2013
Either way whatever the original poster and the other broad who chimed in saying that's my marriage too...

I got a big meatstick in my pants that is guaranteed to satisfy! You can stay with your kids and live at your house, just come be with me during the daytime and I promise you, you wont regret it!
really

Kissimmee, FL

#17 Apr 20, 2013
i thought marriage was something you worked at but these days it is disposable because it is not perfect what is perfect
chimullysweep

Lexington, KY

#18 Apr 20, 2013
...i want my rib back
two sides

United States

#19 Apr 20, 2013
They're are always two sides to every story that being said, being a stay at home is a job IF she is taking care of the kids, the house and her man. If she's not the. She needs to get a job and be thankful she has a man that puts up with her bullshit for as long as you have. I was a shitty wife for several years. I let our home go to hell barely paid attention to our kids and he was always last on the list. Then add in the drugs and spending all his money and he STILL still stayed. When he threatened to leave and take the kids I reevaluated my priorities and got my shot straight. If she has any sense and any heart she will realize what she has and make some changes. If not then divorce her ass and move on. It's going to hurt your kids in the long run when they find out you were miserable most of your life because THEY were the REASON you stayed. Don't put that burden on them.
party

United States

#20 Apr 20, 2013
Wang0 Tang0 wrote:
I have been married for almost 18 yrs, I have 3 amazing children that love dearly. The problem is that I have been completely miserable for about the past 17 yrs. I have put up with so much BS just to stay married for my kids; I don't want them to suffer.
My wife is a total bitch, she refuses to work, does nothing around the house, shows me no respect whatsoever...
I have no idea what to do. Stay married for my kids and continue to be miserable for eternity or leave her and hurt my kids? It seems like I'm in a no win situation.
That's what u get idiot. Now if u do it the kids will really suffer. I should have done it 17 years ago and they would be over it by now and be perfectly normal!
know how you feel

Lexington, KY

#21 Apr 20, 2013
Wang0 Tang0 wrote:
I have been married for almost 18 yrs, I have 3 amazing children that love dearly. The problem is that I have been completely miserable for about the past 17 yrs. I have put up with so much BS just to stay married for my kids; I don't want them to suffer.
My wife is a total bitch, she refuses to work, does nothing around the house, shows me no respect whatsoever...
I have no idea what to do. Stay married for my kids and continue to be miserable for eternity or leave her and hurt my kids? It seems like I'm in a no win situation.
I was in the same situation. I had 4 kids and had been in this marriage since I was 20 years old. After 22 years I decided that my life had to change. I deserved a man I could love and he deserved a woman who loved him. I was there because of my children only. I finally found the courage to leave. My children were mad at me and sided with their dad but they eventually came around and understood why I had to do this. So many years wasted and ill never get them back but I finally found happiness. It's talking that first step. It is the hardest but once you do, move forward and do not Look back. What's hard on kids is if you go back and forth. You deserve to be happy and you can do that and still have your children in your life. It's not easy and a huge adjustment but in long run you will be a better father for it. Just never let another woman come between you and your children. That's what happened to mine but they have me let them know you love them always!!! Good luck!

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