I would like to know if a male or a female should be sponsoring a lesian. I have sponsored a heterosexual female for 10 years. A new woman has come into AA and is a lesbian and she is attracted to the girl I sponsor. She has asked my sponsee to sponser her and she said she would. My sponsee lives with her boyfriend. There was a situation that I felt the boyfriend was violated while he was sleeping. I am concerned about my sponsee and was looking for some feedback.