Listen,in my opinion,I feel that you have a heavy burden on your heart.I also think and pray for all of us who remain faithful to our "other half" that love abounds them forever.And I wish the same for you.Temptations are all around us these days and have been since the creation of humanity.In order to be faithful to yourself we need to remain away from the "near occasion" of sin.That means dont go around places or people who would tempt you to give in to their lifestyles that possibly may pull you down to give in to the "near occasion" of sin into the sinful act its self.Love between two people should reflect the covenant between the two,especially in marriage.If you begin to feel lonely in a relationship,that usually means there is a break down in communication in that relationship.We have to resolve that problem first.In any way we can,with the Lord's guidance.And if communication doesnt work,try counseling to help with misunderstandings and feelings before people "give-up" or "give-in". My wife and I have been married for eight years and together for for more than 9 years.I trust her with everything in me. She has been there for me in my loneliest and darkest hours.With support and love from her,my father and sister,and my(late mother),my wife's family,ourchurch family,anything GOOD and is possible when we put the Lord Jesus first in our personal lives. During the dating years,and finally,the married lives together. Pull out your bibles as a couple and ask the Lord to bless your heart and mind through the Holy Spirit,then each find a passage of scripture and read it.I suggest the book of Psalms, personally, and then with patience and love,discuss what each one feels that the passage(s)of scripture means to each of you individually,and before you know it,you are with the Lord in discussion with each other.Because, as it was said by the Lord,"when two or more are gathered in My name there I shall be with you all in Spirit (Holy Spirit).I can not think of a better group to be with in my whole World,than with the one you love and the One who was born, lived,preached and taught His disciples.Then was betrayed, denied, tortured, beaten, and handed down in judgment in accordance to the scripture and handed down through the prophets to save US ALL from our sins with His crucifixion,death,burial.But as He promised, He went into Hell, and on the third day, He arose again in fulfillment of scriptures, and appeared to His disciples many times and taught them how to teach others as He taught them. And before He ascended into heaven, He breathed on them and the Holy Spirit came upon them all. He then said ,take what you know to be the truth and go out upon all the nations and baptise them in My name and teach those as I have tought you.If the Lord as MAN, could withstand temptations before us, then so we can do the same,ourselves. Remember that the Lord has already saved us, all we have to do is accept His greatest sacrifice,His death for the redemption of mankinds sin,As we then should share His gift of commitment and sacrifice to our spouses or our sweethearts and carry out the greatest commandment of all "Love your neighbors as yourself." I pray this helps those who struggle with infidelity.The truth is, all girlfriends are getting slept around on... Also all boyfriends are getting slept around on... All husbands... All wives... Everyone one of us is doing it to everyone else. NO ONE is left out. The ONLY DIFFERENCES between any of us is who has been caught doing what.
I would leave it alone. How will you feel when someone tells your secrets? If anyone has been together for more than a year, then for a relationship to survive long-term, you'll have to learn how to deal with infidelity. Human beings are never satisfied with what they have and have the biggest need for community. Variety and something "new" will always become part of the equation, no matter who you are.
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#1 Jan 23, 2013
#2 Feb 3, 2013
Never turn anything down unless you turn them face down. Hahahahahaha!
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