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izzy b

United States

#1 Feb 20, 2013
Dear Bonnie,wanted to write you. Haven't seen you in a while. Things are crazy around here. Got my son in home schooling now. He didn't like public school so we're gonna try this. I hate not being able to talk like we used to. Sisters are supposed to talk every day but somewhere down the road I lost my way. I have lost my mind to. All I get done is cleaning house. I get bored doing that to. Haven't been to mommy's in 6 months. I miss seeing her but I can't stand the drama that surrounds her. I have enough on my plate as it is. I get lonely here but I just keep going. I don't know where I will end up but it's been a long hard road for me. Family's are supposed to be close but ours isn't. I can't remember the last family pic nic we all had. Daddy died in 01 and I think it's been that long. We used to get together at mommy's and sing. Have a good time there. I miss it. Mommy's getting older and there will be a day we won't be able to go there any more. I wish things were different. I wish everybody was happy. I guess we all have so much on our minds that we don't take time out to see each other. I hope all of us can get together soon. I miss seeing you. Hope you are well. Come see me sometime. Signed Your Sister
Lockermom

United States

#2 Feb 20, 2013
izzy b wrote:
Dear Bonnie,wanted to write you. Haven't seen you in a while. Things are crazy around here. Got my son in home schooling now. He didn't like public school so we're gonna try this. I hate not being able to talk like we used to. Sisters are supposed to talk every day but somewhere down the road I lost my way. I have lost my mind to. All I get done is cleaning house. I get bored doing that to. Haven't been to mommy's in 6 months. I miss seeing her but I can't stand the drama that surrounds her. I have enough on my plate as it is. I get lonely here but I just keep going. I don't know where I will end up but it's been a long hard road for me. Family's are supposed to be close but ours isn't. I can't remember the last family pic nic we all had. Daddy died in 01 and I think it's been that long. We used to get together at mommy's and sing. Have a good time there. I miss it. Mommy's getting older and there will be a day we won't be able to go there any more. I wish things were different. I wish everybody was happy. I guess we all have so much on our minds that we don't take time out to see each other. I hope all of us can get together soon. I miss seeing you. Hope you are well. Come see me sometime. Signed Your Sister
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Amber

United States

#3 Feb 20, 2013
Why is it that u used topix to reach out to your sister? Why not just write her with pen and paper, or send an email? I'm not being sarcastic or mean.. Just curious. I would think you would want to keep your life private?
:0(

Mason, WV

#4 Feb 20, 2013
izzy b wrote:
Dear Bonnie,wanted to write you. Haven't seen you in a while. Things are crazy around here. Got my son in home schooling now. He didn't like public school so we're gonna try this. I hate not being able to talk like we used to. Sisters are supposed to talk every day but somewhere down the road I lost my way. I have lost my mind to. All I get done is cleaning house. I get bored doing that to. Haven't been to mommy's in 6 months. I miss seeing her but I can't stand the drama that surrounds her. I have enough on my plate as it is. I get lonely here but I just keep going. I don't know where I will end up but it's been a long hard road for me. Family's are supposed to be close but ours isn't. I can't remember the last family pic nic we all had. Daddy died in 01 and I think it's been that long. We used to get together at mommy's and sing. Have a good time there. I miss it. Mommy's getting older and there will be a day we won't be able to go there any more. I wish things were different. I wish everybody was happy. I guess we all have so much on our minds that we don't take time out to see each other. I hope all of us can get together soon. I miss seeing you. Hope you are well. Come see me sometime. Signed Your Sister
This is touching and so true in so many families,my own included.
lol

Haslet, TX

#5 Feb 20, 2013
Lockermom wrote:
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This is also touching, and so true :/
lol

Point Pleasant, WV

#6 Feb 20, 2013
Amber wrote:
Why is it that u used topix to reach out to your sister? Why not just write her with pen and paper, or send an email? I'm not being sarcastic or mean.. Just curious. I would think you would want to keep your life private?
I hear ya. How about a phone? Let's post crap on topix for everybody to read instead. Gotta love family.
Amber

United States

#7 Feb 20, 2013
lol wrote:
<quoted text> I hear ya. How about a phone? Let's post crap on topix for everybody to read instead. Gotta love family.
Lol right! This post makes me proud of my family... We have done alot of crap but never had to communicate over topix. I think that makes us winners in reality

Since: Feb 13

United States

#8 Feb 21, 2013
[QUOTE who=":0("]<quoted text>
This is touching and so true in so many families,my own included.[/QUOTE]I hate to see other families like mine.

Since: Feb 13

United States

#9 Feb 21, 2013
I can not tell a lie. I'm the writer of the letter. It's bad enough to lose family members to death but what about losing the ones that are still with us. My oldest sister ,I haven't seen in years. I can't remember what she looks like. Last time I heard from her she was mad at all of us up here. Long story short she wanted to burry her ex husband in the family cemetery and we said no so she tried to get ahold of some of the family members and I was the only one at home at the time.She cussed me up one side and down the other. Haven't spoken to her since. I really don't remember what she looks like. Ain't it awful that a family could be so estranged that they don't know what each other looks like. I miss the years that we used to have. Befor my dad passed we would at least have cook out's. I can't remember the last one we had. They(my family)don't know it but I think of them often. Wonder what they might be doing. Who they're with. I try and stop befor making the call. Why do people wait till you're dead to come see ya? One day there won't be anybody to see. I know I could be the first to step up but it's hard and doing it later always wins out in my mind. I can always find something to do besides make a call. one day there will be no need to call. Don't think that i'm feeling sorry for my self because i'm not. I hate the way things are but I haven't done a thing to fix it. I think I fear that they will turn a deaf ear and not talk at all. Someday i'll get it right. Hopefully befor it's to late. Dognapper
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Point Pleasant, WV

#10 Feb 21, 2013
You should call or write before it is too late. Once it is too late, you will never know if they would have turned a deaf ear or not and you will always wonder and regret your inaction. Action is always better than inaction because you will never achieve a result (being the one that you want or not) without doing something.
Amber

United States

#11 Feb 21, 2013
Agree, u should call or pay her a visit. Life is too short to live with regrets. At least u can say u tried if it doesn't work out. Reassure her that u love her. Every family has issues but it's never too late to make things right. You're carrying around a heavy burden, it's time u let that go. Reach out to your sister other than on topics, I think she deserves that much. Never let pride stand in your way. I wish u and your family the best and hope u can reconnect. Family is too important to let anything stand in the way of bonding with one another. Best of luck dognapper.

Since: Feb 13

United States

#12 Feb 21, 2013
Thank you and I know you're right. I will reach out and see what happens. I hope it don't back fire on me. I do miss all of them. I have this wall I stand behind all the time. Been hurt so many times. People can really be mean. I don't like fighting with them. I feel like an outcast and that I don't fit in. I'm the one who has tats all over me, the one who will bust your mouth, the one who has road rage, the one with a temper that I can't control. I will say this the other day at Walmart I was waiting for a lady to back out of her spot and as soon as she did a young girl pulled right in the spot. Well I stopped behind their car and the passenger opened her door and I said thanks for taking my damn spot. She said well I have this brace and I cut in and said I have one to and? She looked away from me and I thought I can jump out and tell her i'm gonna break her other leg or I can just let it go. Well I let it go and I never said anymore to her. That's the first time I ever backed down and just let it go. Any other time there would have been a scene. But I let it go. I think I suprised myself. I guess I did the right thing. At least I hope so. Dognapper

Since: Feb 13

United States

#14 Feb 22, 2013
I haven't called anyone yet but I plan to do so tomorrow. I do miss all of them. I wonder if i'll get another cussing? That would suck. I love the warmer weather. Can't wait till Spring. That's my favorite time of year. I like the Fall to,the Indian Summer. I hate Winter. I freeze to death. I'd rather sweat.lol. Ol Dognapper has Arthritis and I hurt all Winter long. Getting old. Dognapper
xyz

United States

#15 Feb 22, 2013
Dognapper when did you go blue? And why? Glad ur back its been boring on here.

Since: Feb 13

United States

#16 Feb 22, 2013
I got a different computer and it just came up that way. Tired of talking about Penis size? lol I think it's boring to. Going to bed. 6AM comes around to quick. Dognapper
Amber

United States

#17 Feb 22, 2013
Keep your head high and let us know how it goes !

Since: Feb 13

United States

#18 Feb 23, 2013
Taking you all to the Pony Pulls with me today. Be back in a few. Ol256er are you still with us? I want to tell you all about the wonderful weekends we had when we went to Daddy's and got to go to the pulls. Dognapper
peacemaker

United States

#19 Feb 23, 2013
Dognapper let's talk.I feel your pain,family squabbling about anything,and everything.You know what my motto is,"don't sweat the small stuff" but,familys don't always agree on that,do they? My family, all have struggled,some have more or less than the other, I knew my mom cared more for my siblings than she did me.Now that I'm getting older,I almost excuse her for that,because life's too short!Let me tell you,if I can put that in the back of my mind,and go on,I bet you can too!! I have always held the get togethers,tried my damdest to get the family all together,most of the time it worked,but in the past 6 yrs.I can't get them to attend,always an excuse.Probably because one is sore @ the other.It's bummed me out so bad,that I've almost stopped having get togethers. I tell all of them we are family,family see each other,and don't always agree, get pissed,and get over it as quick as you got pissed!! See Dognapper,that's my family's problem,they can't swallow their pride,and forgive!! Dognapper, a little advice,"Check Yourself" You're either part of the problem,or part of the solution!!! Call your sister,your mom,any and all that you care about,because you may not have tomorrow!! that's how I cope,it's not perfect,but it works for me.God Bless You,and Yours :)

Since: Feb 13

United States

#20 Feb 23, 2013
We all haven't been together since Daddy died. Always someone mad about something. I don't go to Mommy's because she is surrounded by drama. People tend to make their problems yours. I'm not arguing with them any more. Anyway about the Pony pulls. When we did have to go to Daddy's on the weekend we did get the pleasure of going to the Pony Pulls. Woodrow Cox, Jack Dray and Fawn Johnson all had teams of Pony's. We'd go out there and you could smell the hamburgers and fries. We didn't have any money but if we got lucky someone would throw something our way. Woodrow and them would drink but they would have to put it in something else. Everyone gathered around the pulling pit and they let the dirt fly. You would pull your Pony's up to the sled and someone else would hook em up. If you missed they'ed come around again and hook em up. Iv'e seen them Pony's pull their hearts out. Sometimes although it was illegal I think sometimes they would slip something to the Pony's and they'ed go crazy and one time I saw one literally jump over the other one. If you missed that hook you would be drug through the pit. There would be 20 or so trucks out there covered in harnesses. I was allowed to brush some of them. Theres something about how a horse smells. Their noses are so soft. Got the crap kicked out of me out there. We loved it though. We would set back and watch them pull team after team till they had a winner. It was great times for us because we didn't have to listen to the arguing they all did. We had other good times at the Coon Hunters Lodge. Halloween Party's and 4-h. Those were the days. Way Back When! Dognapper
sincerely
#21 Feb 23, 2013
dognapper you fu c king suck. you need to stop what your doing and get a new hobby because this one sucks a s s!!!

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