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Venting

United States

#1 Dec 14, 2013
I know the response ill probably get from this but I have to go here. It's so sorry because a step-parent/new wife doesn't like the mother, she takes it out on the kids. This woman's child gets treated so much different then these, always talking about hers, hers, hers, never the other kids. The poor kids are cussed, left out of things, mis treated, just plain abuse and neglect. And don't say go to the authorities because I did and it was dismissed. Heres an example of what i dont like, The children were at the fathers this past week and was cussed because of something the woman claimed the mother was doing. Instead of taking it up with adults, messages get passed with children. This is wrong on so many levels. Personally I just want to know what kind of parent lets this go on and what kind of person mistreats children? Suggestions?
Angel

Greenville, SC

#2 Dec 14, 2013
Venting wrote:
I know the response ill probably get from this but I have to go here. It's so sorry because a step-parent/new wife doesn't like the mother, she takes it out on the kids. This woman's child gets treated so much different then these, always talking about hers, hers, hers, never the other kids. The poor kids are cussed, left out of things, mis treated, just plain abuse and neglect. And don't say go to the authorities because I did and it was dismissed. Heres an example of what i dont like, The children were at the fathers this past week and was cussed because of something the woman claimed the mother was doing. Instead of taking it up with adults, messages get passed with children. This is wrong on so many levels. Personally I just want to know what kind of parent lets this go on and what kind of person mistreats children? Suggestions?
1.) A good parent doesn't cuss their child or cuss in front of their child. Vulgarity is shameful and I'm disgusted whenever I see a grown man or woman cuss in front of a child.

2.) A good parent doesn't talk bad about the other parent or step-parent in front of the child(ren). Under no circumstance is it ever acceptable to bad mouth your child's mother or father in front of the child.

Ask yourself: if you died tonight, would you be satisfied with the example and life you've lived as a guide for your children? Have you been kind to others, even others that didnt deserve kindness? Or have you lived a life of hatred and revenge? Is that what you want to teach your children? Is this the kind of legacy you want to leave behind?
Quit fighting with your ex. Be the better, bigger, kinder, and forgiving parent. Don't be the crazy bitter witch.

And pray that immature step parent will grow up.
Towana gentry phillips

United States

#3 Dec 14, 2013
I wouldn't normally respond to ur miserable feeble attempts u got going on and have had since I came in the pic 3 years ago but Iam going to this time!!! You have got on here and posted over and over how trashy Iam. How pathetic Iam, that I'm on drugs, I Starve ur kids, lock em in closets bla bla bla!!! But not once have u ever had the proof to back up anything you get on here and LIE about!! I would think if I was really being abusive to ur kids, and neglecting them like U and ur bunch claim I do and have claimed since I been in the pic, that u would do what's in the best interest of ur kids and try and get them out of the environment u claim is so bad rather then getting on these trash sites and running ur big mouth!!! But the kids are not the issue and we both know that!!! It's the fact that everyone else has moved on with their lives and for whatever reason u can't or won't!!!!i tried to be civil with u, I tried to be the bigger person and handle it like it needed to be for everyone's sake, but when u seen I was there to stay, u was ready for battle!! I won't stoop to ur level but I won't put up with ur krap either!! IV never mistreated ur children and u know it!! All iV ever tried to do was show them right from wrong!! Teach them what parents are pose to teach their kids!! And as u said one day a couple years ago no I'm not their mom but does that really matter when it comes to raising a child? It shouldn't but u refuse to leave well enuf alone!! i don't care if u like me, and I assure u I won't loose sleep over it!!! But if u have a problem with me quit getting on here and posting trash talk and confront me! After all, are we not spose to have the kids best interest at heart? I don't care what u and mikes screwed up past was. But that's exactly what it is, the past!! And regardless of where anyone's future lays, grow up and leave well enuf alone!!! I'm sure this was a waste of time but I'm tired of u keeping krap stirred and when I confront u and try to handle it like adults u Hollar harassment but yet it's ok for u to make ppls lives hell!! I and ur sidekicks can take this and run with it IDC!!!! Either shut ur big mouth and stop the BS or confront me!!!
Towana gentry phillips

United States

#4 Dec 14, 2013
Angel wrote:
<quoted text>
1.) A good parent doesn't cuss their child or cuss in front of their child. Vulgarity is shameful and I'm disgusted whenever I see a grown man or woman cuss in front of a child.
2.) A good parent doesn't talk bad about the other parent or step-parent in front of the child(ren). Under no circumstance is it ever acceptable to bad mouth your child's mother or father in front of the child.
Ask yourself: if you died tonight, would you be satisfied with the example and life you've lived as a guide for your children? Have you been kind to others, even others that didnt deserve kindness? Or have you lived a life of hatred and revenge? Is that what you want to teach your children? Is this the kind of legacy you want to leave behind?
Quit fighting with your ex. Be the better, bigger, kinder, and forgiving parent. Don't be the crazy bitter witch.
And pray that immature step parent will grow up.
think about it, if the kids were really being abused and/or mistreated why not do everything In ur power to prove it instead of getting on topix of all places and starting bs? But then everything on topix must be true! 99% of the forums on here and to destroy ppl or talk krap about em!!! That's the problem here, everyone is always in everyone else's business and lives rather then minding their own affairs!! Ppl should talk less and listen more!!!
Angel

Greenville, SC

#5 Dec 15, 2013
Towana gentry phillips wrote:
<quoted text> think about it, if the kids were really being abused and/or mistreated why not do everything In ur power to prove it instead of getting on topix of all places and starting bs? But then everything on topix must be true! 99% of the forums on here and to destroy ppl or talk krap about em!!! That's the problem here, everyone is always in everyone else's business and lives rather then minding their own affairs!! Ppl should talk less and listen more!!!
What makes you think this forum was about you??? This is a very common problem that happens in the lives of many.

However, nearly everything you said is disturbing. I hope you don't speak that way in front of someone else's children. I hope you don't talk about a child's mother in front of that child. If you have spoke this way in front of a child, Im sure you've got a special place in hell waiting just for you!
Have you ever thought about teaching a child to honor thy father and mother? Why the heck would these kids honor you or anyone else when they have to listen to crap like you just spouted off?

And, where do you come off saying you're trying to teach kids what a parent is supposed to teach their kids??? A step parent has no business determining what they "think" someone else's child should be taught.

I can think of some questionable things you have taught your kids: immodesty, fornication, hate, spite, cursing, revenge, etc...

Take your own advise, talk less, listen more.
Drama Strikes

Gainesboro, TN

#6 Dec 15, 2013
Angel. My thoughts exactly! No names were mentioned in the first post.
Can we also add proper spelling, and punctuation to the list of do's and don'ts when guiding children?
Lets start with...
Ur - Your
U - You
Em- Them
Krap - Crap
Pose - Supposed
Spose - Supposed
Enuf - Enough
Ppls - Peoples
IDC - I don't care
BS- Bullshit
Parents

Gainesboro, TN

#7 Dec 15, 2013
Stepparents... some of you are wonderful, some not so much so. Here are some things to think about.

1) When criticizing a child's parent, they are 50% that parent. I never bad talk my ex in front of my child, because that only hurts my child. Think before you criticize. They don't need your drama and opinions, they just need to feel loved. Save your drama to talk to your friends, spouse or therapist when the children aren't around.

2) Research shows that step parents are more critical of stepchildren than their own children. Don't be a statistic. If you want to be the good parent, then raise your children responsibly and fairly. That does means discipline, not unfair punishment. You can't punish them for their parents' actions, they are their own person who are just trying to cope and live a life that's already broken. You don't and shouldn't add onto that.

I don't know the parents here, but everyone sounds like they're acting like children and not in the interests of the child at hand. Cut it out. Topix isn't the place for your dirty, smelly laundry. Grow up and be a good parent and stop bringing your drama to the public, you immature twits.
Towana

Moore, SC

#8 Dec 15, 2013
Drama Strikes wrote:
Angel. My thoughts exactly! No names were mentioned in the first post.
Can we also add proper spelling, and punctuation to the list of do's and don'ts when guiding children?
Lets start with...
Ur - Your
U - You
Em- Them
Krap - Crap
Pose - Supposed
Spose - Supposed
Enuf - Enough
Ppls - Peoples
IDC - I don't care
BS- Bullshit
wow are you that bored?? Seriously!!! Do you really think everyone didnt know who this post was about! Wasn't hard to tell when the "drama" as you noisy no life ppl call it never ends when it comes to this sitsuation!!! It dont matter if i respond or i dont or rather its here or facebook or in person, you ppl are going to turn it anyway you want to.. Cus thats what you so best!!! if you spent half as much time worrying about your own lives as you do everyone else's you would be far better off!! And don't tell me it's public business when I post or respond cus that's a joke and last time I checked I could say anything I wanted to!! After all, you voice your opinions here, so what makes you better then me??? That's right nothing!!!half this town talks about the other half and then the other half sit back and let ppl like you run over ppl and don't stand up against those who always try to hurt others!!i don't have to explain nothing to anyone and ESP those here but as always it's ok for y'all to run your mouths , run ppl In the ground, talk trash about them, and on and on but the min someone stands up for the other party or themselves your waiting to pounce! Why is that?? Because the truth may come out, or maybe your life is no diff from the ones bashing others or maybe your just bored! I don't know and I don't care I just know if you can't handle what I got to say or don't like it, I can assure you it won't hurt my feelings!! YOUR OPINION OF ME DONT MEAN KRAP, yes i spelled it "KRAP" THANK YOU GRAMMAR POLICE!! Didnt know we had to type or talk a certain way, that should be the least of your worries!!! I find it entertaining you keep up with me Enough to write down the way I talk or post!! Ha but as far as the post, well that's the problem with most of you, you know only what u hear and never the whole truth.. But your quick to jump on here and run them mouths about something I can guarantee you know nothing about!! It's amazing how only a few select awesome ppl like yourself are allowed to get on here and run your mouths!!!! I'm not Gona keep going back and forth either! I voiced my side and opinions and I don't care who agrees and who don't nor do I care what your opinion of me is!!! But for future reference,, you better get all the facts before you are so quick to stick your nose where it Dont belong!!!
Angel

Fairview, NC

#9 Dec 15, 2013
Towana wrote:
<quoted text> wow are you that bored?? Seriously!!! Do you really think everyone didnt know who this post was about! Wasn't hard to tell when the "drama" as you noisy no life ppl call it never ends when it comes to this sitsuation!!! It dont matter if i respond or i dont or rather its here or facebook or in person, you ppl are going to turn it anyway you want to.. Cus thats what you so best!!! if you spent half as much time worrying about your own lives as you do everyone else's you would be far better off!! And don't tell me it's public business when I post or respond cus that's a joke and last time I checked I could say anything I wanted to!! After all, you voice your opinions here, so what makes you better then me??? That's right nothing!!!half this town talks about the other half and then the other half sit back and let ppl like you run over ppl and don't stand up against those who always try to hurt others!!i don't have to explain nothing to anyone and ESP those here but as always it's ok for y'all to run your mouths , run ppl In the ground, talk trash about them, and on and on but the min someone stands up for the other party or themselves your waiting to pounce! Why is that?? Because the truth may come out, or maybe your life is no diff from the ones bashing others or maybe your just bored! I don't know and I don't care I just know if you can't handle what I got to say or don't like it, I can assure you it won't hurt my feelings!! YOUR OPINION OF ME DONT MEAN KRAP, yes i spelled it "KRAP" THANK YOU GRAMMAR POLICE!! Didnt know we had to type or talk a certain way, that should be the least of your worries!!! I find it entertaining you keep up with me Enough to write down the way I talk or post!! Ha but as far as the post, well that's the problem with most of you, you know only what u hear and never the whole truth.. But your quick to jump on here and run them mouths about something I can guarantee you know nothing about!! It's amazing how only a few select awesome ppl like yourself are allowed to get on here and run your mouths!!!! I'm not Gona keep going back and forth either! I voiced my side and opinions and I don't care who agrees and who don't nor do I care what your opinion of me is!!! But for future reference,, you better get all the facts before you are so quick to stick your nose where it Dont belong!!!
Towana said:
"But for future reference,, you better get all the facts...."

So now I will take this opportunity to respond to the facts, as stated by Towana:

"All iV ever tried to do was show them right from wrong!! Teach them what parents are pose to teach their kids!!"----According to who? Where do you get off deciding what parents are "pose" to be teaching their kids?

"you are so quick to stick your nose where it Dont belong!!!"-------yeah, maybe you should heed your own advice Towana. It's not any of your business how your stepchildren's mother raises her children. You on the other hand are her business since her children are subjected to you.

"I'm not their mom but does that really matter when it comes to raising a child?"-------Seriously? Lmao, yes Towana, it does matter. How about you let me parent your child, cause it dont matter, right? And because its ok for me or you or anyone else to make decisions about what we think other parents are "pose" to be teaching their children.
Towana Krapper

Gainesboro, TN

#10 Dec 16, 2013
For someone who claims NOT to care, you sure do a lot of responding, Ironic huh?

By the way, it's "You're" not "Your" Just saying.
If the shoe fits wear it

Pauline, SC

#12 Dec 17, 2013
Towana--- if you think any one is afraid if your ugly ass you are mistaken, you are always wanting someone to confront you, no one has to confront you you actions speak for themselves. It is not your place to teach someone else's children you have your own. You may be "there" to stay as you say, but really you cares maybe you seems like your not even sure of that since you have been married so many times. As far as the children go children know when they are not wanted. We are only hearing your side and not mikes, if the kids say you do not treat them as they should be by you there must me truth to it. Get mad throw a fit, it's not like it just came out of the blue that you are the step-parent from hell. If you don't want them around on those weeks it's mike turn to have why no give them a choice if they want to have visitation with mike or stay with Jennifer, but mike still has to pay child support. Your kids are not the only ones that have feelings you knew mike had those kids before you married him. Those kids are mike and Jennifer' not yours.
Advocate

Knoxville, TN

#13 Dec 17, 2013
If the shoe fits wear it wrote:
Towana--- if you think any one is afraid if your ugly ass you are mistaken, you are always wanting someone to confront you, no one has to confront you you actions speak for themselves. It is not your place to teach someone else's children you have your own. You may be "there" to stay as you say, but really you cares maybe you seems like your not even sure of that since you have been married so many times. As far as the children go children know when they are not wanted. We are only hearing your side and not mikes, if the kids say you do not treat them as they should be by you there must me truth to it. Get mad throw a fit, it's not like it just came out of the blue that you are the step-parent from hell. If you don't want them around on those weeks it's mike turn to have why no give them a choice if they want to have visitation with mike or stay with Jennifer, but mike still has to pay child support. Your kids are not the only ones that have feelings you knew mike had those kids before you married him. Those kids are mike and Jennifer' not yours.
Lets don't start attacking her and making rude comments that are uncalled for. Stick to the topic at hand which is step parenting.

Please don't turn this forum into a petty cat fight. Nobody will take this problem seriously if we dont discuss this in a civilized manner.

And please don't mention names. There was no indication in the initial post of this forum was about. Lets don't make assumptions or guesses. Just take it for what it says.... unless you are clairvoyant.
Article professor

Livingston, TN

#14 Dec 19, 2013
And please don't mention names. There was no indication in the initial post of this forum was about. Lets don't make assumptions or guesses. Just take it for what it says.... unless you are clairvoyant.
Can you not read? The only name calling going on was Towana. She called herself out, maybe a feeling of guilt got to her
OutSider

Cookeville, TN

#15 Dec 31, 2013
If the shoe fits wear it wrote:
Towana--- if you think any one is afraid if your ugly ass you are mistaken, you are always wanting someone to confront you, no one has to confront you you actions speak for themselves. It is not your place to teach someone else's children you have your own. You may be "there" to stay as you say, but really you cares maybe you seems like your not even sure of that since you have been married so many times. As far as the children go children know when they are not wanted. We are only hearing your side and not mikes, if the kids say you do not treat them as they should be by you there must me truth to it. Get mad throw a fit, it's not like it just came out of the blue that you are the step-parent from hell. If you don't want them around on those weeks it's mike turn to have why no give them a choice if they want to have visitation with mike or stay with Jennifer, but mike still has to pay child support. Your kids are not the only ones that have feelings you knew mike had those kids before you married him. Those kids are mike and Jennifer' not yours.
This post is so funny.. why can't Ms. Pippin, Phillips which ever take up for herself? as usual she hides behind someone! or she uses that BADGE to cover big ***. as I see this mud should not be slang cause the law dog is no position to be making accusations or whom ever is for her. Ms. law dog has a history, a track record also. so why do we live in a glass house and throw rocks. Only thing different here is I don't think the public see Towanna out doing the things Ms. Law Dog is. so I thin if I were the people, person, standing behind law dog she will not always wear a badge.
LMAO Calfornia style

Cookeville, TN

#16 Jan 3, 2014
yup I am... I was there and you know it.. LMAO......
Larry

Cookeville, TN

#17 Jan 3, 2014
Where you being hanging your hat today? You always go through th front door not the back people still see you.
Get a life

Gainesboro, TN

#18 Jan 4, 2014
Ok I'm going to put in my input why don't u sorry peice of craps get a life and if ms. Pippin has a problem she called needs to sortit out face to face with towana and let's take a minute and think towana has kids to so u think ms. Pippin isn't a sorry excuse bc she puts towana kids through heck and I mean I cannot stand how y'all say towana mistreats these kids look at them and tell me there being starved they look pretty fine to me and Jennifer is the one passing messages through the kids so come on I find it funny how she sits on her butt stalks her ex husband which can't stand her obviously that's why he's with towana and then she wants to send threats to towana well idk how anybody could even stand looking at themself knowing they was such a sorry excuse for a human and say what u will but Jennifer should maybe stop using BRAD and y'all are some trash to be talking I mean Jennifer is whoring around but nobody wants her and when did grammar start to matter to trash and the truth will leak soon about what ms. Pippin does for money and she does it in uniform
You get a life

Pauline, SC

#19 Jan 5, 2014
Face to face that is all Towana she is worried more about a face to face then the evil step parent wants, Jennifer doesn't' abuse towana's kids that would be Towana learning to abuse other peoples children, heard one of her children got in trouble for lying.. towana is a sorry excuse for a human being and who would have the sorry as$ thing no personality, nasty. towana has been married so many times whore. mike will never tell you that he doesn't still love Jennifer but really he does. Don't worry Towana will meet her maker one of these days. No one cares what you think about Jennifer, if my kids were staying with that piece shit I would ask questions to. Douse bag
Drama Queens

Gainesboro, TN

#20 Jan 5, 2014
2 fugly women, fighting over 1 fugly man (?) and their offspring.
Words fail me.
Truth hurts

Shelby, NC

#21 Jan 5, 2014
Ok lets get things straight this isn't towana maybe if Jennifer's Nast sorry pathetic ass was so worried she should stop hiding behind that badge and she's one to talk shit about towana's kids I mean look at her kids they are far from starved and if Jennifer isn't jealous of towana why can't she go without say towana oh wait she's a jealous bitch who is on drugs and trashy brad is a married man yet Jennifer is sleeping with him and her daughter isn't mikes and even her daughter said that herself so hop off bitch and Jennifer needs to stop being such a whore an take care of her kids and lets remember how sorry Jennifer was when her daughter was first born bc she broke into mikes house and beat that girl mike was dating can u say TRASHY I wish one time just once Jennifer would come face to face with towana but that trashy bitch hides behind that badge

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