Steven M

Dallas, TX

#1 Jun 4, 2012
Many people choose whom they befriend, date, mate with, and marry for the flimsiest of reasons. There are legions of men who marry women for no other real reason than because they were hot, and just as many women who marry men because they have money or power. What about kindness, thoughtfulness, attentiveness, trustworthiness, stability, acceptance, and loyalty? People put so much emphasis on surface traits that they often miss the things that really make other human beings worthwhile.
Did you know that when psychologists interview serial killers, rapists, murderers, and con men, most of them believe that their victims deserved what happened to them? Even the ones that aren’t willing to go that far will usually excuse their own behavior and feel that they had no choice other than to do what they did. Now, if even hardened criminals tend to feel that way, what do you think the chances are that the guy who was rude to you or lied to you feels like he’s a rotten person for doing it? Not very high. Even if they have a conscience and believe what they did was morally wrong, they’re probably not going to judge themselves all that harshly. It’s biological. It’s how Nature built us. So, even if you’re dealing with other Hitlers and Stalins, just remember that they probably think they’re good people.
joe

Pauline, SC

#2 Jun 4, 2012
sounds like someone stepped on your toes
Sleeper

Cookeville, TN

#3 Jun 5, 2012
D.D.S.D.S.S.!!!
Steven M

United States

#4 Jun 5, 2012
Sleeper wrote:
D.D.S.D.S.S.!!!
O.K. I'll bite :-) WTF?
Sleeper

Cookeville, TN

#5 Jun 6, 2012
One of the "Many" BAD people in J.C.!!!
dude

Livingston, TN

#6 Jun 6, 2012
Steven M, we should get together and vanquish the whole lot of them. Fuk them bad guys....We need cool superhero names tho...ill be Desert Eagle and you can be Red Dragon. I ain't about to be someones sidekick, so don't even try that shyt. We can use my car if you pay for gas. You'll have to help think of a cool name for the car....
How About

Lexington, SC

#7 Jun 7, 2012
Truck Stop Tricksee an Bend over Betty an Your Car is Rainbow Brite..
dude

Livingston, TN

#8 Jun 7, 2012
Looks like I've found our first bad guy to do away with, Red Dragon. Hurry! Name the car so I can say something really cool like: Jump in the _______, Dragon! The integriity of the world and Topix may be at stake!(Battle cry)
Guys

Charlotte, NC

#9 Jun 8, 2012
Don't Forget Your Leotards. Tricksee.an Bend Over Betty. an Your Chassis Lube.
wild gal

Pauline, SC

#10 Jun 8, 2012
dude wrote:
Steven M, we should get together and vanquish the whole lot of them. Fuk them bad guys....We need cool superhero names tho...ill be Desert Eagle and you can be Red Dragon. I ain't about to be someones sidekick, so don't even try that shyt. We can use my car if you pay for gas. You'll have to help think of a cool name for the car....
what a bout naming it the dick head mobile
good one

United States

#11 Jun 8, 2012
wild gal wrote:
<quoted text>what a bout naming it the dick head mobile
They could also Smoke Dick Weed. When there done saving J.C.
dude

Livingston, TN

#12 Jun 9, 2012
Haters.....
whats to hate

United States

#13 Jun 9, 2012
dude wrote:
Haters.....
two Panzies wanting to Dress up as Super Heroes .lmfao..
wanderer

Columbia, SC

#14 Jun 9, 2012
wild gal wrote:
<quoted text>what a bout naming it the dick head mobile
That would be naming it after Gainesboro's former garbageman.
Tara

Jamestown, TN

#15 Jun 11, 2012
My husband told me this one day. Hopefully I don't butcher it.
Picture this: A man has an affair with a married woman. The man is clearly aware that the woman is being unfaithful, but he continues on with the deed. How does he do this without feeling guilt? He rationalizes it. The woman tells the man that her husband cheats on her all the time and she's tired of it, or she says her husband is an abuser. This clears the conscious of the man. BUT, she could have said anything. Justifying your actions doesn't take truth. As long as you believe it, you are doing no wrong. Now, let's say the woman decides to get divorced to be with the man. What does he do? If he already knew the woman he is with was an unfaithful type of person, why does he believe she will be faithful to him? Because she says she loves him more? Because her last husband was a bad person? Now let's say these two are together now. And later on down the line, she cheats on him with another man. He eventually finds out. He's in shock that she could do this to him. And naturally, he is angry with the man she was with. He becomes oblivious to the fact that he has done the exact same thing.
And that hun, is called getting what you deserve.
Listen, I can tell by your words that somebody has hurt you. You been cheated on or been broke up with. Just move on. I promise the person doesn't care. That might not be what you want to hear, but they don't. They'll rationalize it anyway they can to prevent from feeling guilty. And if they felt bad about it, it wouldn't happen in the first place. Just remember that that's what will hurt them in the long run. It always does. If you've been hurt, that means others will too. And eventually, they'll get what's coming to them from someone who is just a little bit crazy. That's how it happens. They'll get caught in somebody's house, who just so happens to come home early, and has a tendency of getting a bit violent with a firearm.
If I wasn't married (for eight years :p), I would show you there are still good people out there. I guarantee you don't even look anymore do you? There is someone out there for you. I put my life on it. But if you honestly think the person that has hurt you was the one, you will never be happy. Clearly if they can hurt you, they ain't the one. KEEP LOOKING. Never give up. There are millions of people out there with the same problem. Find them.
Steven M

San Antonio, TX

#16 Jun 11, 2012
Tara wrote:
My husband told me this one day. Hopefully I don't butcher it.
Picture this: A man has an affair with a married woman. The man is clearly aware that the woman is being unfaithful, but he continues on with the deed. How does he do this without feeling guilt? He rationalizes it. The woman tells the man that her husband cheats on her all the time and she's tired of it, or she says her husband is an abuser. This clears the conscious of the man. BUT, she could have said anything. Justifying your actions doesn't take truth. As long as you believe it, you are doing no wrong. Now, let's say the woman decides to get divorced to be with the man. What does he do? If he already knew the woman he is with was an unfaithful type of person, why does he believe she will be faithful to him? Because she says she loves him more? Because her last husband was a bad person? Now let's say these two are together now. And later on down the line, she cheats on him with another man. He eventually finds out. He's in shock that she could do this to him. And naturally, he is angry with the man she was with. He becomes oblivious to the fact that he has done the exact same thing.
And that hun, is called getting what you deserve.
Listen, I can tell by your words that somebody has hurt you. You been cheated on or been broke up with. Just move on. I promise the person doesn't care. That might not be what you want to hear, but they don't. They'll rationalize it anyway they can to prevent from feeling guilty. And if they felt bad about it, it wouldn't happen in the first place. Just remember that that's what will hurt them in the long run. It always does. If you've been hurt, that means others will too. And eventually, they'll get what's coming to them from someone who is just a little bit crazy. That's how it happens. They'll get caught in somebody's house, who just so happens to come home early, and has a tendency of getting a bit violent with a firearm.
If I wasn't married (for eight years :p), I would show you there are still good people out there. I guarantee you don't even look anymore do you? There is someone out there for you. I put my life on it. But if you honestly think the person that has hurt you was the one, you will never be happy. Clearly if they can hurt you, they ain't the one. KEEP LOOKING. Never give up. There are millions of people out there with the same problem. Find them.
I just love how people say "just move on." like turning a page in a book. I'm just supposed to forget and never look back. It's not that easy for me. Yes I got hurt in the worst way I can imagine. Maybe the way it happened was an accident. I dunno.
No I don't look anymore. Why should I? I had what I thought was the perfect partner. I'm not handsome, or a slick talker, I don't have a lot of money, I can't have kids. In other words I have absolutely nothing to offer. Thanks for the kind words. You seem to have a good heart. I hope your husband sees and understands how lucky he is.
Tara

Jamestown, TN

#17 Jun 12, 2012
Steven M wrote:
<quoted text>
I just love how people say "just move on." like turning a page in a book. I'm just supposed to forget and never look back. It's not that easy for me. Yes I got hurt in the worst way I can imagine. Maybe the way it happened was an accident. I dunno.
No I don't look anymore. Why should I? I had what I thought was the perfect partner. I'm not handsome, or a slick talker, I don't have a lot of money, I can't have kids. In other words I have absolutely nothing to offer. Thanks for the kind words. You seem to have a good heart. I hope your husband sees and understands how lucky he is.
You're right, it isn't easy to move on. It's easy to say that when you're not the person hurting. The words have to mean something to you. It's not easy. But it is the only solution sometimes.

Anyway, if you were able to get into a relationship, you can do it again. Putting yourself down about not having money or good looks makes me think that's what your ex partner/s were after. If that is the case then I can see why you're being pessimistic. I think you gave too much of your heart away. You always have to keep a little aside just in case. People can say they will love you forever, but those are just words. And if it is sincere, it can still change with time.

There really is nothing I can say to pick you up. It seems you're done trying. But at the risk of being cliche, only you can change your outlook on things.
I Think

Columbia, SC

#18 Jun 13, 2012
Tara an Steve are One in the Same. So Far Your Love Novel Sucks.

Since: Jan 12

Western Hemisphere

#19 Jun 13, 2012
Steven M wrote:
Many people choose whom they befriend, date, mate with, and marry for the flimsiest of reasons. There are legions of men who marry women for no other real reason than because they were hot, and just as many women who marry men because they have money or power. What about kindness, thoughtfulness, attentiveness, trustworthiness, stability, acceptance, and loyalty? People put so much emphasis on surface traits that they often miss the things that really make other human beings worthwhile.
Most of us are drawn to partners who are attractive and we feel would be good in bed. If we were looking for "kindness, thoughtfulness, attentiveness, trustworthiness, stability, acceptance, and loyalty" we would choose a dog.
WalkingTall

United States

#20 Jun 15, 2012
I agree someone needs to put foot to arse straight through that county,I grew up there,went back a few years ago and was sickened by the amount of my classmates strung out on pills.Its a dam plague blown through the county and needs to be stopped.Anyone with sense knows where the problem lies and Ill give you a hint a hint,a house around the road from the ball field that pushes that shyt through cheesetown,the square and those squatter dopehead apartments off 56 before you get to town.Find the users,muscle them to turn over the pushers,muscle the pushers to give up suppliers,snuff out suppliers you solve the problem.Remember anyone will tell on anyone with the use of a car battery,jumper cables 2 sponges and a tub of water,not that I know anything about that.......but Ive always been good at "motivating" others on completely unrelated to in any way the aforementioned topics at hand.So go forth crime fighters....lol Ill be returning to my country home in a year and I expect to see progress,

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Gainesboro Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
Fake Christians 7 hr victor 5
News Sex offender arrested for public intox 8 hr weedisloveweedislife 33
Dylan hix 9 hr York 5
Stanley Reece 16 hr Goof 3
Blue honda at save a lot today 17 hr White boy 3
Put all the pit bulls down 20 hr Cinchsak 2
News Highway patrol conducts sobriety checkpoints Tue Joey 1

Gainesboro Jobs

Personal Finance

Gainesboro Mortgages