if your wife got pregnant by another ...

if your wife got pregnant by another man..

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hey guys

Redmond, WA

#1 Sep 3, 2010
if your wife got pregnant by another man would you take her back?

ladies are welcome to answer on this if you like....do you think a man would or do you think he'd be nuts too??

Since: Aug 10

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#2 Sep 3, 2010
Not only no but HELL NO!
Wow

Detroit, MI

#3 Sep 3, 2010
As a female...I think u should ask yourself the reverse of this question. Would u expect your wife to take u back if you got another woman pregnant?I expect the answer would be no. I would not expect my husband to take me back if I cheated much less got pregnant. I for one am not a cheater and since I truly love my husband I would never lay with another man in the first place. There are some things a relationship can withstand but I don't think cheating is one of them. I have been cheated on in past relationships and things were never the same.

So I guess my answer is also no.
I think it depends

White House, TN

#4 Sep 3, 2010
There are always two sides to every story. If u weren't giving her what she wanted or needed can you blame her? Or maybe it was something else? But if you did everything you could, then I say she's a wh ore.
lol

United States

#5 Sep 3, 2010
i have a friend that this happened too, her husband took her back bc when she got pregnant they were separated...i know thats a lil off subject, but my point being is...if yall were not together at that moment then I can see where there could be room for forgiveness...but if she was sneaking around cheating on you and got pregnant, then there is absolutely no room for forgiveness and you shouldn't take her back.
It is Franklin

Auburn, KY

#6 Sep 3, 2010
What are you going to wait for? Him/Her to do it again?? Get out while you can!!

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#7 Sep 3, 2010
You would have to really love her to take her back and accept another man's child.
hmmmm

Franklin, KY

#8 Sep 4, 2010
Several things need to be considered... Is this the first time she has cheated or it she a repeat offender? Does the man love her and want the relationship to work? How much forgiveness is in his heart? Would he treat the child differently? This is a hard one and would have to be decided on a case by case basis.
hello

Bowling Green, KY

#9 Sep 5, 2010
hey guys wrote:
if your wife got pregnant by another man would you take her back?
ladies are welcome to answer on this if you like....do you think a man would or do you think he'd be nuts too??
Well considering my husband got another woman pregnant while we was still married and I filed for divorce and I am hapily divorced from him now...NO dont take her back! Cheating is wrong no matter what!
abc

White House, TN

#10 Sep 5, 2010
awww is Dan having problems??? Well if you wouldnt have been cheating the whole time you and her were together then i guess she whouldnt have went out on you....
baaaaaaaa

Redmond, WA

#11 Sep 6, 2010
it's all hitting home with dan now...lost his house,plane,hummer, several businesses, now a wife pregnant by another man.
whoopie...he deserves it all, WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND MR SPEARS.
tom

Geneva, FL

#12 Oct 1, 2012
my wife is pregnet by a black man on our vacation trip
Eeeeeeeew

United States

#13 Oct 1, 2012
Oh wowĄ
And

United States

#14 Oct 1, 2012
She told me to fill her up and check her oil
John

Dunmor, KY

#15 Oct 1, 2012
Hellllll NO! To the person that stated reverse it.
Well said! Anybody that would take anyone back that got pregnant from an affair is in need of some serious help you would have to have a screw loose somewhere.
really

Portland, TN

#16 Oct 2, 2012
There is no reason on any account to cheat. If ur not happy get out. She never should have cheated. Get out while you can.
mac

Franklin, KY

#17 Oct 5, 2012
tom wrote:
my wife is pregnet by a black man on our vacation trip
**pregnant
Rick

Reno, NV

#18 Dec 26, 2012
Me and my wife swperated now shes pregnant by this black dude that wants nothimg to do with her.weve been talkin about getting back together and today she told me she pregnant .shoukd I let go or still try ..will I be able to treat that baby like my own im just lost for words any advise will help
oh no

Tucker, GA

#19 Dec 27, 2012
Rick wrote:
Me and my wife swperated now shes pregnant by this black dude that wants nothimg to do with her.weve been talkin about getting back together and today she told me she pregnant .shoukd I let go or still try ..will I be able to treat that baby like my own im just lost for words any advise will help
My advice Id let it reallllllly sink in before you decide anything...
Old Aunt Betsy

Portland, TN

#20 Dec 27, 2012
Rick wrote:
Me and my wife swperated now shes pregnant by this black dude that wants nothimg to do with her.weve been talkin about getting back together and today she told me she pregnant .shoukd I let go or still try ..will I be able to treat that baby like my own im just lost for words any advise will help
If you can forgive your wife and raise this child as your own then there's nothing to think about. The important thing here is to remember the child is an innocent victim and deserves a loving home. Can you provide that?

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