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#1 Dec 2, 2012
Has anyone ever had a mom lie and lie and lie about u and talk so much shit about you behind your back that isn't true I don't know why she wants to treat her daughter like this she is accusing me of taken shit I didn't even take when she still has it!!! And then try to say I'm a bad mommy to my daughter And acting a fool just because I moved out of my moms her daddy isn't even welcomed In the bitchea house we want to be a family mommy daddy and baby and she doesn't understand that... She's making up lies saying guys r calling her house phone for me when I haven't even been living at her house for two months and I haven't stepped foot in her house I have a sale phone me and my soon to be husband share it because we r faithful to one another and don't cheat she sayin I have a disease and shit she's stupid man fuck her fuck her what would u people do if u were in my situation
#2 Dec 3, 2012
I don't know your family. I don't the facts, except as you tell them.
I do know this: if what you say is true and if your mother is really treating you like this, there is something dreadfully wrong with her and with your relationship with her. I don't think you can fix it. I doubt she can fix it.
What would I do? I would tell her -- no arguments, no accusations, no screaming -- just calmly tell her that you cannot tolerate her lying about you anymore and you are ceasing communications with her. Then do it. That means don't call, don't visit, don't ask for her help, don't borrow money, don't get other family members to tell her stuff, don't ask other family members about her, don't even drive by her house. That's it. Done. You don't need people like that in your life, even if they are related. Blood relations alone don't make a family. It's only a "family" if they treat each other reasonably.
If other family members start to tell you what she said about you, just politely cut them off. Thank them for their concern, then tell them you are not interested in hearing what your mother said about you. Then change the subject. Once she realizes that she cannot get under your skin with lies (either directly or through others), she may stop telling these stories. But even if she doesn't, at least you won't hear about it anymore.
Now, go on about working on your own life -- without her interference.
#3 Dec 3, 2012
Great advice, hope she listens.
#4 Dec 4, 2012
Yea it was great advice and I truly appreciate it
#5 Dec 4, 2012
You're welcome. And good luck in the future!
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