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spy

Lawrenceburg, KY

#1 Apr 10, 2013
I was curious so I spied on my husband for a few days. I didn't think he was cheating just wanted to know what he does when I'm not around. I found out that he bashes me to his family and friends, he makes it sound as if all I ever do is bitch and complain. He talks about other woman a lot and how they were before we married. Should I worry?
Local

Frankfort, KY

#3 Apr 10, 2013
spy wrote:
I was curious so I spied on my husband for a few days. I didn't think he was cheating just wanted to know what he does when I'm not around. I found out that he bashes me to his family and friends, he makes it sound as if all I ever do is bitch and complain. He talks about other woman a lot and how they were before we married. Should I worry?
How did you find that out? Did you put a listening device on him or are you going by someone else's word?
spy

Lawrenceburg, KY

#4 Apr 10, 2013
Local wrote:
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How did you find that out? Did you put a listening device on him or are you going by someone else's word?
let's put it this way I heard it myself come out of his mouth. We hardly see each other because of work and when we do we can't even carry a conversation with each other, we never do anything together anymore. He snips at my every move.
Duh

Antioch, TN

#5 Apr 10, 2013
Then leave him and you both find someone you want to be with.
junkman

United States

#6 Apr 10, 2013
sounds like you have problems i would be very worried
REAL MAN

Frankfort, KY

#7 Apr 10, 2013
Yes you should worry! This man is not loyal to you & has already betrayed your privacy. I was married to a person like this & all she was doing was laying the groundwork to justify her cheating & lying & robbing all the money. What she neglected to tell people when showing texts from me calling her whores & bitches was she was caught repeatedly in lies, getting a veneral disease and hiding it & was caught by me waking up choking as she poured some bitter tasting medicine down my throat.

She was caught eating out all the time by my friends when she should had been working & introduced the guy as a brother of hers who didn't fit the description at all. She neglected to tell her friends that she inherited a lot of money twice & kept it from me & many, many times, she left in the mornings to go to work & instead went cash advance places to borrow four hundred dollars for her to go to hotels to carry out her internet romances.
She never told them she secured 11 different credit cards that we both agreed to never had, including two in my name & defaulted on them. Every time she got busted she would tell another lie to hide a previous lie. Told people she had to get credit cards to buy food when I had to quit working over her even though I worked side jobs & between us both, we made plenty.

i caught her texting late at night all the time & she would throw her phone under the covers. She would always act like she was playing games on her phone & instead be texting. It finally came to a head when sheriffs deputys started bringing civil summons to the door over her defaulting on the cards & I had to call her one day from my boss cell phone & she didn't know the number & point blank thought she was talking to her boyfriend. What a dumbfuck.

I was able to get a transcript of all the purchases on the cards she got in my name & every cent went to her whoring escapades to 200 dollar hotel rooms & paying off her boyfriends utilities & buying him 4,000.00 dollars worth of furniture. I still got the transcript to show what a lying whore she is & although we had kids & she got everything just about, she was forced to pay off all creditcards & I could had had her prosecuted but chose not to harm my children any further than I already did by arguing in front of them. I tried to get her to talk without them around but she would never do it & the kids suffered.
Go ahead & put a stop to it now or you will have to go through what I did and harm your children if you have any. It isn't worth it.
just wondering

Lexington, KY

#8 Apr 10, 2013
spy wrote:
<quoted text> let's put it this way I heard it myself come out of his mouth. We hardly see each other because of work and when we do we can't even carry a conversation with each other, we never do anything together anymore. He snips at my every move.
How can you talk about him being deceitful when you admit you secretly monitored his conversations. Sounds like you are just as bad as him.

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#9 Apr 10, 2013
spy wrote:
I was curious so I spied on my husband for a few days. I didn't think he was cheating just wanted to know what he does when I'm not around. I found out that he bashes me to his family and friends, he makes it sound as if all I ever do is bitch and complain. He talks about other woman a lot and how they were before we married. Should I worry?
So says the woman spying on her husband...
Local

Frankfort, KY

#11 Apr 10, 2013
You two clearly don't have a trusting, loving relationship at this point. The thing is, from what you say, he's not really bashing you behind your back. If you two can't even have a conversation together, he's very unhappy and not hiding that from you. You need to devote more time to your relationship and spend more loving time with him. Otherwise, go your separate ways. You didn't need to spy to know you're relationship had gone bad. The signs are clearly in your face.
ha

Tucker, GA

#15 Apr 10, 2013
decent woman wrote:
You are a trashy long haired slut that smokes. Your husband should dump you for a decent woman with short permed hair!
Ha ha ha ha
Karen Duprey

Frankfort, KY

#16 Apr 10, 2013
He's gay
umm

Clarksville, IN

#17 Apr 10, 2013
spy wrote:
<quoted text>let's put it this way I heard it myself come out of his mouth. We hardly see each other because of work and when we do we can't even carry a conversation with each other, we never do anything together anymore. He snips at my every move.
That still doesn't explain it! How did u hear without him knowing u were there? Were u hiding in a trash can or something?
opp

Frankfort, KY

#18 Apr 10, 2013
quit trying to be inspector gadget and start living. the guys probly says u nag and bitch cause you DO!!
try something different make him happy not you.
casue you are doing something wrong.
Issues

Dayton, OH

#19 Apr 10, 2013
Some of you all are just plain out jerks. She was spying on him because she felt that something was wrong and she was right. My ? would be, why is he talking crap about you behind your back to his family instead of bringing his unhappiness to YOU, his wife? Seems to me he's searching for something to justify his actions, which im sure are sure to come....probably sooner than later! Whether you choose to stay in an unhealthy relationship or not is entirely up to you. But instead of asking people on topix what THEY think. You should spend some time alone and decide what YOU want, what's gonna make YOU happy.....That's the real ?
Jim

Frankfort, KY

#20 Apr 10, 2013
So lets see, you admit to spying, you admit you never see him, yet you heard him bash you. You do realize that is a federal felony with up to 5 years straight in prison for each time you did it? Maybe you should have Topix delete your post before you go down for violating Title 18, Section 2511 of the United States Code?

“This Is Frank Garrett”

Since: Apr 13

Location hidden

#21 Apr 10, 2013
spy wrote:
I was curious so I spied on my husband for a few days. I didn't think he was cheating just wanted to know what he does when I'm not around. I found out that he bashes me to his family and friends, he makes it sound as if all I ever do is bitch and complain. He talks about other woman a lot and how they were before we married. Should I worry?
Sounds like you're kinda paranoid.
Crystal

Grand Forks, ND

#23 Apr 10, 2013
Your worried bout him putting your business in public and your on here. Isnt that ironic
meee

United States

#24 Apr 11, 2013
man wrote:
Yes u should. Quit ur nagging and focus on cooking cleaning and ur other duties as a woman. Women have really gotten out of their place over the years!
If she is cooking, just remember that's where the knives are!:-P
lmao

Tucker, GA

#25 Apr 11, 2013
meee wrote:
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If she is cooking, just remember that's where the knives are!:-P
no if she is cooking thats where the dog shyt is! My husbsnd thinks hes slick haha, so I let him think his texts and emails sent to these sluts at the state building goes unoticed, not! He thinks just cause they are sent from his work email I cant see them wrong again!
Issues

Dayton, OH

#26 Apr 11, 2013
hahaha, first off.. you haven't committed a crime. So dont worry yourself with that crapola. But on the real, if your man is bashing you to any one at any time. Then you need to get rid of him. That show's he has no respect for you, and doesn't really care for you. Hate to say it, but it's true. You spend no time together and when you do he's snippin away at you? Cut the line and move on with your life :)

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